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Oct 12, 2010 11:18 AM CST Everything She Wants!!!111!!!
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
Well, since the "what he or she wants" threads are so contagious, I'll contribute. This in not about women, it's about both genders in a new relationship, and when things change after those first few magical weeks.

Perhaps George Michael's best production (okay, maybe Careless Whisper was).

"I guess I must have loved you.
'Cause I said you were the perfect girl for me,
Maybe...
But now we're six months older...
And everything you want and everything you see,
Is out of reach...not good enough...
I don't know what the hell you want from me but boy" - Wham


Okay, the theme here is how things can change in a new relationship. That first initial take-off can be so awesome---those first 6-8 weeks. You could do no wrong, she could do no wrong. Then after the fireworks are done, and the smoke is settled, new views on our partner emerges, and we think---oh dear, what's up with that? Funny how it didn't matter in the beginning, but then after a while, we start to see things in a different light.

Just thinking out loud here. Funny how everything is perfect in the beginning. Thoughts?




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Oct 12, 2010 11:35 AM CST Everything She Wants!!!111!!!
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
I remain.... optimistic. cool
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Oct 12, 2010 11:37 AM CST Everything She Wants!!!111!!!
opentuit
opentuitopentuitKnoxville, Tennessee USA14 Threads 2 Polls 2,014 Posts
plainlyjune: I remain.... optimistic.



ABSOLUTELY! I think those challenges are an important part of the bonding process that relationships go through. It can be annoying and/or uncomfortable, but I don't think it's a bad thing.
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Oct 12, 2010 11:42 AM CST Everything She Wants!!!111!!!
kcuc0574
kcuc0574kcuc0574Ho Chi Minh, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam10 Threads 3 Polls 2,003 Posts
opentuit: ABSOLUTELY! I think those challenges are an important part of the bonding process that relationships go through. It can be annoying and/or uncomfortable, but I don't think it's a bad thing.


Hi Open,

I dont know why, but i just find SF's posting very funny, grin grin especially when i clicked to open the song, LOL,... bouquet wine
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Oct 12, 2010 11:45 AM CST Everything She Wants!!!111!!!
opentuit
opentuitopentuitKnoxville, Tennessee USA14 Threads 2 Polls 2,014 Posts
kcuc0574: Hi Open,

I dont know why, but i just find SF's posting very funny, especially when i clicked to open the song, LOL,...



Maybe just because it's so dated? Especially his hair!laugh
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Oct 12, 2010 11:47 AM CST Everything She Wants!!!111!!!
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Love changes all of us. Couples grow together as they fall in love ...It cant be helped. wine
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Oct 12, 2010 11:48 AM CST Everything She Wants!!!111!!!
kcuc0574
kcuc0574kcuc0574Ho Chi Minh, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam10 Threads 3 Polls 2,003 Posts
opentuit: Maybe just because it's so dated? Especially his hair!


laugh laugh yr BD is 22 Oct, Open, cheers bouquet wine hug lips
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Oct 12, 2010 11:49 AM CST Everything She Wants!!!111!!!
opentuit
opentuitopentuitKnoxville, Tennessee USA14 Threads 2 Polls 2,014 Posts
kcuc0574: yr BD is 22 Oct, Open,


Yes, it is... I'll be 44. Why?
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Oct 12, 2010 11:49 AM CST Everything She Wants!!!111!!!
ChasingCars
ChasingCarsChasingCarsCrappy Thrappy, Northamptonshire, England UK26 Threads 5 Polls 1,006 Posts
I think at the moment George Michael probably wants a soap on a rope more than anything - apparently his singing in prison has got him a hit in the number 2 slot.
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Oct 12, 2010 11:52 AM CST Everything She Wants!!!111!!!
Serpenta_Manon
Serpenta_ManonSerpenta_ManonHerentals, Antwerpen Belgium19 Threads 1 Polls 2,656 Posts
opentuit: Yes, it is... I'll be 44. Why?


Now everybody nows grin

cheering cheering dance balloons party hat dancing dancing buddies beverage delivery waiter

Is there gonna be a Party?
laugh
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Oct 12, 2010 11:52 AM CST Everything She Wants!!!111!!!
opentuit
opentuitopentuitKnoxville, Tennessee USA14 Threads 2 Polls 2,014 Posts
ChasingCars: I think at the moment George Michael probably wants a soap on a rope more than anything - apparently his singing in prison has got him a hit in the number 2 slot.


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

Are you this good live... I would LOVE to party with you sometime!!thumbs up
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Oct 12, 2010 11:52 AM CST Everything She Wants!!!111!!!
tina_olson
tina_olsontina_olsonWestby, Wisconsin USA1 Threads 694 Posts
Well its been 17 months that I met mine on here and its still going strong and extremely hot!! grin Never been happierheart beating
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Oct 12, 2010 11:52 AM CST Everything She Wants!!!111!!!
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
venusenvy: Love changes all of us. Couples grow together as they fall in love ...It cant be helped.


Yes, understood. However, my point is growing out of love. A lot of relationships fall flat after the initial take-off phase of those 6-8 magical weeks. Things that were seen as cool and funny at first, all of the sudden become not so funny, and we tell our partners this, or we keep it bottled up and wonder what we got into. There are many reasons for this.

Now, I have my explanations for this process, but I'll hold off for now since I am pounding beers (long story). I just want to see more views here.
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Oct 12, 2010 11:54 AM CST Everything She Wants!!!111!!!
opentuit
opentuitopentuitKnoxville, Tennessee USA14 Threads 2 Polls 2,014 Posts
Serpenta_Manon: Now everybody nows



Is there gonna be a Party?



Everybody knows.... not sure it matters much!dunno laugh
Thanks for all those cheerful emotes though!!cheers
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Oct 12, 2010 11:54 AM CST Everything She Wants!!!111!!!
Serpenta_Manon
Serpenta_ManonSerpenta_ManonHerentals, Antwerpen Belgium19 Threads 1 Polls 2,656 Posts
opentuit: Everybody knows.... not sure it matters much!
Thanks for all those cheerful emotes though!!



You're welcome!

cheers
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Oct 12, 2010 11:55 AM CST Everything She Wants!!!111!!!
kcuc0574
kcuc0574kcuc0574Ho Chi Minh, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam10 Threads 3 Polls 2,003 Posts
opentuit: Yes, it is... I'll be 44. Why?


just a little curious, ... grin grin bouquet
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Oct 12, 2010 11:56 AM CST Everything She Wants!!!111!!!
ChasingCars
ChasingCarsChasingCarsCrappy Thrappy, Northamptonshire, England UK26 Threads 5 Polls 1,006 Posts
opentuit: Are you this good live... I would LOVE to party with you sometime!!


Thank you kindly ma'am - what a huge compliment blushing . I can be quite entertaining when plied with a little alcohol laugh
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Oct 12, 2010 12:03 PM CST Everything She Wants!!!111!!!
afterbam
afterbamafterbamP.A., Pennsylvania USA18 Threads 2,006 Posts
StressFree: Well, since the "what he or she wants" threads are so contagious, I'll contribute. This in not about women, it's about both genders in a new relationship, and when things change after those first few magical weeks.

Perhaps George Michael's best production (okay, maybe Careless Whisper was).

"I guess I must have loved you.
'Cause I said you were the perfect girl for me,
Maybe...
But now we're six months older...
And everything you want and everything you see,
Is out of reach...not good enough...
I don't know what the hell you want from me but boy" - WhamOkay, the theme here is how things can change in a new relationship. That first initial take-off can be so awesome---those first 6-8 weeks. You could do no wrong, she could do no wrong. Then after the fireworks are done, and the smoke is settled, new views on our partner emerges, and we think---oh dear, what's up with that? Funny how it didn't matter in the beginning, but then after a while, we start to see things in a different light.

Just thinking out loud here. Funny how everything is perfect in the beginning. Thoughts?


cool!!..in the good and in the bad...cheers
who next?uh oh
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Oct 12, 2010 12:05 PM CST Everything She Wants!!!111!!!
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
All relationships begin in projection. All projection occurs unconsciously, the force that pulls two people together (usually a combination of complexes,) is the same energy that can eventually force them apart. Love hate relationships demonstrate these polar opposites quite well.
More often than not the unconscious dynamic that drove two people together may one day come to the surface, and what they see is seldom a pretty picture.

uh oh
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Oct 12, 2010 12:16 PM CST Everything She Wants!!!111!!!
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
afterbam: cool!!..in the good and in the bad...
who next?


I'll stop the world and MELT WITH YOUwink


bodleing: All relationships begin in projection. All projection occurs unconsciously, the force that pulls two people together (usually a combination of complexes,) is the same energy that can eventually force them apart. Love hate relationships demonstrate these polar opposites quite well.
More often than not the unconscious dynamic that drove two people together may one day come to the surface, and what they see is seldom a pretty picture.


Have you been reading the book of Ra? laugh

Agreed though---energy and projection can work both ways since it never stays still for many people. Rule it, don't let it rule you due to labels and indoctrinations projected by Hollywood and Romanticism.

I will say that a lot of relationships do begin in projection, but not all of them. Some people are beyond the rabbit hole and see things in their true lightwink
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