Online Jealousy ( Archived) (48)

oh it happens and it happens and i dont think it 'doesnt count' as to ones character because it is 'only online'

why would the standards of behavior be any different?

supposedly we all pride ourselves on showing exactly who we are
so many love to say 'i am me period'

well those me's have made fake profiles to tempt another's mate

they have received info within a trusted relationship and then bent it and spoon fed it to someone else and stood back while the someone else went into a frenzy for many months (because of false information) and stalked and terrorized the first person-
who only shared with a supposed friend

im sorry but online or not
whether a couple has met or not

people that will have these behaviors over something 'unreal' like an online relationship?

rather frightening to imagine their responses in 'the real world'



im sorry but wrong is wrong and crazy is crazy- regardless of the framework its in

I have had people who have contacted me get mad because I do not stop posting on the forums. But you see I do not understand nor do I want to understand what the big deal is. Now jealousie in my life has no place. If I cannot trust you we aren't in a relationship. And same goes if you do not trust me. But I do realize there are alot of people on here who have had bad experiances in relationships. For that I am truthfully sorry you have had those bad experiances. But I am not looking to take anyone hostage or be held hostage. Can't we just all get a long

I see it all to often, but it happens regularly and all too often. I reckon all arguments should be kept between the parties concerned in private but occasionally it an boil over to the forums.

This happens but as long as the parties do not prolong the argument, understandable and can be ignored as long as they get the argument back in private ASAP

As always JMO

for me the whole concept of relationship "on line" sounds sketchy..

unfortunately there are many players online just playing with peoples emotions and along with that are probably a lot of psycos who have had enough of getting "played" and possibly they "snapped" ?? just my opinion but im guessing the answer to your question is yes this is probably happening a lot online.

And in real life

Jealousy and revenge have no place in any healthy relationship, whether real or through an online friendship/budding relationship. I don't care whether the two people have met or not, jealousy in any form can be destructive and is a useless emotion.

If someone has been talking w/ me awhile and grows interested in someone else and I have never met that other person, why would I be jealous or angry?? You can't make someone be with you in any way if they don't want to be with you (reality wise or in an online capacity either)..plain and simple.

If someone expects me to be jealous, so sorry to disappoint, but not going to happen....people just need to get a grip and grow up, show maturity and stop being so easily upset..you should never sweat the small stuff in life you can't control.

I dont know how you can get jealous of a photograph, cus basically that's all you have of someone online not the real person, flirting by words written in a message are not really spoken from the persons mouth, so any one who becomes jealous of a so called online partner has obvious mental issues......