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Nov 14, 2010 3:13 PM CST Why? (rhetorical question)
Weimarlady
WeimarladyWeimarladySouth, Xlokk Malta29 Threads 5 Polls 1,305 Posts
Why is it that sometimes the things you dream to have/see/hear from the person you love, are NEVER given to you, whereas you meet a total stranger and he is ready to give you that exact thing but, sadly, in this case it means nothing to you?

Why these discrepancies? It sure seems that the postmen responsible for delivering our wishes and desires are either drunk or asleep on the job most of the time? dunno

(Just feeling a bit down tonight...)
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Nov 14, 2010 3:22 PM CST Why? (rhetorical question)
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
Have you let this person know what it is you'd like from them?


hug bouquet
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Nov 14, 2010 3:26 PM CST Why? (rhetorical question)
lucynad
lucynadlucynadSunny city, Sicilia Italy7 Threads 2,431 Posts
kidatheart: Have you let this person know what it is you'd like from them?


that's a fondamental question... thumbs up wink


oh, boy,kid laugh

with this face you can say everything...wink

i had a crush for him "huge like a house" as we say in italian

and i guess i have never really got over him... wink laugh :wave
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Nov 14, 2010 3:30 PM CST Why? (rhetorical question)
billyj1
billyj1billyj1Sydney, New South Wales Australia12 Threads 2 Polls 801 Posts
Well turn the total stranger into a known guy and go from there if you still like him.
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Nov 14, 2010 3:31 PM CST Why? (rhetorical question)
Elmorya
ElmoryaElmoryaMidrand, Gauteng South Africa5 Threads 484 Posts
Maybe they're scared of your bodyguard (the dog!)
Naw! Just kidding - maybe he cannot say it (doesn't have the gift of garb), but can demonstrate it in other ways:

A nice gift he may buy.
Take you to a romantic dinner & movie, where the hero says all that he wants to say.
Flowers, when you least expect them!
A nice long ride along the coast is his convertible coupe car.

Well - hope something good does happen for you!bouquet
teddybear
Ps hug to cheer you up
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Nov 14, 2010 3:46 PM CST Why? (rhetorical question)
Weimarlady
WeimarladyWeimarladySouth, Xlokk Malta29 Threads 5 Polls 1,305 Posts
Sure, Kid, I have. (and hi! hug )

billyj1: Well turn the total stranger into a known guy and go from there if you still like him.


This actually makes sense... If only it was so easy to connect with people on all levels...

Elmorya, thanks for the ideas, the person is sadly in the past now though (or else I wouldn't be here).
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Nov 14, 2010 5:02 PM CST Why? (rhetorical question)
xxDandelionxx
xxDandelionxxxxDandelionxxunknown, Hampshire, England UK8 Threads 2,525 Posts
Weimarlady: Why is it that sometimes the things you dream to have/see/hear from the person you love, are NEVER given to you, whereas you meet a total stranger and he is ready to give you that exact thing but, sadly, in this case it means nothing to you?

Why these discrepancies? It sure seems that the postmen responsible for delivering our wishes and desires are either drunk or asleep on the job most of the time?

(Just feeling a bit down tonight...)


Its about timing. Its what life is based on. You may meet the person you believe you are supposed to be with or you are attracted to, but they do not. Not at that time.....

And vice versa.

There may even be someone you encounter at any given time and may not particularly inter-act with well - at THAT time. At another time......

All the circumstances have to be right, not just the person.

When my mother first met my father, she didn't really like him.... they were together for nearly 25 years, til his death! The circumstances by which I have met my fella are not the usual but....

It happens! Keep the faith, my friend. handshake
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Nov 14, 2010 5:08 PM CST Why? (rhetorical question)
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton, North Carolina USA76 Threads 2 Polls 2,278 Posts
Its a shame but i have noticed over the years that some people just don't take the time to really listen to what we have to say.When you bring it up to them,they look at you like you are crazy and said,well why didn't you say so.
People need to really listen,not just act like they are.wave hug
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Nov 14, 2010 5:11 PM CST Why? (rhetorical question)
JSuburbia
JSuburbiaJSuburbiaOrbisonia, Pennsylvania USA17 Threads 2,518 Posts
demonfairy: Its a shame but i have noticed over the years that some people just don't take the time to really listen to what we have to say.When you bring it up to them,they look at you like you are crazy and said,well why didn't you say so.
People need to really listen,not just act like they are.
thumbs up
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Nov 14, 2010 6:36 PM CST Why? (rhetorical question)
Bental
BentalBentalAttard, Majjistral Malta2 Threads 574 Posts
Weimarlady: Why is it that sometimes the things you dream to have/see/hear from the person you love, are NEVER given to you, whereas you meet a total stranger and he is ready to give you that exact thing but, sadly, in this case it means nothing to you?

Why these discrepancies? It sure seems that the postmen responsible for delivering our wishes and desires are either drunk or asleep on the job most of the time?

(Just feeling a bit down tonight...)



Why?

Because pigs don't fly.

Who knows why? I think it is because sometimes, we (us men in particular) are stupid and do not really value the person who adores us.

Very sad but true. It seems that we value more extrinsics then intrinsics.

None the less, Weimarlady, keep your chin up and push on. Don't loose heart. You will get there.hug
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Nov 15, 2010 1:33 AM CST Why? (rhetorical question)
gininitaly
gininitalygininitalyPadova, Veneto Italy23 Threads 2,454 Posts
One of the conundrums of life.... right up there with timing, fate and luck. dunno
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Nov 15, 2010 1:41 AM CST Why? (rhetorical question)
gininitaly
gininitalygininitalyPadova, Veneto Italy23 Threads 2,454 Posts
Bental: Why?

Because pigs don't fly.

Who knows why? I think it is because sometimes, we (us men in particular) are stupid and do not really value the person who adores us.

Very sad but true. It seems that we value more extrinsics then intrinsics.

None the less, Weimarlady, keep your chin up and push on. Don't loose heart. You will get there.


That is pretty right on. It probably has to do with most males nature imperative... while we fluff and nest and want to keep tabs on the emotional well being of those near to us.

One of the gods little jokes sigh .
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