In a fledgling relationship...who is more likely to draw the line as to how much of their past they are willing to divulge to their new partner..the man or the woman?
And what if that decision causes your partner to feel you are not being forthcoming...and/or "holding out" (hiding things?)
I think it has more to do with a person as an individual,regardless of gender.If your partner thinks you're being dishonest or secretive I think it would be best to really think about why you are uncomfortable disclosing certain information to this person and maybe question why,if it is a new relationship,this person distrusts your personal discretion.To me,in my personal opinion,not wanting to tell all to a new partner is something that should be respected.
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And what if that decision causes your partner to feel you are not being forthcoming...and/or "holding out" (hiding things?)