Friendship, is it possible? ( Archived) (30)

Nov 23, 2010 1:45 PM CST Friendship, is it possible?
spnglish
spnglishspnglishBrookhaven, Mississippi USA16 Threads 57 Posts
Hi everyone,

Is it possible to be just a friend with an ex? Does it matter if the breakup was good or bad, does that factor in somehow?detective uncertain hmmm
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Nov 23, 2010 1:46 PM CST Friendship, is it possible?
StillOfTheNight
StillOfTheNightStillOfTheNightClarenville Area, Newfoundland Canada11 Threads 2,832 Posts
It could work but never did for me
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Nov 23, 2010 1:46 PM CST Friendship, is it possible?
Olsojente
OlsojenteOlsojenteOslo/Zadar, Oslo Norway51 Threads 5 Polls 5,070 Posts
Didn't you just ask something similar?dunno confused
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Nov 23, 2010 2:23 PM CST Friendship, is it possible?
jackal_250
jackal_250jackal_250Tacoma, Washington USA1 Threads 4 Posts
I have an ex that wants to be friends after a 8 year relationship. It has been a very rough road, and presently we are ignoring each other. I think it depends on the person. I committ way to much of myself and then when thinks fall apart, I'm way to hurt to even see them. It makes me wonder if the person whom wants to be friends after a relationship wasn't as committed to the relationship?
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Nov 23, 2010 2:27 PM CST Friendship, is it possible?
JSuburbia
JSuburbiaJSuburbiaOrbisonia, Pennsylvania USA17 Threads 2,518 Posts
spnglish: Hi everyone,

Is it possible to be just a friend with an ex? Does it matter if the breakup was good or bad, does that factor in somehow?
Of course it's possible...and in a sense it doesn't matter if it is good or bad, but it does help if it was a friendly breakup
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Nov 23, 2010 2:30 PM CST Friendship, is it possible?
taff1
taff1taff1Malta, Majjistral Malta18 Threads 1,592 Posts
Yes it's possible. I've managed to stay friends with my ex after almost 8 years together, plus it wasn't the greatest of break ups either. I guess we realised that we'd done enough fighting when we were together so why carry on afterwards. laugh
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Nov 23, 2010 3:22 PM CST Friendship, is it possible?
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
In response to: Hi everyone,

Is it possible to be just a friend with an ex? Does it matter if the breakup was good or bad, does that factor in somehow?


Im still on friendly terms with my ex,its a bit different now he has married again..wave
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Nov 23, 2010 3:35 PM CST Friendship, is it possible?
Honestperson
HonestpersonHonestpersondublin, Dublin Ireland11 Threads 69 Posts
spnglish: Hi everyone,

Is it possible to be just a friend with an ex? Does it matter if the breakup was good or bad, does that factor in somehow?

why would i be in touch with someone i could"nt stay with in relationdunno
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Nov 23, 2010 3:36 PM CST Friendship, is it possible?
englishelegance
englisheleganceenglisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK76 Threads 1 Polls 3,025 Posts
spnglish: Hi everyone,

Is it possible to be just a friend with an ex? Does it matter if the breakup was good or bad, does that factor in somehow?


No,.. in my opinion the past is best left in the past. The relationship you had was fine at the time, but exes should be history. Life is a series of chapters in a book and each one should be viewed with a fresh perspective. Good luck wave
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Nov 23, 2010 3:41 PM CST Friendship, is it possible?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
When there are children we have to be "friends" and share family activities like weddings, school graduations, etc. but in a proper sense to be friend with my ex, no way for me.

bouquet
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Nov 23, 2010 3:42 PM CST Friendship, is it possible?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
taff1: Yes it's possible. I've managed to stay friends with my ex after almost 8 years together, plus it wasn't the greatest of break ups either. I guess we realised that we'd done enough fighting when we were together so why carry on afterwards.


Hi Taff good to see you.
I hope you are fine!

wave
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Nov 23, 2010 3:45 PM CST Friendship, is it possible?
Desertguy49
Desertguy49Desertguy49South Western Desert, Arizona USA7 Threads 2,259 Posts
I think it all depends on the circumstances of the breakup...I can be civil to my ex wife as I would be to a stranger, but not friends as in a true friendship. JMO
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Nov 23, 2010 3:47 PM CST Friendship, is it possible?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
lifeisadream: When there are children we have to be "friends" and share family activities like weddings, school graduations, etc. but in a proper sense to be friend with my ex, no way for me.

Yes it is possible, I am still friends with my ex, though we don't see each other we keep in touch, and we still have our children in common. grin angel devil
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Nov 23, 2010 3:47 PM CST Friendship, is it possible?
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
Anything in life is possible..me giving up chocolate forever is possible..conversing
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Nov 23, 2010 3:52 PM CST Friendship, is it possible?
I am still friends with my 18 year old son's father. My 13 year old daughter is there right now (not related to him). We are having Thanksgiving Dinner there...we live in a small town and we all get along. He will go to my Dad's with us for Christmas, but we will never be together as a couple. We've both moved on. But still do things together.
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Nov 23, 2010 3:54 PM CST Friendship, is it possible?
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
Friends, yesh.
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Nov 23, 2010 4:04 PM CST Friendship, is it possible?
lilmamma71
lilmamma71lilmamma71St. Louis, Missouri USA31 Threads 1,345 Posts
spnglish: Hi everyone,

Is it possible to be just a friend with an ex? Does it matter if the breakup was good or bad, does that factor in somehow?


I have mixed opinions about this topic..on one hand the ex is an ex for a reason, but that doesn't have to necessarily mean you can't be friends.

I think depending on the reasons a relationship ended and other factors can determine whether or not the two can be friends, but I see no reason if both are willing and not still having romantic feelings for each other.
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Nov 23, 2010 4:20 PM CST Friendship, is it possible?
zdeathangelz
zdeathangelzzdeathangelzjacksonville, Florida USA22 Threads 3,743 Posts
dunno anything and everything is possible in life,as long as the 2 person wants the same thing and are willing to work together dunno
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Nov 23, 2010 4:30 PM CST Friendship, is it possible?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
zdeathangelz: anything and everything is possible in life,as long as the 2 person wants the same thing and are willing to work together


I was about to post something similar.
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Nov 23, 2010 5:34 PM CST Friendship, is it possible?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
I suppose its possible but Id rather not thanks uh oh
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