There comes a tme when the open hand of love must close and become a fist of the fight for survival! ( Archived) (62)

Dec 1, 2010 8:55 PM CST There comes a tme when the open hand of love must close and become a fist of the fight for survival!
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
very mad
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Dec 1, 2010 8:57 PM CST There comes a tme when the open hand of love must close and become a fist of the fight for survival!
katt1017
katt1017katt1017Southern, New Hampshire USA67 Threads 10 Polls 1,384 Posts
OK, I'll ask.

What's up with that?
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Dec 1, 2010 8:59 PM CST There comes a tme when the open hand of love must close and become a fist of the fight for survival!
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton, North Carolina USA76 Threads 2 Polls 2,278 Posts
confused
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Dec 1, 2010 9:02 PM CST There comes a tme when the open hand of love must close and become a fist of the fight for survival!
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
When a well is dry and no one cares enough to dig out the mud...what is left is bitter and hard.
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Dec 1, 2010 9:07 PM CST There comes a tme when the open hand of love must close and become a fist of the fight for survival!
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
and so it is!!!
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Dec 1, 2010 9:09 PM CST There comes a tme when the open hand of love must close and become a fist of the fight for survival!
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
popcorn violin
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Dec 1, 2010 9:10 PM CST There comes a tme when the open hand of love must close and become a fist of the fight for survival!
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
People can only take so much, without giving back, else the land revolts.....so it is with a man.

I am left barren!
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Dec 1, 2010 9:12 PM CST There comes a tme when the open hand of love must close and become a fist of the fight for survival!
having a bad night?
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Dec 1, 2010 9:13 PM CST There comes a tme when the open hand of love must close and become a fist of the fight for survival!
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
This is the kindness in your soul! popcorn and violin ridicule!
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Dec 1, 2010 9:17 PM CST There comes a tme when the open hand of love must close and become a fist of the fight for survival!
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
gemeh22: having a bad night?
When your world comes down and all you get is popcorn and violin ridicule.....and no one to talk to or cares. To know one is truely alone and dead to the world. Yes! it is bad covered without caring.
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Dec 1, 2010 9:21 PM CST There comes a tme when the open hand of love must close and become a fist of the fight for survival!
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
The love of many shall wax cold!
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Dec 1, 2010 9:23 PM CST There comes a tme when the open hand of love must close and become a fist of the fight for survival!
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton, North Carolina USA76 Threads 2 Polls 2,278 Posts
comfort Maybe if you explain why you are feeling so low we can give you words of encouragement.Its hard to under stand when we don't know whats going on you no.
Maybe after a good nights sleep you will feel better,we all have lonely moments,around the holidays it gets worse.hug bouquet

Theres days when we think its bad,then i see people suffering threw each day and realize how lucky i am.Count your blessings,think of positive things,instead of what ever it is,seems to make each day easier.
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Dec 1, 2010 9:24 PM CST There comes a tme when the open hand of love must close and become a fist of the fight for survival!
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
RillyNiceGuy: The love of many shall wax cold!
why all the drama? a lot of us have been hurt in life, ( including myself) ..no reason to be angry at the whole world..the violin was a statement that drama isnt gonna make things better.. just my opinion here but it also wont create attraction.
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Dec 1, 2010 9:30 PM CST There comes a tme when the open hand of love must close and become a fist of the fight for survival!
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
Swissblueeyes: why all the drama? a lot of us have been hurt in life, ( including myself) ..no reason to be angry at the whole world..the violin was a statement that drama isnt gonna make things better.. just my opinion here but it also wont create attraction.
Excuse the hell out of me!
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Dec 1, 2010 9:34 PM CST There comes a tme when the open hand of love must close and become a fist of the fight for survival!
pierrot_le_fou
pierrot_le_foupierrot_le_fouRiyadh, Ar Riyad Saudi Arabia8 Threads 1 Polls 582 Posts
comfort Tomorrow will be a better day comfort
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Dec 1, 2010 9:40 PM CST There comes a tme when the open hand of love must close and become a fist of the fight for survival!
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
Swissblueeyes: why all the drama? a lot of us have been hurt in life, ( including myself) ..no reason to be angry at the whole world..the violin was a statement that drama isnt gonna make things better.. just my opinion here but it also wont create attraction.


thumbs up

Vive
Live
Nada te llevarás cuando te marches
You will take nothing with you
Cuando se acerque el día de tu final,
When the time comes
Vive feliz ahora mientras puedes
Be happy while you can
Tal vez mañana no tengas tiempo
Maybe, tomorrow you will have no time
.....
Trata de ser feliz con lo que tienes
Try to be happy with what you have
Vive la vida intensamente
Live your life with passion
Luchando lo conseguirás
fighting for it you will get it

wine
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Dec 1, 2010 9:49 PM CST There comes a tme when the open hand of love must close and become a fist of the fight for survival!
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
lifeisadream: Vive
Live
Nada te llevarás cuando te marches
You will take nothing with you
Cuando se acerque el día de tu final,
When the time comes
Vive feliz ahora mientras puedes
Be happy while you can
Tal vez mañana no tengas tiempo
Maybe, tomorrow you will have no time
.....
Trata de ser feliz con lo que tienes
Try to be happy with what you have
Vive la vida intensamente
Live your life with passion
Luchando lo conseguirás
fighting for it you will get it
thumbs up I agree..
Also for every minute we allow someone to make us unhappy is a minute in time we will never get back..
Life is too short to let anyone take our happiness away.
I had to learn the hard way that to get happiness we need to help create it first within ourselves..Another thing about human nature is, most people are attracted to someone who is smiling and happy..If we want love or friendship we have to overcome our disappointments in life and put on a happy brave face to others to be open to receive the smiles back..Smile and the world will smile with you..cheers
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Dec 1, 2010 10:13 PM CST There comes a tme when the open hand of love must close and become a fist of the fight for survival!
solitare
solitaresolitareBariloche, Rio Negro Argentina40 Threads 4,041 Posts
Swissblueeyes: I agree..
Also for every minute we allow someone to make us unhappy is a minute in time we will never get back..
Life is too short to let anyone take our happiness away.
I had to learn the hard way that to get happiness we need to help create it first within ourselves..Another thing about human nature is, most people are attracted to someone who is smiling and happy..If we want love or friendship we have to overcome our disappointments in life and put on a happy brave face to others to be open to receive the smiles back..Smile and the world will smile with you..



Good sentiments and well said; however, sometimes it is not others but ourselves that make us unhappy to varying degrees. It can range from something we did or something that we have not done and whatever it is, we cannot undo it or take it back and we do not get second chances. Sometimes it is a simple as an introduction gone totally wrong and there is no second chance to make a first impression; you can put on the happy faces you like but inside you know and it will eat away at you. Time may heal, but then again it may not and 'it' will fester, there in an anguished corner of your heart. Sometimes, there are things that we cannot deal with and cannot find solace from...moping
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Dec 1, 2010 10:24 PM CST There comes a tme when the open hand of love must close and become a fist of the fight for survival!
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
solitare: Good sentiments and well said; however, sometimes it is not others but ourselves that make us unhappy to varying degrees. It can range from something we did or something that we have not done and whatever it is, we cannot undo it or take it back and we do not get second chances. Sometimes it is a simple as an introduction gone totally wrong and there is no second chance to make a first impression; you can put on the happy faces you like but inside you know and it will eat away at you. Time may heal, but then again it may not and 'it' will fester, there in an anguished corner of your heart. Sometimes, there are things that we cannot deal with and cannot find solace from...
I agree and sometimes the hardest thing for any of us is to admit when we make or made mistakes in a relationsip or friendships.. Not necessarily to beat ourselves up over it but to learn from it..I suppose we all have coping mechanisims but I found out that lashing out at others does not make it better.. Moving on and focus on happier things helps me. Some people dont get over hurts or heartaches because the anger feels good to them at the time, but all it does is just eats you up inside and isolates you from a better life..Just putting my opinion up because it has helped me in the past to learn from this..maybe it could help someone else too?
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Dec 2, 2010 5:00 AM CST There comes a tme when the open hand of love must close and become a fist of the fight for survival!
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
Swissblueeyes: I agree and sometimes the hardest thing for any of us is to admit when we make or made mistakes in a relationsip or friendships.. Not necessarily to beat ourselves up over it but to learn from it..I suppose we all have coping mechanisims but I found out that lashing out at others does not make it better.. Moving on and focus on happier things helps me. Some people dont get over hurts or heartaches because the anger feels good to them at the time, but all it does is just eats you up inside and isolates you from a better life..Just putting my opinion up because it has helped me in the past to learn from this..maybe it could help someone else too?
Your wisedom is far from having anything to do with the situation. Not even close!
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