Harmless Flirting...Is It Really?? (21)
wikked: I think that true flirting is an "art"...(JMO)
However, is flirting really harmless? Can it be misconstrued as genuine interest (or is it genuine interest?)...Can one step over the line doing this..or is there some unspoken ground rules that is automatically understood up front?
However, is flirting really harmless? Can it be misconstrued as genuine interest (or is it genuine interest?)...Can one step over the line doing this..or is there some unspoken ground rules that is automatically understood up front?
It's fun to flirt and make respectful innuendos with those that you know can take it and also dish it out, but someone who is not familiar with the poster could take such actions seriously or the wrong way...
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I think as long as a person is aware you are off limits flirting should be fun at all times.
Flirting can be taken the wrong way completely by some and i think it fair to make yourself understood by all that you are purely having a giggle...
Now pucker up n give me a snog
Flirting can be taken the wrong way completely by some and i think it fair to make yourself understood by all that you are purely having a giggle...
Now pucker up n give me a snog
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Desertguy49: It's fun to flirt and make respectful innuendos with those that you know can take it and also dish it out, but someone who is not familiar with the poster could take such actions seriously or the wrong way...
I think that if you live a continent away it would be understood that it is merely flirting...
but i was more interested in "real life" situation...like a party or social function...
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wikked: I think that true flirting is an "art"...(JMO)
However, is flirting really harmless? Can it be misconstrued as genuine interest (or is it genuine interest?)...Can one step over the line doing this..or is there some unspoken ground rules that is automatically understood up front?
Ok, I had a whole book typed out, but it got really off topic..So, I will simply say, yes, in my opnion, flirting can be harmless..but it can also be misconstrued as genuine interest. It really depends on the individuals involved, what relationship they have with one another and in a sense, the reasoning ability of some.However, is flirting really harmless? Can it be misconstrued as genuine interest (or is it genuine interest?)...Can one step over the line doing this..or is there some unspoken ground rules that is automatically understood up front?
In essance I think it really depends on the individuals involved.
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Amity: I think as long as a person is aware you are off limits flirting should be fun at all times.
Flirting can be taken the wrong way completely by some and i think it fair to make yourself understood by all that you are purely having a giggle...
Now pucker up n give me a snog
Flirting can be taken the wrong way completely by some and i think it fair to make yourself understood by all that you are purely having a giggle...
Now pucker up n give me a snog
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Amity: I think as long as a person is aware you are off limits flirting should be fun at all times.
Flirting can be taken the wrong way completely by some and i think it fair to make yourself understood by all that you are purely having a giggle...
Now pucker up n give me a snog
Flirting can be taken the wrong way completely by some and i think it fair to make yourself understood by all that you are purely having a giggle...
Now pucker up n give me a snog
lips:
MMMM baby that was GR8:
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Desertguy49: lips:
MMMM baby that was GR8:
MMMM baby that was GR8:
and to Tom
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JSuburbia: Ok, I had a whole book typed out, but it got really off topic..So, I will simply say, yes, in my opnion, flirting can be harmless..but it can also be misconstrued as genuine interest. It really depends on the individuals involved, what relationship they have with one another and in a sense, the reasoning ability of some.
In essance I think it really depends on the individuals involved.
In essance I think it really depends on the individuals involved.
Some people are "natural born" flirts...so they do it subconsciously...don't they?
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Flirting is light hearted and fun...It should never cause harm. I wouldnt flirt with a man that was taken, thats a cardinal rule. But in my experience, I have never met a man that didnt like it so far. One of the things I love about men is they jump right in and banter back 
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venusenvy: Flirting is light hearted and fun...It should never cause harm. I wouldnt flirt with a man that was taken, thats a cardinal rule. But in my experience, I have never met a man that didnt like it so far. One of the things I love about men is they jump right in and banter back
I totally agree with that V!
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JSuburbia: Ok, I had a whole book typed out, but it got really off topic..So, I will simply say, yes, in my opnion, flirting can be harmless..but it can also be misconstrued as genuine interest. It really depends on the individuals involved, what relationship they have with one another and in a sense, the reasoning ability of some.
In essance I think it really depends on the individuals involved.
In essance I think it really depends on the individuals involved.
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wikked: I think that if you live a continent away it would be understood that it is merely flirting...
but i was more interested in "real life" situation...like a party or social function...
but i was more interested in "real life" situation...like a party or social function...
I don't think there's any ground rules, as long as you're not offending someone. It could go in either direction in person to person contact. I think it depends on whether you are serious or not and how far you take it, and the manner in which the recipient responds. It's usually not to hard to read into. JMO
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flirting is harmless although it is true or not.
for me, i also like flirting sometimes, it will help us not headaches, but sometimes i feel dizzy if ppl flirting all the time, it depend on how healthy that day i will be,
i think we rarely find flirting happen in politics, religious, scientific threads,... and actually sometimes these threads seem very boring for me, 
but it is okay 
for me, i also like flirting sometimes, it will help us not headaches, but sometimes i feel dizzy if ppl flirting all the time, it depend on how healthy that day i will be,
i think we rarely find flirting happen in politics, religious, scientific threads,... and actually sometimes these threads seem very boring for me,
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Flirty flirt flirt flirt you guys
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wikked: I think that true flirting is an "art"...(JMO)
However, is flirting really harmless? Can it be misconstrued as genuine interest (or is it genuine interest?)...Can one step over the line doing this..or is there some unspoken ground rules that is automatically understood up front?
However, is flirting really harmless? Can it be misconstrued as genuine interest (or is it genuine interest?)...Can one step over the line doing this..or is there some unspoken ground rules that is automatically understood up front?
This has been going on for years here; mostly being misconstrued and then turning nasty; you've been here a while...
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venusenvy: Flirty flirt flirt flirt you guys
Here's looking at you kid(Casablanca) 
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venusenvy: Flirty flirt flirt flirt you guys
hello venusenvy, for you, 
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pierrot_le_fou: It depends... some folks like to flirt while holding a baseball bat
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However, is flirting really harmless? Can it be misconstrued as genuine interest (or is it genuine interest?)...Can one step over the line doing this..or is there some unspoken ground rules that is automatically understood up front?