Why do men ask to meet and promise to call and then don't call? ( Archived) (64)

Dec 7, 2010 2:08 PM CST Why do men ask to meet and promise to call and then don't call?
missingLondon
missingLondonmissingLondonMsida, Majjistral Malta101 Threads 11 Polls 455 Posts
If you're not interested in someone isn't it simpler not to ask to meet in the first place? If a man says I'll text you later today and doesn't, should you write him off? What's with the game playing when nobody put a gun to their head to ask to meet. Likewise men who immediately want to fly over to see you then you never hear from them or men who contact you and when asked for a photo disappear? Is the world full of players who can't keep their word?
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Dec 7, 2010 2:10 PM CST Why do men ask to meet and promise to call and then don't call?
Goddess4u
Goddess4uGoddess4uThe Capital, Greater London, England UK15 Threads 3,131 Posts
Because they are prats comfort
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Dec 7, 2010 2:11 PM CST Why do men ask to meet and promise to call and then don't call?
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
missingLondon: If you're not interested in someone isn't it simpler not to ask to meet in the first place? If a man says I'll text you later today and doesn't, should you write him off? What's with the game playing when nobody put a gun to their head to ask to meet. Likewise men who immediately want to fly over to see you then you never hear from them or men who contact you and when asked for a photo disappear? Is the world full of players who can't keep their word?
laugh its because they are playin and probably racked up a list of women and they have a number system they rate each women from 1 to 10 on their list the one who is closest to the top of their list who responds then they meet her and forget the rest..then they get sick of her, go back online then do the same thing over again..its called playa system.laugh
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Dec 7, 2010 2:13 PM CST Why do men ask to meet and promise to call and then don't call?
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
my advise is to not take any guy too seriously online untill you have met and dated for at least a few months..then if his actions prove he is "falling in love" then maybe take him seriously..online has made the dating world harder as far as getting a real committment..
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Dec 7, 2010 2:14 PM CST Why do men ask to meet and promise to call and then don't call?
70Libra
70Libra70LibraCounty, Waterford Ireland43 Threads 6,782 Posts
missingLondon: If you're not interested in someone isn't it simpler not to ask to meet in the first place? If a man says I'll text you later today and doesn't, should you write him off? What's with the game playing when nobody put a gun to their head to ask to meet. Likewise men who immediately want to fly over to see you then you never hear from them or men who contact you and when asked for a photo disappear? Is the world full of players who can't keep their word?

That'll be down to the 'Y' chromosome...

'Y' would I?
'Y' did you think I would?
'Y' ...?
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Dec 7, 2010 2:15 PM CST Why do men ask to meet and promise to call and then don't call?
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
70Libra: That'll be down to the 'Y' chromosome...

'Y' would I?
'Y' did you think I would?
'Y' ...?
rolling on the floor laughing thumbs up
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Dec 7, 2010 2:16 PM CST Why do men ask to meet and promise to call and then don't call?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Cowards the lot of em ...but better to find out then waste time hug
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Dec 7, 2010 2:17 PM CST Why do men ask to meet and promise to call and then don't call?
70Libra: That'll be down to the 'Y' chromosome...

'Y' would I?
'Y' did you think I would?
'Y' ...?


laugh rolling on the floor laughing laugh rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 7, 2010 2:18 PM CST Why do men ask to meet and promise to call and then don't call?
SoldierByte
SoldierByteSoldierByteGrove, Oklahoma USA1,466 Posts
missingLondon: If you're not interested in someone isn't it simpler not to ask to meet in the first place? If a man says I'll text you later today and doesn't, should you write him off? What's with the game playing when nobody put a gun to their head to ask to meet. Likewise men who immediately want to fly over to see you then you never hear from them or men who contact you and when asked for a photo disappear? Is the world full of players who can't keep their word?

I text, email, call, stalk, write, post,
and I.M. chat with EVERY gal that does not have me on
block, deleted, restraing order, or arrested..
so none of this applies to me..
and you gals know it..scold

dancing dog---SoldierByte--- elephant
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Dec 7, 2010 2:19 PM CST Why do men ask to meet and promise to call and then don't call?
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
SoldierByte: I text, email, call, stalk, write, post,
and I.M. chat with EVERY gal that does not have me on
block, deleted, restraing order, or arrested..
so none of this applies to me..
and you gals know it..
---SoldierByte---
STALK?? rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 7, 2010 2:20 PM CST Why do men ask to meet and promise to call and then don't call?
m5ufo
m5ufom5ufoPenn Valley, California USA5 Posts
>>online has made the dating world harder as far as getting a real committment..

Or a Read Date for that matter.
I find most all women I write ignore me. It matters not if its this site or a Paid Site [wet Match sticks are useless]
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Dec 7, 2010 2:20 PM CST Why do men ask to meet and promise to call and then don't call?
SoldierByte
SoldierByteSoldierByteGrove, Oklahoma USA1,466 Posts
Swissblueeyes: STALK??

I do try to let my girlfriends know
that I really do care..blushing

dancing dog---SoldierByte--- elephant
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Dec 7, 2010 2:22 PM CST Why do men ask to meet and promise to call and then don't call?
missha72
missha72missha72Naxxar, Majjistral Malta53 Threads 5 Polls 903 Posts
missingLondon: If you're not interested in someone isn't it simpler not to ask to meet in the first place? If a man says I'll text you later today and doesn't, should you write him off? What's with the game playing when nobody put a gun to their head to ask to meet. Likewise men who immediately want to fly over to see you then you never hear from them or men who contact you and when asked for a photo disappear? Is the world full of players who can't keep their word?


Hi MissingLondon :0)


Because guys dont have the balls to say infront of u there not interested so they say they will call u when they really mean they wont ... no1 rule never call a guy always allow him to call u first ..
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Dec 7, 2010 2:24 PM CST Why do men ask to meet and promise to call and then don't call?
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
SoldierByte: I do try to let my girlfriends know
that I really do care..
---SoldierByte---
rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 7, 2010 2:26 PM CST Why do men ask to meet and promise to call and then don't call?
missha72
missha72missha72Naxxar, Majjistral Malta53 Threads 5 Polls 903 Posts
SoldierByte: I do try to let my girlfriends know
that I really do care..
---SoldierByte---



feels left out rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 7, 2010 2:26 PM CST Why do men ask to meet and promise to call and then don't call?
missingLondon
missingLondonmissingLondonMsida, Majjistral Malta101 Threads 11 Polls 455 Posts
missha72: Hi MissingLondon :0)Because guys dont have the balls to say infront of u there not interested so they say they will call u when they really mean they wont ... no1 rule never call a guy always allow him to call u first ..


HI Missha

this guy asked to meet for a chat. I didn't ask. I sent him a hello text because I knew him from eons ago. e-mailed that he's very free and would text to agree on a date. said would text today and hasn't. What's the point. He could have just said hello back and not asked to meet for a chat. He came up with the idea. I'm beginning to think it's a bad idea to even mail someone a man saying hi as it goes to their head.

BTW when are you and i meeting?
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Dec 7, 2010 2:28 PM CST Why do men ask to meet and promise to call and then don't call?
missha72
missha72missha72Naxxar, Majjistral Malta53 Threads 5 Polls 903 Posts
missingLondon: HI Missha

this guy asked to meet for a chat. I didn't ask. I sent him a hello text because I knew him from eons ago. e-mailed that he's very free and would text to agree on a date. said would text today and hasn't. What's the point. He could have just said hello back and not asked to meet for a chat. He came up with the idea. I'm beginning to think it's a bad idea to even mail someone a man saying hi as it goes to their head.

BTW when are you and i meeting?




will e mail u in 10 mins hun xxx
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Dec 7, 2010 2:31 PM CST Why do men ask to meet and promise to call and then don't call?
missha72
missha72missha72Naxxar, Majjistral Malta53 Threads 5 Polls 903 Posts
To be totally honest i wouldnt give a local guy a second thought if he didnt sms u back u know what there like .....
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Dec 7, 2010 2:34 PM CST Why do men ask to meet and promise to call and then don't call?
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
missingLondon: good advice. I only wrote to say hi because he kept viewing me and I thought he recognized me from when we briefly worked together.

I've given up hope of a good man btw. but the forums keep me coming back.
aww..dont give up..there is a good man somewhere wondering where you are..
just dont take any guy online at his words..wait and see if they are real or not. K? cheers
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Dec 7, 2010 2:36 PM CST Why do men ask to meet and promise to call and then don't call?
sultryash
sultryashsultryashBridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados36 Threads 3,203 Posts
Maybe some men play games maybe not ....but we women have to remember that some guys get just as shy and nervous about asking a woman out or even calling to say hi, as some women get about going on a date too.

Dont write him off, maybe he will call/text you later....maybe just trying to rack up the nerve to do it dunno
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