should i die? (302)
sohail2011Goa, India2 Threads 69 Postsmy parents have taken loan from many people.. the interest rate keeping getting double every month. they lost jobs also people keep coming and asking for money.. i tried all possible way to make money .. but only money makes money i don't have money to make any business.. i have ideas but now money.. now i feel if i die that will be best way what should i do 
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No, it's not the best thing you can do.
First of all it's your parents loan, not yours.
Second, who is going to take care of your parents if your dead?
First of all it's your parents loan, not yours.
Second, who is going to take care of your parents if your dead?
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i can't see my parents in pain :( it hurts when u see your family in pain.. its not that easy..
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third when you get to the part about asking for money on here to make your ideas work...it's been tried before.
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sohail2011: i can't see my parents in pain :( it hurts when u see your family in pain.. its not that easy..
well you can see them in some pain now or kill yourself and you can see them in a lot of pain because your not there.
sounds like b/s to me, grow some balls and be a man.
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Sounds like its time to move out of your parents place and begin your life 
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i'm not asking money.. i just asked for advice... we get nothing free in this world.... only advice people can guide me..
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I wouldn't recommend dying for anyone, anything has to better than that.
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sohail2011: my parents have taken loan from many people.. the interest rate keeping getting double every month. they lost jobs also people keep coming and asking for money.. i tried all possible way to make money .. but only money makes money i don't have money to make any business.. i have ideas but now money.. now i feel if i die that will be best way what should i do
Hello..Your only 25 years old, in shape and by your photo seem attractive and also smart..Why on earth would you feel dying is a solution?Try to find a college in another country that will accept you and also a grant program so you can go to school..Usually grants help pay for your tuition and also some living expenses.
get a good degree and find a country that will hire you along with a visa.
the economy is tough right now but it wont be permanent..try to think on the bright side of things instead of negative.
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sohail2011: my parents have taken loan from many people.. the interest rate keeping getting double every month. they lost jobs also people keep coming and asking for money.. i tried all possible way to make money .. but only money makes money i don't have money to make any business.. i have ideas but now money.. now i feel if i die that will be best way what should i do
Your death will solve nothing,just cause your parents more pain.
Whats the worse that can happen,you lose every thing,material goods can be replaced,a life can not.
Things will get better,but your family might have to go threw some hard ships first.I know first hand,i was out of work for over a year,times were tuff but i got by some how.I just took it one day at a time..kept job hunting,finally i found one,a Christmas hire,i proved myself and was offered a new job,able to stay on...things will get better...just have faith and keep trying.
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sohail2011: i can't see my parents in pain :( it hurts when u see your family in pain.. its not that easy..
They would be in more pain if they lost you...
It would only be selfish of you to take yourself away from them.
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sohail2011: my parents have taken loan from many people.. the interest rate keeping getting double every month. they lost jobs also people keep coming and asking for money.. i tried all possible way to make money .. but only money makes money i don't have money to make any business.. i have ideas but now money.. now i feel if i die that will be best way what should i do
Sad, but be strong, killing yourself won't help either your parents
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Medsummer: sounds like b/s to me, grow some balls and be a man.
if my words sound a bit harsh...well like it's been said your 25 years old it's is time for you to step up to a challenge and not step down from it. What you do now will determine the rest of your life.
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sohail2011: i'm not asking money.. i just asked for advice... we get nothing free in this world.... only advice people can guide me..
I just had a friend that took his own life Dec. 26th, and you cannot ever imagine the grief that a family feels once a loved one has passed. Your parents may owe money, but how can you assimilate a solution w/ taking your own life.
Money is money and more can always be made, it requires hard work and over time things will get better...but once you decide to end your own life, you get no second chances..you should never equate your human value and worth to money...to a parent a child is priceless and losing you would be worse than anything they are enduring right now. Be strong and whatever you decide think about the ones you will leave behind and how devastated they will be, suicide is never the solution, EVER!
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Medsummer: if my words sound a bit harsh...well like it's been said your 25 years old it's is time for you to step up to a challenge and not step down from it. What you do now will determine the rest of your life.
and that life could turn out to be a very good one, if you give it a chance.
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sohail2011: i make sure my family gets goooood insurance money after i die..
why don't you ask your parents what they want, the insurance money or you?
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sohail2011: i can see anything but not tears in my mom dad eyes...... i plan to make insurance on me than after 2 months plan to die..
Imagine how much more they would cry if they lost you..you are their child!
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