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I have a question for the men, especially the men who are looking to get into a relationship
I'm a woman in her thirties and I'm looking to get into a long-term relationship. I'm not interested in anything casual.
And I was just wondering what's the best way to find out what a man wants if you meet him offline.
If you're a commitment-minded man, how would you feel if a woman asked you on a first date:
"So, what are you looking for?"
My reasoning was: If I ask this, the guy can say:
(A) "Just something casual"
or
(B) "I'd like to get into a relationship"
And then we both know where we stand after just one date.
Otherwise I could be dating a man who just wants something casual, not knowing that.
And we could be on different wavelengths,
So for all the men who want relationships, what do you think of my strategy of asking: "So, What are you looking for?" on an early date?
Pros? Cons?
Emma