AmityOPDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK6,217 posts
Are you capable of letting something go?
Can you forgive and forget?
I guess it is based on circumstances but i wonder if i am sometimes TOO forgiving. I tend to forget any hurt that has been caused and want to make amends. My view is life is too short, and i wouldnt want to wish harm or bad meaning on anyone..
Your views?
(P.S... this is my all grown up n sensible thread)
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
Amity: Are you capable of letting something go?
Can you forgive and forget?
I guess it is based on circumstances but i wonder if i am sometimes TOO forgiving. I tend to forget any hurt that has been caused and want to make amends. My view is life is too short, and i wouldnt want to wish harm or bad meaning on anyone..
Your views?(P.S... this is my all grown up n sensible thread)
You are just anice person, don't change. I like to forgive for my own sake as well, it takes up too much time and energy to plan horrible revenges.
AmityOPDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK6,217 posts
tomcatwarne: You are just anice person, don't change. I like to forgive for my own sake as well, it takes up too much time and energy to plan horrible revenges.
indeed....much better to waste energy on other things other than vengefulness.
Nice? Im pretty sure there are many who would disagree with you...i do tend to have a habit of rubbing people up the wrong way without even realising
I guess it is based on circumstances but i wonder if i am sometimes TOO forgiving. I tend to forget any hurt that has been caused and want to make amends. My view is life is too short, and i wouldnt want to wish harm or bad meaning on anyone..
Your views?(P.S... this is my all grown up n sensible thread)
I am a very calm,logical person.If someone does something to me,i will not in any shape or form let it affect me emotionally.I will mentally just cut them off,and have no contact with them. So,for me,its not a case of forgiving,its a case of erasing.
AmityOPDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK6,217 posts
time4fun4u: I am a very calm,logical person.If someone does something to me,i will not in any shape or form let it affect me emotionally.I will mentally just cut them off,and have no contact with them. So,for me,its not a case of forgiving,its a case of erasing.
I guess it is based on circumstances but i wonder if i am sometimes TOO forgiving. I tend to forget any hurt that has been caused and want to make amends. My view is life is too short, and i wouldnt want to wish harm or bad meaning on anyone..
Your views?(P.S... this is my all grown up n sensible thread)
I forgive everything and everybody. I'm worse then god you don't even have to say hail Maries to get salvation from me.
I guess it is based on circumstances but i wonder if i am sometimes TOO forgiving. I tend to forget any hurt that has been caused and want to make amends. My view is life is too short, and i wouldnt want to wish harm or bad meaning on anyone..
Your views?(P.S... this is my all grown up n sensible thread)
Hi Amity, Long time no see.glad to see you back. Yes i can forgive,who does it hurt if you don't?It doesn't hurt them,it only eats you up inside.
AmityOPDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK6,217 posts
demonfairy: Hi Amity, Long time no see.glad to see you back. Yes i can forgive,who does it hurt if you don't?It doesn't hurt them,it only eats you up inside.
DF, well said..as always Good to see you to hun xxxx
AmityOPDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK6,217 posts
Ccincy: If I can't forgive someone then they control me.I don't always forget tho.Now on the other hand if it's over something petty then I just let it go.Not really worth the wasted energy or time.
Absolutely....eats you up inside and you end up making it more than it was to begin with
I guess it is based on circumstances but i wonder if i am sometimes TOO forgiving. I tend to forget any hurt that has been caused and want to make amends. My view is life is too short, and i wouldnt want to wish harm or bad meaning on anyone..
Your views?(P.S... this is my all grown up n sensible thread)
Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much.O.Wilde
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Can you forgive and forget?
I guess it is based on circumstances but i wonder if i am sometimes TOO forgiving.
I tend to forget any hurt that has been caused and want to make amends.
My view is life is too short, and i wouldnt want to wish harm or bad meaning on anyone..
Your views?
(P.S... this is my all grown up n sensible thread)