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Jan 19, 2011 7:14 AM CST Can you forgive?
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
Are you capable of letting something go?

Can you forgive and forget?

I guess it is based on circumstances but i wonder if i am sometimes TOO forgiving.
I tend to forget any hurt that has been caused and want to make amends.
My view is life is too short, and i wouldnt want to wish harm or bad meaning on anyone..

Your views?


(P.S... this is my all grown up n sensible thread)grin
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Jan 19, 2011 7:18 AM CST Can you forgive?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
Amity: Are you capable of letting something go?

Can you forgive and forget?

I guess it is based on circumstances but i wonder if i am sometimes TOO forgiving.
I tend to forget any hurt that has been caused and want to make amends.
My view is life is too short, and i wouldnt want to wish harm or bad meaning on anyone..

Your views?(P.S... this is my all grown up n sensible thread)


You are just anice person, don't change. I like to forgive for my own sake as well, it takes up too much time and energy to plan horrible revenges. rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing grin angel devil teddybear teddybear teddybear
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Jan 19, 2011 7:20 AM CST Can you forgive?
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
tomcatwarne: You are just anice person, don't change. I like to forgive for my own sake as well, it takes up too much time and energy to plan horrible revenges.


laugh indeed....much better to waste energy on other things other than vengefulness.

Nice? Im pretty sure there are many who would disagree with you...i do tend to have a habit of rubbing people up the wrong way without even realising teddybear bouquet
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Jan 19, 2011 7:20 AM CST Can you forgive?
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
Amity: Are you capable of letting something go?

Can you forgive and forget?

I guess it is based on circumstances but i wonder if i am sometimes TOO forgiving.
I tend to forget any hurt that has been caused and want to make amends.
My view is life is too short, and i wouldnt want to wish harm or bad meaning on anyone..

Your views?(P.S... this is my all grown up n sensible thread)
I am a very calm,logical person.If someone does something to me,i will not in any shape or form let it affect me emotionally.I will mentally just cut them off,and have no contact with them.
So,for me,its not a case of forgiving,its a case of erasing.bouquet
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Jan 19, 2011 7:21 AM CST Can you forgive?
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
time4fun4u: I am a very calm,logical person.If someone does something to me,i will not in any shape or form let it affect me emotionally.I will mentally just cut them off,and have no contact with them.
So,for me,its not a case of forgiving,its a case of erasing.


Oooohh, any tips on how to do that?

That could come in very handy!! laugh teddybear
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Jan 19, 2011 7:23 AM CST Can you forgive?
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
Amity: Oooohh, any tips on how to do that?

That could come in very handy!!
laugh It works for me,and i dont get hurt.Inner strength.teddybear
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Jan 19, 2011 7:23 AM CST Can you forgive?
jovisst
jovisstjovisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden84 Threads 22 Polls 709 Posts
Amity: Are you capable of letting something go?

Can you forgive and forget?

I guess it is based on circumstances but i wonder if i am sometimes TOO forgiving.
I tend to forget any hurt that has been caused and want to make amends.
My view is life is too short, and i wouldnt want to wish harm or bad meaning on anyone..

Your views?(P.S... this is my all grown up n sensible thread)


I forgive everything and everybody. I'm worse then god you don't even have to say hail Maries to get salvation from me.
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Jan 19, 2011 7:24 AM CST Can you forgive?
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton, North Carolina USA76 Threads 2 Polls 2,278 Posts
Amity: Are you capable of letting something go?

Can you forgive and forget?

I guess it is based on circumstances but i wonder if i am sometimes TOO forgiving.
I tend to forget any hurt that has been caused and want to make amends.
My view is life is too short, and i wouldnt want to wish harm or bad meaning on anyone..

Your views?(P.S... this is my all grown up n sensible thread)

Hi Amity,
Long time no see.glad to see you back.
Yes i can forgive,who does it hurt if you don't?It doesn't hurt them,it only eats you up inside.
hug teddybear wave
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Jan 19, 2011 7:24 AM CST Can you forgive?
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
jovisst: I forgive everything and everybody. I'm worse then god you don't even have to say hail Maries to get salvation from me.

wave everything? thats commendable.
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Jan 19, 2011 7:24 AM CST Can you forgive?
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
demonfairy: Hi Amity,
Long time no see.glad to see you back.
Yes i can forgive,who does it hurt if you don't?It doesn't hurt them,it only eats you up inside.

DF, well said..as always teddybear
Good to see you to hun xxxxbouquet
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Jan 19, 2011 7:25 AM CST Can you forgive?
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
time4fun4u: I think you could be a long term student if i was to teach you.


rolling on the floor laughing it will be a life sentence
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Jan 19, 2011 7:26 AM CST Can you forgive?
jovisst
jovisstjovisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden84 Threads 22 Polls 709 Posts
Amity: everything? thats commendable.


Yep everything, I even forgive you for never writing me.
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Jan 19, 2011 7:26 AM CST Can you forgive?
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
Amity: it will be a life sentence
rolling on the floor laughing tongue I wouldnt mind serving it though wink
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Jan 19, 2011 7:26 AM CST Can you forgive?
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
jovisst: Yep everything, I even forgive you for never writing me.

tongue laugh
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Jan 19, 2011 7:26 AM CST Can you forgive?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
If I can't forgive someone then they control me.


I don't always forget tho.


Now on the other hand if it's over something petty then I just let it go.Not really worth the wasted energy or time.
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Jan 19, 2011 7:27 AM CST Can you forgive?
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
time4fun4u: I wouldnt mind serving it though

awwww..give it a week. You will be begging to leave blues laugh lips
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Jan 19, 2011 7:28 AM CST Can you forgive?
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
Ccincy: If I can't forgive someone then they control me.I don't always forget tho.Now on the other hand if it's over something petty then I just let it go.Not really worth the wasted energy or time.

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Absolutely....eats you up inside and you end up making it more than it was to begin with laugh
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Jan 19, 2011 7:29 AM CST Can you forgive?
Loveableone88
Loveableone88Loveableone88Melbourne, Victoria Australia2 Threads 101 Posts
Amity: Are you capable of letting something go?

Can you forgive and forget?


Whomever followed my posts on the Aus forums can see that I am capable!

laugh
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Jan 19, 2011 7:30 AM CST Can you forgive?
Johnwain
JohnwainJohnwainDublin, Ireland7 Threads 466 Posts
Amity: Are you capable of letting something go?

Can you forgive and forget?

I guess it is based on circumstances but i wonder if i am sometimes TOO forgiving.
I tend to forget any hurt that has been caused and want to make amends.
My view is life is too short, and i wouldnt want to wish harm or bad meaning on anyone..

Your views?(P.S... this is my all grown up n sensible thread)



Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much.O.Wilde
wink
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Jan 19, 2011 7:30 AM CST Can you forgive?
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
Loveableone88: Whomever followed my posts on the Aus forums can see that I am capable!


hmmm I didnt..but now im intrigued laugh
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