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Jan 21, 2011 6:16 PM CST why cant i find a decent girl that would date me ?.
bazza1983
bazza1983bazza1983boksburg, Gauteng South Africa1 Threads 7 Posts
why cant i find a decent girl that would date me ?.
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Jan 21, 2011 6:16 PM CST why cant i find a decent girl that would date me ?.
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
bazza1983: why cant i find a decent girl that would date me ?.



Maybe you're looking in the wrong places.dunno
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Jan 21, 2011 7:37 PM CST why cant i find a decent girl that would date me ?.
Cadillac72
Cadillac72Cadillac72Santa Ana, San Jose Costa Rica1 Threads 63 Posts
In response to: why cant i find a decent girl that would date me ?.


what ! tired of the indecent girls ?laugh
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Jan 21, 2011 7:47 PM CST why cant i find a decent girl that would date me ?.
CuspofMagic
CuspofMagicCuspofMagiclight, South Australia Australia278 Threads 7,904 Posts
whats your def of decent
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Jan 22, 2011 4:11 AM CST why cant i find a decent girl that would date me ?.
bazza1983
bazza1983bazza1983boksburg, Gauteng South Africa1 Threads 7 Posts
a girl that doesnt use me for money or for my car cause she doesnt have one. I do understand that a guy should pay for alot but those days are gone when the guy pays for everything i believe a relationship is 50 50 where should i be looking to find the right girl?.
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Jan 22, 2011 4:16 AM CST why cant i find a decent girl that would date me ?.
Carolinacute22
Carolinacute22Carolinacute22Bandung, West Java Indonesia2 Threads 6 Posts
i am sure when the time come u will get ur decent girl. never give up okay :-)
bazza1983: a girl that doesnt use me for money or for my car cause she doesnt have one. I do understand that a guy should pay for alot but those days are gone when the guy pays for everything i believe a relationship is 50 50 where should i be looking to find the right girl?.
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Jan 22, 2011 4:22 AM CST why cant i find a decent girl that would date me ?.
matchbox
matchboxmatchboxbalzan, Majjistral Malta134 Threads 1 Polls 635 Posts
its not that hes looking in the wrong place, it just that most women nowadays are very arrogant and go only with well off men and thats disgusting
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Jan 22, 2011 4:24 AM CST why cant i find a decent girl that would date me ?.
illu_66
illu_66illu_66Here, Andalusia Spain31 Threads 3 Polls 2,368 Posts
matchbox: its not that hes looking in the wrong place, it just that most women nowadays are very arrogant and go only with well off men and thats disgusting


Please don't EVER come and paint my house!!! The brush you use is WAAAY to wide!
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Jan 22, 2011 4:26 AM CST why cant i find a decent girl that would date me ?.
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton, North Carolina USA76 Threads 2 Polls 2,278 Posts
bazza1983: a girl that doesnt use me for money or for my car cause she doesnt have one. I do understand that a guy should pay for alot but those days are gone when the guy pays for everything i believe a relationship is 50 50 where should i be looking to find the right girl?.
When you find the right girl you want worry about paying for every thing,have you never hear the saying whats yours is hers,whats hers is yours.....instead of whats yours is hers and whats hers is hers.rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing wave
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Jan 22, 2011 4:28 AM CST why cant i find a decent girl that would date me ?.
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton, North Carolina USA76 Threads 2 Polls 2,278 Posts
matchbox: its not that hes looking in the wrong place, it just that most women nowadays are very arrogant and go only with well off men and thats disgusting
Thats bs..roll eyes
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Jan 22, 2011 4:30 AM CST why cant i find a decent girl that would date me ?.
Witchaywoman
WitchaywomanWitchaywomanCarpentersville, Illinois USA97 Threads 13 Polls 4,344 Posts
bazza1983: why cant i find a decent girl that would date me ?.


I think you have to move to another country. Isn't everyone in South Africa moving to Australia these days?
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Jan 22, 2011 4:31 AM CST why cant i find a decent girl that would date me ?.
viva007
viva007viva007HYDERABAD, Telangana India41 Threads 8 Polls 7,447 Posts
bazza1983: why cant i find a decent girl that would date me ?.
I think dating is outdated for decent girlsrolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 22, 2011 4:37 AM CST why cant i find a decent girl that would date me ?.
SUNSHINEB0Y
SUNSHINEB0YSUNSHINEB0Ycork, Cork Ireland2,259 Posts
bazza1983: why cant i find a decent girl that would date me ?.



For me this is an impossible question, not enough informatiion to solve the equasion but most south africans I've met have had severe personality problems, hardly surprising considdering the metamorphosis of the country, it seems to be a very troubled place, with dictators 10 a penny and all that hacking going on since well before I can remember......I think idi amin was the earliest one I noticed and I know there were more before him. jmodunno confused
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Jan 22, 2011 4:38 AM CST why cant i find a decent girl that would date me ?.
bazza1983
bazza1983bazza1983boksburg, Gauteng South Africa1 Threads 7 Posts
yeah i think i must just stay positive
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Jan 23, 2011 11:26 AM CST why cant i find a decent girl that would date me ?.
bazza1983
bazza1983bazza1983boksburg, Gauteng South Africa1 Threads 7 Posts
dont mock a country you know nothing about sunshineboy.
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Jan 24, 2011 8:27 AM CST why cant i find a decent girl that would date me ?.
Sk8ndnc
Sk8ndncSk8ndncAlbuquerque, New Mexico USA61 Posts
Carolinacute22: i am sure when the time come u will get ur decent girl. never give up okay :-)


If I'm the OP, I'm checking on air fares to Indo.....love

In answer to the original question,assuming things work approximately the same in SA as they do in the US, my first guess would be that you're not tall/good looking/rich enough for them.
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Jan 24, 2011 8:56 AM CST why cant i find a decent girl that would date me ?.
Another_time
Another_timeAnother_timeBelfast, Antrim Ireland60 Posts
bazza1983: why cant i find a decent girl that would date me ?.


I don't know you, so dont mean to offend, but just a guess - people often attract similar individuals despite what they say about attraction between opposites. Also selectivity in finding people to stay with helps not to be upset with your life later.
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Jan 24, 2011 9:04 AM CST why cant i find a decent girl that would date me ?.
chococherrie
chococherriechococherrieSomewhere over the Rainbow, Indonesia71 Threads 5 Polls 5,647 Posts
SUNSHINEB0Y: For me this is an impossible question, not enough informatiion to solve the equasion but most south africans I've met have had severe personality problems, hardly surprising considdering the metamorphosis of the country, it seems to be a very troubled place, with dictators 10 a penny and all that hacking going on since well before I can remember......I think idi amin was the earliest one I noticed and I know there were more before him. jmo
what does the country have to do with the thread?u cant judge a whole race based on a few dictators..
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Jan 24, 2011 9:22 AM CST why cant i find a decent girl that would date me ?.
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
Oh, hi ^cali-balli roll eyes



And for the OP:

bazza1983:
a girl that doesnt use me for money or for my car cause she doesnt have one. I do understand that a guy should pay for alot but those days are gone when the guy pays for everything i believe a relationship is 50 50 where should i be looking to find the right girl?.


How can she use you for money, according to your profile you barely make to pay your own bills. Wouldn't ANY girl be *decent* in your case?

What's wrong with you ppl?
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Jan 24, 2011 12:53 PM CST why cant i find a decent girl that would date me ?.
maryrachelle
maryrachellemaryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada27 Threads 1,370 Posts
Maybe your expectations are unrealistic?
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