a girl that doesnt use me for money or for my car cause she doesnt have one. I do understand that a guy should pay for alot but those days are gone when the guy pays for everything i believe a relationship is 50 50 where should i be looking to find the right girl?.
i am sure when the time come u will get ur decent girl. never give up okay :-)
bazza1983: a girl that doesnt use me for money or for my car cause she doesnt have one. I do understand that a guy should pay for alot but those days are gone when the guy pays for everything i believe a relationship is 50 50 where should i be looking to find the right girl?.
matchbox: its not that hes looking in the wrong place, it just that most women nowadays are very arrogant and go only with well off men and thats disgusting
Please don't EVER come and paint my house!!! The brush you use is WAAAY to wide!
bazza1983: a girl that doesnt use me for money or for my car cause she doesnt have one. I do understand that a guy should pay for alot but those days are gone when the guy pays for everything i believe a relationship is 50 50 where should i be looking to find the right girl?.
When you find the right girl you want worry about paying for every thing,have you never hear the saying whats yours is hers,whats hers is yours.....instead of whats yours is hers and whats hers is hers.
matchbox: its not that hes looking in the wrong place, it just that most women nowadays are very arrogant and go only with well off men and thats disgusting
bazza1983: why cant i find a decent girl that would date me ?.
For me this is an impossible question, not enough informatiion to solve the equasion but most south africans I've met have had severe personality problems, hardly surprising considdering the metamorphosis of the country, it seems to be a very troubled place, with dictators 10 a penny and all that hacking going on since well before I can remember......I think idi amin was the earliest one I noticed and I know there were more before him. jmo
Carolinacute22: i am sure when the time come u will get ur decent girl. never give up okay :-)
If I'm the OP, I'm checking on air fares to Indo.....
In answer to the original question,assuming things work approximately the same in SA as they do in the US, my first guess would be that you're not tall/good looking/rich enough for them.
bazza1983: why cant i find a decent girl that would date me ?.
I don't know you, so dont mean to offend, but just a guess - people often attract similar individuals despite what they say about attraction between opposites. Also selectivity in finding people to stay with helps not to be upset with your life later.
chococherrieSomewhere over the Rainbow, Indonesia5,647 posts
SUNSHINEB0Y: For me this is an impossible question, not enough informatiion to solve the equasion but most south africans I've met have had severe personality problems, hardly surprising considdering the metamorphosis of the country, it seems to be a very troubled place, with dictators 10 a penny and all that hacking going on since well before I can remember......I think idi amin was the earliest one I noticed and I know there were more before him. jmo
what does the country have to do with the thread?u cant judge a whole race based on a few dictators..
bazza1983: a girl that doesnt use me for money or for my car cause she doesnt have one. I do understand that a guy should pay for alot but those days are gone when the guy pays for everything i believe a relationship is 50 50 where should i be looking to find the right girl?.
How can she use you for money, according to your profile you barely make to pay your own bills. Wouldn't ANY girl be *decent* in your case?
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