Taking it TOO slow? ( Archived) (8)

Ok, so I've been talking to this chick on a site similar to this one. Just a message or two a week for the past month and a half or so. Found out we had a lot in common, a lot of similar interests. She recently gave me her messenger usernames, and we had a pretty good conversation yesterday, went really well. A buddy of mine who I've talked to about the situation keeps asking me why I haven't talked to her on the phone or even asked her out yet.

My thing is, I want her to get to know me a little better before I bring any of that stuff up so she can trust that I'm not some maniacal, psycho killer. Which is something I have to be a little more careful about than most because I am, after all, a convicted felon. So, I told my buddy I wanted to just talk to her online for another month or two before I even bring up anything about talking to her on the phone or meeting her somewhere, unless she brings it up first. He says I'm friggin' nuts.

What do you people think? Am I taking it too slow?

Pace is set differently by every runner......................

As long as you are comfortable with it, dont worry.

If the girl can not handle your pace, she may not be that interested or is motivated by the wrong things.

Go with your gut instinct....If shes a keeper she will stick around..if she asks you for your # would you give it to her or want to talk to her??? I say just go with instinct!

i think you are doing the right thing man follow your heart

Horns. Down. Charge. No regrets.

One more thing. Only YOU can make that decision. Your friends shouldn't come into play. They don't have to live with the outcome.