Burned out some simple truths for online dating. (7)

Feb 12, 2011 3:05 PM CST Burned out some simple truths for online dating.
NEWSFLASH: I am burned out, like many of you I have been on this site way to long and these are some truths I have discovered and yes I have been the victim and have done some of the wronging to. So here are some facts.

1. Put the truth in your essay if your looking for a hookup and not a real romance then put that.
2. Realize that if you think your a 9 or 10 thats fine but in any other major city you would be outnumbered and lucky to meet an honest man such as myself.
3. I do not like obesse woman and yes I personally am not perfect and dont expect it but I can go workout for a few months and boom you get the full package. DISCLAIMER: I am not obesse and if your just a bit out of shape or something I am not judging obesse speaks for itself if your bigger than me we would have an issue. I am sure you would not want some 400 lb guy.
4. All woman get tons of email, most guys on here are tools and if you think you got a hot stud or even worse your a cougar most likely he is married, cheats or you will find that he does not have time for you.
5. Dont get upset by an essay or message its not always meant the way you take it.
6. I am very loving and sweet but honest and see tons of you on here all the time, get a man and stick with it already.
7. Dont lead a guy on and tell him your perfect for each other then after the date blow him off, its just wrong and no the pasture is not always greener.
8. If you do not like what I have wrote so far then look in the mirror cause it probably is the truth about you and it should make you think.
9. No one is perfect but may be perfect for you. Stop going for the same type as you have in the past look where it got you now.
10. I have been single a long time I DO NOT need a woman, but I want one. Friends, family etc are important, but nothing replaces a soulmate.
11. Do use the whole I am so busy excuse either. If your that busy with work, school or kids then why are you one here..LOL

I have personally made these mistakes, but I do think many woman do this as well and can not even bother to respond because a guy may not be MR perfect, but then again like I said there still on here so obviously they need to make better choices. Yes I am still here to, but I do not email every woman and I do not date hardly at all anymore.

Again this is just my opinion like it or not. It is meant to be read and thought about. I am sure many well write negative things and thats ok, because it proves it effects you.
Feb 14, 2011 6:40 PM CST Burned out some simple truths for online dating.
casinogirl
casinogirlcasinogirlsioux city, Iowa USA1 Threads 116 Posts
I agree with what you say. I am overweight and I dont mind if I date someone who is. But dont email me and say you like my profile then never email again. And If someone takes time to send an email at least say I am not interested but thanks for the email. Be curtious.
Feb 22, 2011 10:59 AM CST Burned out some simple truths for online dating.
savagelove
savagelovesavageloveJesup, Iowa USA1 Threads 10 Posts
Wow! That is amazing! Thanks for that!
Feb 22, 2011 11:19 AM CST Burned out some simple truths for online dating.
savagelove
savagelovesavageloveJesup, Iowa USA1 Threads 10 Posts
Better sound advice would be for some to have a reality check. They are no better and come off sounding like hypocriticaal douchebags.
Feb 22, 2011 2:46 PM CST Burned out some simple truths for online dating.
sasyecats
sasyecatssasyecatsCarroll, Iowa USA15 Threads 3 Polls 1,263 Posts
stillsearching68: NEWSFLASH: I am burned out, like many of you I have been on this site way to long and these are some truths I have discovered and yes I have been the victim and have done some of the wronging to. So here are some facts.

1. Put the truth in your essay if your looking for a hookup and not a real romance then put that.
2. Realize that if you think your a 9 or 10 thats fine but in any other major city you would be outnumbered and lucky to meet an honest man such as myself.
3. I do not like obesse woman and yes I personally am not perfect and dont expect it but I can go workout for a few months and boom you get the full package. DISCLAIMER: I am not obesse and if your just a bit out of shape or something I am not judging obesse speaks for itself if your bigger than me we would have an issue. I am sure you would not want some 400 lb guy.
4. All woman get tons of email, most guys on here are tools and if you think you got a hot stud or even worse your a cougar most likely he is married, cheats or you will find that he does not have time for you.
5. Dont get upset by an essay or message its not always meant the way you take it.
6. I am very loving and sweet but honest and see tons of you on here all the time, get a man and stick with it already.
7. Dont lead a guy on and tell him your perfect for each other then after the date blow him off, its just wrong and no the pasture is not always greener.
8. If you do not like what I have wrote so far then look in the mirror cause it probably is the truth about you and it should make you think.
9. No one is perfect but may be perfect for you. Stop going for the same type as you have in the past look where it got you now.
10. I have been single a long time I DO NOT need a woman, but I want one. Friends, family etc are important, but nothing replaces a soulmate.
11. Do use the whole I am so busy excuse either. If your that busy with work, school or kids then why are you one here..LOL

I have personally made these mistakes, but I do think many woman do this as well and can not even bother to respond because a guy may not be MR perfect, but then again like I said there still on here so obviously they need to make better choices. Yes I am still here to, but I do not email every woman and I do not date hardly at all anymore.

Again this is just my opinion like it or not. It is meant to be read and thought about. I am sure many well write negative things and thats ok, because it proves it effects you.



I don't get tons of emails. confused I'm lucky to get 1 message a day, if that.

I'm suppose to just get a man and stick with him? So I shouldn't hold out for the right man for me? confused
Feb 22, 2011 4:50 PM CST Burned out some simple truths for online dating.
savagelove
savagelovesavageloveJesup, Iowa USA1 Threads 10 Posts
You do have to keep in mind this is a guy who expects women to give him a chance because he is such a nice guy. A guy who says HE won`t settle for anything less than a perfect package. Someone who says he could easily join a gym and have a good bod in a few months? Which makes me wonder if he has such expectation for a partner then why he doesn`t have it for himself? In my experiences guys like this are good to avoid.
Feb 22, 2011 5:55 PM CST Burned out some simple truths for online dating.
sasyecats
sasyecatssasyecatsCarroll, Iowa USA15 Threads 3 Polls 1,263 Posts
savagelove: You do have to keep in mind this is a guy who expects women to give him a chance because he is such a nice guy. A guy who says HE won`t settle for anything less than a perfect package. Someone who says he could easily join a gym and have a good bod in a few months? Which makes me wonder if he has such expectation for a partner then why he doesn`t have it for himself? In my experiences guys like this are good to avoid.


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Yep, he has been burned and so he is venting at all women… and if we so much as disagree with what he has posted then that would prove him right…

“8. If you do not like what I have wrote so far then look in the mirror cause it probably is the truth about you and it should make you think.”

”It is meant to be read and thought about. I am sure many well write negative things and thats ok, because it proves it effects you.”

The only thing this thread mirrors is him, and I'm sure he likes it that way. laugh He switches between calling these facts then just his opinion...roll eyes

Unfortunately for him, he’s not realized it’s his arrogance that drives women away.
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