I THINK I HAVE MADE A LADY MAD AT ME AND ALL I DID WAS GIVE AN OPINION TO WHAT I READ. WHEN SOMEONE COMES ON AND TELLS A SITUATION AND ASKS FOR HELP (WHICH I THINK ALSO MEANS OPINIONS), AND I GIVE MINE AND THEN CLEARLY APOLOGIZE FOR DOING SOMETHING THAT MAY HAVE UPSET HER. SHOULDNT IT BE LET GO THEN? I MEAN ISNT THAT WHAT WE DO HERE? GOOD OR BAD RIGHT OR WRONG? IS SAY IT LIKE WE SEE IT? AND IF WE UPSET SOMEONE WE APOLOGIZE AND HOPE THAT THEY UNDERSTAND THAT WE WERE JUST DOING WHAT WAS ASKED? I AM NOT A MEAN PERSON NOR DO I MEAN TO HURT. CLEAR THIS UP FOR ME? DID I DO SOMETHING WRONG? KAT
No Kat you didn't...(you can see my reply to that same thread about this same thing)
Don't upset yourself...as i said there...we are "neutral parties" looking at it from an outsiders point of view...I happen to agree with the way you saw it...and if she would put aside her anger for a moment and reread her original post...she would see what we saw too..she identified herself more as her "ex's" partner with this woman being the "other woman"...or at least that is what i saw..
No harm done...she asked a question on a public forum...and got responses...some she will like..some she won't...we've all "been there"...
for starters, you could lose the CAPS....ugh and ty
and yes this is a place we share opinions, we are all entitled to our own in any thread...if someone is mean then ignore them, they arent woorthy of your consideration
and wikked it right....if they dont want the views of others and handle whats said and take into thought what the people they ASKED to give that view...then pffffffffftttttttt, they need to go to a kiddie forum
Unless of course they just plain can't handle the truth, and go running to the mods and get a person banned, like someone posting here just did. And they were supposed to be FRIENDS! He just gave her a dose of honesty and she couldn't take it. Perfect example of someone that couldn't stand the heat, and got defensive and vindictive about it. Gotta feel sorry for people like that I guess.
I have no idea who got "banned" this time...and for what...(because it doesn't really matter in the long run)
However..I would like to say the moderators don't just "ban" people because someone "goes running to them"...for heavens sake there would be no one left on the forums if that was their mentality...day in and day out peoples feelings get hurt, people get pissed off with one another...but they get over it (we are all adults here arent we??)...especially as if you say..they were "friends"...they would have resolved whatever differences there was in time...
However, it is easier to let someone else take the "blame" (moderators, other posters, God..the government...etc etc) than to say they themselves may have done something wrong to warrant their "banishment"...
If that was the case Optimystic....you woould have been "banned" a long time ago no doubt!!!
Don't make me pull out psych terms in my explanation - you know what to do ;) Remove yourself from the game. I don't keep up with many anymore, didn't know that there was an issue between you and thunderhawk. If there was, sorry to hear it - if not, then set it straight and duct tape her?
It happened so quickly that even i didn't have time to really react..the only people that knew of it was Gibsonish, Kris, Laurie and Rebecca..and only because i happened to be talking to them at the time (it was really really late the other night) and while they were giving me "options"...he posted his "goodbye" thread...as well as posting the URL on another site where he could be found...and the thread was almost instantaneously pulled...
I had no problem with what he said...would have liked to debate it with him, but like i said..thread got pulled right away...
Ah ha, all is well then - choices were made, things are sorted. Now.. why does it keep getting brought up by her, other than boredom and an attempt to stir the pot? Any ideas?
My assumption is that it was pulled since he disclosed the website he was joining. There was apparently nothing else I could see wrong with the post otherwise.
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