WHEN A PERSON ASKS ( Archived) (31)

Oct 4, 2006 10:38 PM CST WHEN A PERSON ASKS
lvslife
lvslifelvslifemoore, USA223 Threads 2,565 Posts
I THINK I HAVE MADE A LADY MAD AT ME AND ALL I DID WAS GIVE AN OPINION TO WHAT I READ. WHEN SOMEONE COMES ON AND TELLS A SITUATION AND ASKS FOR HELP (WHICH I THINK ALSO MEANS OPINIONS), AND I GIVE MINE AND THEN CLEARLY APOLOGIZE FOR DOING SOMETHING THAT MAY HAVE UPSET HER. SHOULDNT IT BE LET GO THEN? I MEAN ISNT THAT WHAT WE DO HERE? GOOD OR BAD RIGHT OR WRONG? IS SAY IT LIKE WE SEE IT? AND IF WE UPSET SOMEONE WE APOLOGIZE AND HOPE THAT THEY UNDERSTAND THAT WE WERE JUST DOING WHAT WAS ASKED? I AM NOT A MEAN PERSON NOR DO I MEAN TO HURT. CLEAR THIS UP FOR ME? DID I DO SOMETHING WRONG?
KATconfused
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Oct 4, 2006 10:42 PM CST WHEN A PERSON ASKS
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
No Kat you didn't...(you can see my reply to that same thread about this same thing)

Don't upset yourself...as i said there...we are "neutral parties" looking at it from an outsiders point of view...I happen to agree with the way you saw it...and if she would put aside her anger for a moment and reread her original post...she would see what we saw too..she identified herself more as her "ex's" partner with this woman being the "other woman"...or at least that is what i saw..

No harm done...she asked a question on a public forum...and got responses...some she will like..some she won't...we've all "been there"...

Hugs to ya
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Oct 4, 2006 10:43 PM CST WHEN A PERSON ASKS
Justadreamerhere
JustadreamerhereJustadreamerhere39 Threads 3,444 Posts
for starters, you could lose the CAPS....ugh and ty


and yes this is a place we share opinions, we are all entitled to our own in any thread...if someone is mean then ignore them, they arent woorthy of your consideration
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Oct 4, 2006 10:45 PM CST WHEN A PERSON ASKS
Justadreamerhere
JustadreamerhereJustadreamerhere39 Threads 3,444 Posts
worthy*blushing




and wikked it right....if they dont want the views of others and handle whats said and take into thought what the people they ASKED to give that view...then pffffffffftttttttt, they need to go to a kiddie forum
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Oct 4, 2006 11:02 PM CST WHEN A PERSON ASKS
Ks_Plainsman
Ks_PlainsmanKs_PlainsmanWalker, Kansas USA14 Threads 197 Posts
And besides - How could anyone get mad at someone named Tootsie Pottyfrack? comfort

..."Sloopy"...
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Oct 4, 2006 11:12 PM CST WHEN A PERSON ASKS
lvslife
lvslifelvslifemoore, USA223 Threads 2,565 Posts
DONT'CHA JUST LOVE MY NEW NAME? I DO.laugh thumbs up
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Oct 4, 2006 11:24 PM CST WHEN A PERSON ASKS
nwnstar
nwnstarnwnstarConway, USA38 Threads 5,464 Posts
i don't phrase my response...to keep from upsetting folks. i just call it like it is...and i don't worry beyond that.

i'm not out to hurt folks...and not out to protect them from life, either.

everything you said...was totally genuine and caring...you seem to be a very empathic person.

she'll live.
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Oct 5, 2006 9:33 AM CST WHEN A PERSON ASKS
optimystic
optimysticoptimysticIn, Washington USA10 Threads 327 Posts
Unless of course they just plain can't handle the truth, and go running to the mods and get a person banned, like someone posting here just did. And they were supposed to be FRIENDS! He just gave her a dose of honesty and she couldn't take it. Perfect example of someone that couldn't stand the heat, and got defensive and vindictive about it. Gotta feel sorry for people like that I guess.
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Oct 5, 2006 9:37 AM CST WHEN A PERSON ASKS
soulmateTWS
soulmateTWSsoulmateTWSHappy in, Alabama USA8 Threads 4,935 Posts
sigh Now what....and who?uh oh
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Oct 5, 2006 9:39 AM CST WHEN A PERSON ASKS
native_grl38
native_grl38native_grl38Belleville, Canada10 Threads 4,332 Posts
I say..."GROW UP".................We are all adults here!!!!!!


If you can't take opinions that don't agree with yours...Then don't ASK!!!!!!!!

It's that simple!!!!!!



roll eyes roll eyes roll eyes
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Oct 5, 2006 9:46 AM CST WHEN A PERSON ASKS
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
I have no idea who got "banned" this time...and for what...(because it doesn't really matter in the long run)

However..I would like to say the moderators don't just "ban" people because someone "goes running to them"...for heavens sake there would be no one left on the forums if that was their mentality...day in and day out peoples feelings get hurt, people get pissed off with one another...but they get over it (we are all adults here arent we??)...especially as if you say..they were "friends"...they would have resolved whatever differences there was in time...

However, it is easier to let someone else take the "blame" (moderators, other posters, God..the government...etc etc) than to say they themselves may have done something wrong to warrant their "banishment"...

If that was the case Optimystic....you woould have been "banned" a long time ago no doubt!!!rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 5, 2006 10:23 AM CST WHEN A PERSON ASKS
I think most people know how I feel about this subject.

wink wave
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Oct 5, 2006 10:55 AM CST WHEN A PERSON ASKS
TheProfessor
TheProfessorTheProfessorPandoras Box, USA91 Threads 4,746 Posts
My question:

How does one being banned have anything to do with the original topic of people disagreeing with the opinions of others?
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Oct 5, 2006 11:09 AM CST WHEN A PERSON ASKS
TheProfessor
TheProfessorTheProfessorPandoras Box, USA91 Threads 4,746 Posts
Don't make me pull out psych terms in my explanation - you know what to do ;) Remove yourself from the game. I don't keep up with many anymore, didn't know that there was an issue between you and thunderhawk. If there was, sorry to hear it - if not, then set it straight and duct tape her? wink

My .02
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Oct 5, 2006 11:10 AM CST WHEN A PERSON ASKS
scouser
scouserscouserlondon, UK17 Threads 1,346 Posts
must be neat, having a personal fan club that follow"s you around, doe"s she charge for the stalking service???
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Oct 5, 2006 11:13 AM CST WHEN A PERSON ASKS
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
It happened so quickly that even i didn't have time to really react..the only people that knew of it was Gibsonish, Kris, Laurie and Rebecca..and only because i happened to be talking to them at the time (it was really really late the other night) and while they were giving me "options"...he posted his "goodbye" thread...as well as posting the URL on another site where he could be found...and the thread was almost instantaneously pulled...

I had no problem with what he said...would have liked to debate it with him, but like i said..thread got pulled right away...
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Oct 5, 2006 11:18 AM CST WHEN A PERSON ASKS
TheProfessor
TheProfessorTheProfessorPandoras Box, USA91 Threads 4,746 Posts
Ah ha, all is well then - choices were made, things are sorted. Now.. why does it keep getting brought up by her, other than boredom and an attempt to stir the pot? Any ideas?
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Oct 5, 2006 11:19 AM CST WHEN A PERSON ASKS
blancalatina
blancalatinablancalatinawinston-salem, USA42 Threads 3,315 Posts
My assumption is that it was pulled since he disclosed the website he was joining. There was apparently nothing else I could see wrong with the post otherwise.
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Oct 5, 2006 11:19 AM CST WHEN A PERSON ASKS
blancalatina
blancalatinablancalatinawinston-salem, USA42 Threads 3,315 Posts
hammer hits nail
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Oct 5, 2006 11:20 AM CST WHEN A PERSON ASKS
TheProfessor
TheProfessorTheProfessorPandoras Box, USA91 Threads 4,746 Posts
And the skull, and any other place it needs to be to shift common sense.

"Whats a hammerfor?"
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