WHY CAN'T MEN HANDLE WOMEN BEING NICE????? (116)

Feb 21, 2011 3:36 PM CST WHY CAN'T MEN HANDLE WOMEN BEING NICE?????
Sailfree
SailfreeSailfreeHeidelberg, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany118 Threads 5,202 Posts
DUMPED TONIGHT BY TEXT!
A COWARDS WAY TO DO IT. I WAS SO NICE TO THIS GUY OVER 2 MTHS AND HE COULD NOT HANDLE IT. TOLD ME I WAS TOO INTENCE AND HE WOULD NOT BE PRESSED!
I PROMISED MYSELF LAST DITCH ATTEMPT AT ROMANCE AND NOW ITS OVER
DAMN WOULD HAVE SAID YES IF HE ASKED ME TO MARRY HIM. GLAD NOW HE DID NOT.
SO CS KIDDIES IS IT ME BEING NICE IS A NO NO, TREAT THEM MEAN AS THE EXPRESSION GOES. confused
Feb 21, 2011 3:57 PM CST WHY CAN'T MEN HANDLE WOMEN BEING NICE?????
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
Sailfree: DUMPED TONIGHT BY TEXT!
A COWARDS WAY TO DO IT. I WAS SO NICE TO THIS GUY OVER 2 MTHS AND HE COULD NOT HANDLE IT. TOLD ME I WAS TOO INTENCE AND HE WOULD NOT BE PRESSED!
I PROMISED MYSELF LAST DITCH ATTEMPT AT ROMANCE AND NOW ITS OVER
DAMN WOULD HAVE SAID YES IF HE ASKED ME TO MARRY HIM. GLAD NOW HE DID NOT.
SO CS KIDDIES IS IT ME BEING NICE IS A NO NO, TREAT THEM MEAN AS THE EXPRESSION GOES.



Aw huncomfort here gis a bighug was it another Wbanker.. don't you worry you're a sweetiekiss

I've been snapped up for weekend ...yes, a lovely young lady has me all to herself.. lucky girl giggle

Hope I don't get a texthmmm

Could happen as she has kidsuh oh




teddybear rose
Feb 21, 2011 4:00 PM CST WHY CAN'T MEN HANDLE WOMEN BEING NICE?????
mk20uk
mk20ukmk20ukleeds, West Yorkshire, England UK13 Threads 720 Posts
uptall: Aw hun here gis a big was it another Wbanker.. don't you worry you're a sweetie

I've been snapped up for weekend ...yes, a lovely young lady has me all to herself.. lucky girl

Hope I don't get a text

Could happen as she has kids


He is obviously not the one for you Sail. You deserve better!!!

I went on a date on Saturday night and he messaged me on Sunday to say he couldn't stop thinking about me!! It's such a lovely feeling to meet someone who actually says what they're thinking and doesn't play games.

Sail...................I'm wishing and hoping that the next person you talk to is sincere, caring, loving and................amazing!!!!!!

Hold on in there girlteddybear
Feb 21, 2011 4:03 PM CST WHY CAN'T MEN HANDLE WOMEN BEING NICE?????
Sailfree
SailfreeSailfreeHeidelberg, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany118 Threads 5,202 Posts
uptall: Aw hun here gis a big was it another Wbanker.. don't you worry you're a sweetie

I've been snapped up for weekend ...yes, a lovely young lady has me all to herself.. lucky girl

Hope I don't get a text

Could happen as she has kids
You won't get a text as you are a babe! Me seems past it now. Enough already. Used and rejected.
Thanks so much, was ill all day and this capped it off. hug
Feb 21, 2011 4:04 PM CST WHY CAN'T MEN HANDLE WOMEN BEING NICE?????
Sailfree
SailfreeSailfreeHeidelberg, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany118 Threads 5,202 Posts
mk20uk: He is obviously not the one for you Sail. You deserve better!!!

I went on a date on Saturday night and he messaged me on Sunday to say he couldn't stop thinking about me!! It's such a lovely feeling to meet someone who actually says what they're thinking and doesn't play games.

Sail...................I'm wishing and hoping that the next person you talk to is sincere, caring, loving and................amazing!!!!!!

Hold on in there girl
Thanks hunwave I have given up now honey, enough is enough. My poor old heart cannot take it anymore. teddybear
Feb 21, 2011 4:05 PM CST WHY CAN'T MEN HANDLE WOMEN BEING NICE?????
Eos11
Eos11Eos11Lost in ..., Lincolnshire, England UK24 Threads 4,016 Posts
Sailfree: DUMPED TONIGHT BY TEXT!
A COWARDS WAY TO DO IT. I WAS SO NICE TO THIS GUY OVER 2 MTHS AND HE COULD NOT HANDLE IT. TOLD ME I WAS TOO INTENCE AND HE WOULD NOT BE PRESSED!
I PROMISED MYSELF LAST DITCH ATTEMPT AT ROMANCE AND NOW ITS OVER
DAMN WOULD HAVE SAID YES IF HE ASKED ME TO MARRY HIM. GLAD NOW HE DID NOT.
SO CS KIDDIES IS IT ME BEING NICE IS A NO NO, TREAT THEM MEAN AS THE EXPRESSION GOES.



Sorry to hear that Sail .... keep your chin up, he wasn't Mr Right for you hug
Feb 21, 2011 4:06 PM CST WHY CAN'T MEN HANDLE WOMEN BEING NICE?????
mk20uk
mk20ukmk20ukleeds, West Yorkshire, England UK13 Threads 720 Posts
Sailfree: Thanks hun I have given up now honey, enough is enough. My poor old heart cannot take it anymore.


Don't you bloody dare give up!!!!

I won't hear of it!!!!

You're an attractive woman who deserves to be loved and spoilt...........and hopefully you and me and everyone else.......will eventually find what we're looking for.

Hope you're listening Sail because if you're not then I'm going to have to take drastic action!!!!devil
Feb 21, 2011 4:07 PM CST WHY CAN'T MEN HANDLE WOMEN BEING NICE?????
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
Sailfree: You won't get a text as you are a babe! Me seems past it now. Enough already. Used and rejected.
Thanks so much, was ill all day and this capped it off.



scold No, you're not past it sail.. look, I'll text her and you come herewink

drink pouring pointing


bouquet
Feb 21, 2011 4:10 PM CST WHY CAN'T MEN HANDLE WOMEN BEING NICE?????
Sailfree
SailfreeSailfreeHeidelberg, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany118 Threads 5,202 Posts
mk20uk: Don't you bloody dare give up!!!!

I won't hear of it!!!!

You're an attractive woman who deserves to be loved and spoilt...........and hopefully you and me and everyone else.......will eventually find what we're looking for.

Hope you're listening Sail because if you're not then I'm going to have to take drastic action!!!!
Oh sweetywave thanks you will I hope find someone in your life. I am not going to even try again. Too much effort and thought went into this guy! All for a free text to get rid of me! Today deleted lots of contacts male friends do not even want to talk to them again. I was loved, widowed and left to my own devices. See the pigs ear I made of that. teddybear
Feb 21, 2011 4:12 PM CST WHY CAN'T MEN HANDLE WOMEN BEING NICE?????
Sailfree
SailfreeSailfreeHeidelberg, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany118 Threads 5,202 Posts
uptall: No, you're not past it sail.. look, I'll text her and you come here
You are so sweet! I even know the way to Durham! A1
I wish!! teddybear
Feb 21, 2011 4:16 PM CST WHY CAN'T MEN HANDLE WOMEN BEING NICE?????
mk20uk
mk20ukmk20ukleeds, West Yorkshire, England UK13 Threads 720 Posts
Sailfree: Oh sweety thanks you will I hope find someone in your life. I am not going to even try again. Too much effort and thought went into this guy! All for a free text to get rid of me! Today deleted lots of contacts male friends do not even want to talk to them again. I was loved, widowed and left to my own devices. See the pigs ear I made of that.


Nope Sail. You certainly haven't made a 'pigs ear' out of anything.

I think most people on this site have experienced heartache at the hands of the people we cared about. However.......we all know that it's possible to move on!!!

It's 14 years since I divorced and I've only found one person I wanted to be with after that............but it wasn't to be........I had to give up on that happening.

However, I've realised that sometimes in our lives.........we feel amazing, attractive, happy and wanting to let others know how we feel..............but at other times we feel less attractive, lacking confidence and insecure. It can all depend on so many factors!!

For a while I've not felt amazing about myself but after this weekend.........I feel soooo different.

I'm the same person but feel different. You will feel the same very soon too Sailsad flower teddybear
Feb 21, 2011 4:21 PM CST WHY CAN'T MEN HANDLE WOMEN BEING NICE?????
Sailfree
SailfreeSailfreeHeidelberg, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany118 Threads 5,202 Posts
mk20uk: Nope Sail. You certainly haven't made a 'pigs ear' out of anything.

I think most people on this site have experienced heartache at the hands of the people we cared about. However.......we all know that it's possible to move on!!!

It's 14 years since I divorced and I've only found one person I wanted to be with after that............but it wasn't to be........I had to give up on that happening.

However, I've realised that sometimes in our lives.........we feel amazing, attractive, happy and wanting to let others know how we feel..............but at other times we feel less attractive, lacking confidence and insecure. It can all depend on so many factors!!

For a while I've not felt amazing about myself but after this weekend.........I feel soooo different.

I'm the same person but feel different. You will feel the same very soon too Sail
hug Thanks! Was told thought that I should not be on a dating site as not one of the gang, widowed is for a sad reason! Divorced is better as can slag off the partner. I enjoy the fun on the forum and never search or mail anyone unless the ladies that send me a mail from the forums.
Thanks you are a sweety. teddybear
Feb 21, 2011 4:27 PM CST WHY CAN'T MEN HANDLE WOMEN BEING NICE?????
mk20uk
mk20ukmk20ukleeds, West Yorkshire, England UK13 Threads 720 Posts
Sailfree: Thanks! Was told thought that I should not be on a dating site as not one of the gang, widowed is for a sad reason! Divorced is better as can slag off the partner. I enjoy the fun on the forum and never search or mail anyone unless the ladies that send me a mail from the forums.
Thanks you are a sweety.


Tell him to get a grip and take a chill pill!!

Oh my God!!!! How dare someone say someone is either allowed or not allowed to be on a site!!!!

Im divorced but I've never 'slagged off' my ex to my children.

Just enjoy what you enjoy and you are one of the ones who makes this site so nice for me to participate in. teddybear
Feb 21, 2011 4:29 PM CST WHY CAN'T MEN HANDLE WOMEN BEING NICE?????
Sailfree
SailfreeSailfreeHeidelberg, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany118 Threads 5,202 Posts
Eos11: Sorry to hear that Sail .... keep your chin up, he wasn't Mr Right for you
Thanks honey, I tried to make him Mr. Right that is the gutting part of it all. Was too nice to him. This Guy has no heart""frustrated frustrated frustrated
Feb 21, 2011 4:32 PM CST WHY CAN'T MEN HANDLE WOMEN BEING NICE?????
Sailfree
SailfreeSailfreeHeidelberg, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany118 Threads 5,202 Posts
mk20uk: Tell him to get a grip and take a chill pill!!

Oh my God!!!! How dare someone say someone is either allowed or not allowed to be on a site!!!!

Im divorced but I've never 'slagged off' my ex to my children.

Just enjoy what you enjoy and you are one of the ones who makes this site so nice for me to participate in.
Learning the hard way as it were! cheers for the vote of confidence! I can be funny at times. hehehehehteddybear
Feb 21, 2011 4:36 PM CST WHY CAN'T MEN HANDLE WOMEN BEING NICE?????
mk20uk
mk20ukmk20ukleeds, West Yorkshire, England UK13 Threads 720 Posts
Sailfree: Learning the hard way as it were! cheers for the vote of confidence! I can be funny at times. heheheheh


I think we've all been there though Sailfree.

I've met men who seem absolutely perfect but when you actually get to know them............then you realise they're sooooo shallow.


Bide your time and Mr Peter Perfect will come along.

(My mum's been saying this to me for sooooo long that I'm now saying it to others parrot fashion lol)

One day our ship will come in teddybear
Feb 21, 2011 4:40 PM CST WHY CAN'T MEN HANDLE WOMEN BEING NICE?????
EssJay
EssJayEssJayDevon, England UK63 Threads 3,340 Posts
Sailfree: DUMPED TONIGHT BY TEXT!
A COWARDS WAY TO DO IT. I WAS SO NICE TO THIS GUY OVER 2 MTHS AND HE COULD NOT HANDLE IT. TOLD ME I WAS TOO INTENCE AND HE WOULD NOT BE PRESSED!
I PROMISED MYSELF LAST DITCH ATTEMPT AT ROMANCE AND NOW ITS OVER
DAMN WOULD HAVE SAID YES IF HE ASKED ME TO MARRY HIM. GLAD NOW HE DID NOT.
SO CS KIDDIES IS IT ME BEING NICE IS A NO NO, TREAT THEM MEAN AS THE EXPRESSION GOES.


Hi Sail....Sounds to me this guy has done you a favour,telling you in person would have been the gentlemanly way to end your relationship, he is so not a gentleman!
Please don't let this person make you feel insecure, you are such a lovely lady,pick yourself up,dust yourself down and start all over again,as the saying goes.

hug pointing ..just for you.
Feb 21, 2011 4:43 PM CST WHY CAN'T MEN HANDLE WOMEN BEING NICE?????
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
mk20uk:

One day my ship will come in



here it comes now MK... Oh dear...it's the Mary Celesteuh oh


tongue


lips
Feb 21, 2011 4:44 PM CST WHY CAN'T MEN HANDLE WOMEN BEING NICE?????
Sailfree
SailfreeSailfreeHeidelberg, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany118 Threads 5,202 Posts
EssJay: Hi Sail....Sounds to me this guy has done you a favour,telling you in person would have been the gentlemanly way to end your relationship, he is so not a gentleman!
Please don't let this person make you feel insecure, you are such a lovely lady,pick yourself up,dust yourself down and start all over again,as the saying goes.

..just for you.
Thanks hunwave
I hate liars!
No respect!
Self righteous!
High maintenance!
Better on my own less hassle!
Definitely less heartache!!teddybear
Feb 21, 2011 4:46 PM CST WHY CAN'T MEN HANDLE WOMEN BEING NICE?????
mk20uk
mk20ukmk20ukleeds, West Yorkshire, England UK13 Threads 720 Posts
uptall: here it comes now MK... Oh dear...it's the Mary Celeste


Oi!!! Stop picking on me crying
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