Forgive and Forget.... (81)
I tend to forgive and not forget.Which leaves me to question if I really did forgive in the first place.
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markizamkd25: How to learn to forgive and forget?
Is it something that can be learned?
Is it something that can be learned?
strong hit with a baseball bat can cause amnesia ...but I don`t thing that you were aiming at that direction
Time is the key to your question....
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las63: I tend to forgive and not forget.Which leaves me to question if I really did forgive in the first place.
Yes i know what you mean, i do same but i really think thats not real forgiving...But what is it? 
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hey Marki!
im not sure you can learn that,but our minds tend to forget and block the bad experiences and remember the good ones..natural reaction for self-preservation..takes time,of course..
im not sure you can learn that,but our minds tend to forget and block the bad experiences and remember the good ones..natural reaction for self-preservation..takes time,of course..
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But...if you forget, wouldn't you get screw-over again?
-John-
-John-
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it's the other way around for me I tend to forget but when someone reminds me of the deed, i say " oh yeah i'm angry"
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Boban1: strong hit with a baseball bat can cause amnesia ...but I don`t thing that you were aiming at that direction Time is the key to your question....
You will forget person that you had to forgive as time goes by...Was thinking about forgive and forget and go on as it used to be
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i dont forgive,i just forget it and go on with my life
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cherrybrandy: hey Marki!
im not sure you can learn that,but our minds tend to forget and block the bad experiences and remember the good ones..natural reaction for self-preservation..takes time,of course..
I do that but never go back im not sure you can learn that,but our minds tend to forget and block the bad experiences and remember the good ones..natural reaction for self-preservation..takes time,of course..
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markizamkd25: How to learn to forgive and forget?
Is it something that can be learned?
Is it something that can be learned?
Don't forget, only forgive. If you go on forgetting bad things you might start forgetting good things, too. How to forgive... is not very easy if you are not such kind of person. Maybe you should think about the possibility that anger created in you as a reaction to somebody's bad behaviour can harm you more than anybody else.
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TheresMyFriend: But...if you forget, wouldn't you get screw-over again?
-John-
Well thats forgiving i think to let someone to screw you over for same thing...really means you forgive and forget -John-
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I dont let things get to me in the first place.If i have an issue,i deal with it,then its done,i dont carry it on my shoulders.
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vyoleta: Don't forget, only forgive. If you go on forgetting bad things you might start forgetting good things, too. How to forgive... is not very easy if you are not such kind of person. Maybe you should think about the possibility that anger created in you as a reaction to somebody's bad behaviour can harm you more than anybody else.
Probablly can do lots of harm...for me its easyer to go away and let it go....otherwise ill spend my time and energy about doing mean things 
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markizamkd25: Well thats forgiving i think to let someone to screw you over for same thing...really means you forgive and forget
I think you can forgive, (that is the ability of the heart) but the only way to truly forget, would be to have had some sort of brain disorder (amnesia).
JMO
-John-
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TheresMyFriend: I think you can forgive, (that is the ability of the heart) but the only way to truly forget, would be to have had some sort of brain disorder (amnesia).
JMO
-John-
JMO
-John-
some ppl are able to do that 
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markizamkd25: How to learn to forgive and forget?
Is it something that can be learned?
Is it something that can be learned?
Forgiveness is a two way road, you need to be asked for forgiveness to forgive. If the offender does not care, how can you forgive? But with the time you forget and don't dwell on your anger. That is a thing you can learn, not to recall the grievance and not blow up the fire of anger.
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markizamkd25: Probablly can do lots of harm...for me its easyer to go away and let it go....otherwise ill spend my time and energy about doing mean things
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markizamkd25: some ppl are able to do that
Agreed!
-John-
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las63: I tend to forgive and not forget.Which leaves me to question if I really did forgive in the first place.
yep..me too
i forgive in a sense that i comprend the reasons of the another person which however doesn't mean that i justify something that i reckon wrong...
it's more like an acceptation of their right to behave as they choose to..
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