Long time since I wrote in the forums, but I have something to rant and rave about! (4)

Feb 27, 2011 1:34 PM CST Long time since I wrote in the forums, but I have something to rant and rave about!
Mookhilina
MookhilinaMookhilinaWindsor, Berkshire, England UK11 Threads 37 Posts
So many blokes on here who put their kids in harm's way and ignoring the right of privacy of their kids by putting photos of them on here - what's up with that???? Ever thought about how many weirdos are on a dating site? Gosh, guys! Think and do the sensible thing: take the photos of your kids off your profile ... anyway: I want to get to know and date the man, not his kids... so: it is a turn-off, a big one!!!!

Having said that; I do like children, don't mistake my last sentence!

But: until I am sure and the bloke is sure that we both want the same, the kids should not be involved in the process... as I think it very unhealthy for kids to get to know someone and then have to go through a breakups over and over if it is not working out.

Thanks for letting me have my say and please don't be too harsh with your responses as I really don't mean any harm to anybody, rather try to raise awareness to the fact of the dangers lurking online.
Feb 27, 2011 1:39 PM CST Long time since I wrote in the forums, but I have something to rant and rave about!
Sailfree
SailfreeSailfreeHeidelberg, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany118 Threads 5,202 Posts
Mookhilina: So many blokes on here who put their kids in harm's way and ignoring the right of privacy of their kids by putting photos of them on here - what's up with that???? Ever thought about how many weirdos are on a dating site? Gosh, guys! Think and do the sensible thing: take the photos of your kids off your profile ... anyway: I want to get to know and date the man, not his kids... so: it is a turn-off, a big one!!!!

Having said that; I do like children, don't mistake my last sentence!

But: until I am sure and the bloke is sure that we both want the same, the kids should not be involved in the process... as I think it very unhealthy for kids to get to know someone and then have to go through a breakups over and over if it is not working out.

Thanks for letting me have my say and please don't be too harsh with your responses as I really don't mean any harm to anybody, rather try to raise awareness to the fact of the dangers lurking online.


wave Hi I do not have children, but if I did I certainly would not put a pic of them on a site or indeed anywhere on the net.
I suppose some men do it for the attention that they may get from the females. Not sure really. Not seen many ladies doing it though. teddybear
Feb 28, 2011 6:55 AM CST Long time since I wrote in the forums, but I have something to rant and rave about!
tomcat1968
tomcat1968tomcat1968norwich, Norfolk, England UK24 Threads 1 Polls 1,783 Posts
Mookhilina: So many blokes on here who put their kids in harm's way and ignoring the right of privacy of their kids by putting photos of them on here - what's up with that???? Ever thought about how many weirdos are on a dating site? Gosh, guys! Think and do the sensible thing: take the photos of your kids off your profile ... anyway: I want to get to know and date the man, not his kids... so: it is a turn-off, a big one!!!!

Having said that; I do like children, don't mistake my last sentence!

But: until I am sure and the bloke is sure that we both want the same, the kids should not be involved in the process... as I think it very unhealthy for kids to get to know someone and then have to go through a breakups over and over if it is not working out.

Thanks for letting me have my say and please don't be too harsh with your responses as I really don't mean any harm to anybody, rather try to raise awareness to the fact of the dangers lurking online.
I wouldnt even send potos to facebook for my freinds and loved ones too see. as you say mS Mook there are weirdos everywheer whoc can use false names and pictures to get close to peole with the sole intention off hurting children if we love them and i have 2 we must keep them safe.handshake
Feb 28, 2011 7:17 AM CST Long time since I wrote in the forums, but I have something to rant and rave about!
sunflower36
sunflower36sunflower36St. Andrews, Fife, Scotland UK4 Threads 421 Posts
Mookhilina: So many blokes on here who put their kids in harm's way and ignoring the right of privacy of their kids by putting photos of them on here - what's up with that???? Ever thought about how many weirdos are on a dating site? Gosh, guys! Think and do the sensible thing: take the photos of your kids off your profile ... anyway: I want to get to know and date the man, not his kids... so: it is a turn-off, a big one!!!!

Having said that; I do like children, don't mistake my last sentence!

But: until I am sure and the bloke is sure that we both want the same, the kids should not be involved in the process... as I think it very unhealthy for kids to get to know someone and then have to go through a breakups over and over if it is not working out.

Thanks for letting me have my say and please don't be too harsh with your responses as I really don't mean any harm to anybody, rather try to raise awareness to the fact of the dangers lurking online.




I wouldn't like to be the child in the photo, imagine what they would think once they have grown up. It is quite un-nerving. I don't know if it could just be thoughtlessness on the person posting the photo's (which doesn't say much for them) or if a subliminal message is being sent through it? dunno

I agree with what you say and feel the same, so thanks for raising awareness Mook thumbs up
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