I think that when things start to get serious, both sides get all tangled up, and both sides get all confused and clouded with emotion and think the other side is pulling out...that's why "all girls back out" and "all guys back out."
just a thought, My dear sainted mother told be long ago that we are different, us men from you women (Viva La Difference). Appartently where expressing emotions are concerned. How many women hear willadmit they new they where in love with the man before he knew he was in love with her??? It's how yuou handle this info that can cause the "Pull away" Why do women after sharing a close phyiscal act (making love) start with the "I love you" and automatically think it's always more than just sharing a mutually pleasurably experience. that can also explain why some men avoid the "sleep over" It's not because we wearing a Iron Man boxers ( Ok maybe sometimes it is) but the implications of what a woman may think it means....
then finally the most logical answer to why men pull away is
what ever it is you are doing is tickling the hell out of us see another secret revealed Yes its true some men are ticklish.
If serious means the direction of marriage, then that's a huge commitment. How do you know the other person is going to be the same after you are chained to them.
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