It must be 7 to 10 years that I'am here, and I think this is a waste of my time,nothing wrong with this site, but this online dating isn't for me,hell I even don't do so good live. I'am going to leave here soon, why get my hopes up. It's been fun but a little hurfultoo.
carenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands3,113 posts
mastic55: It must be 7 to 10 years that I'am here, and I think this is a waste of my time,nothing wrong with this site, but this online dating isn't for me,hell I even don't do so good live. I'am going to leave here soon, why get my hopes up. It's been fun but a little hurfultoo.
sorry to read you see it this way. but I understand.
mastic55: It must be 7 to 10 years that I'am here, and I think this is a waste of my time,nothing wrong with this site, but this online dating isn't for me,hell I even don't do so good live. I'am going to leave here soon, why get my hopes up. It's been fun but a little hurfultoo.
Oh come on--a nice L.I. guy like you--awhile back I talked to an old friend in Portland (OR) about this same sort of thing. Many people join these kinds of clubs, and don't look at their mail, posts, etc... for eons. I don't know why this is. Out here on the Pacific coast, I'm not exactly the worst bulb in the box, but am not getting anyone showing personal interest, either. (Of course my wish list is a tad different, I do admit, and this ain't exactly Greenwich Village--shee-yat!) Stay, anyhow, mastic, visit with some of us lounge lizards, if for nothing else, the mordant humor, Bud. I do think if you hang in there some real nice gal will notice you--you're not a schmuck, are you? You don't fill your place with newspaper and pop tops off beer cans, do ya? See--you're O.K.!!
mastic55: It must be 7 to 10 years that I'am here, and I think this is a waste of my time,nothing wrong with this site, but this online dating isn't for me,hell I even don't do so good live. I'am going to leave here soon, why get my hopes up. It's been fun but a little hurfultoo.
I think it might to normal to go threw this faze,i two have though about maybe internet dating is not right for me,in no way should it take the place of meeting people in real life that are in your area.(i joined a local site for that)Rejection is part of life,yes it hurts.Just remember you are looking for only one,you should keep all paths open to finding them.We don't know when or if or where it will happen,just relax,enjoy the forums here,enjoy real life.Everyone wants to be loved,it just can't be forced,takes time and effort,positive attitude,and never give up HOPE,they might be just around the corner.
rohaan: Oh come on--a nice L.I. guy like you--awhile back I talked to an old friend in Portland (OR) about this same sort of thing. Many people join these kinds of clubs, and don't look at their mail, posts, etc... for eons. I don't know why this is. Out here on the Pacific coast, I'm not exactly the worst bulb in the box, but am not getting anyone showing personal interest, either. (Of course my wish list is a tad different, I do admit, and this ain't exactly Greenwich Village--shee-yat!) Stay, anyhow, mastic, visit with some of us lounge lizards, if for nothing else, the mordant humor, Bud. I do think if you hang in there some real nice gal will notice you--you're not a schmuck, are you? You don't fill your place with newspaper and pop tops off beer cans, do ya? See--you're O.K.!!
mastic55: It must be 7 to 10 years that I'am here, and I think this is a waste of my time,nothing wrong with this site, but this online dating isn't for me,hell I even don't do so good live. I'am going to leave here soon, why get my hopes up. It's been fun but a little hurfultoo.
Tell me about it ... God hates me...
Message for God: dear lord if you let me hump that cute nurse with that awesome behind ,I will be going to the church every sunday ...
mastic55: It must be 7 to 10 years that I'am here, and I think this is a waste of my time,nothing wrong with this site, but this online dating isn't for me,hell I even don't do so good live. I'am going to leave here soon, why get my hopes up. It's been fun but a little hurfultoo.
A person should never get their hopes up, but still keep hope alive. For me, if something happens it's meant to be as I don't always play well with others either.
mastic55: It must be 7 to 10 years that I'am here, and I think this is a waste of my time,nothing wrong with this site, but this online dating isn't for me,hell I even don't do so good live. I'am going to leave here soon, why get my hopes up. It's been fun but a little hurfultoo.
Either way in the 'live' as you say it can be a little hurtful too.
I didn't feel online dating was for me either but I found love offline so to speak.
Sometimes it happens sometimes not.I wasn't even interested in getting into another relationship after my late husband passed away but I did.
vyoletaArkaroola, South Australia Australia1,050 posts
mastic55: It must be 7 to 10 years that I'am here, and I think this is a waste of my time,nothing wrong with this site, but this online dating isn't for me,hell I even don't do so good live. I'am going to leave here soon, why get my hopes up. It's been fun but a little hurfultoo.
Too long, indeed. I have the similar feeling that it is just a waste of time. Moreover, I sometimes think that there are very few real people here, the majority of the profiles are fakes, placed there just to appear as if the site is crowded and that there's "lots of fish", as they say. Good luck to you!
Mastic, if I may offer some advice. Put on suit and tie and play the role of a mafia Don. You already got the LI accent so you got that base covered. Go with your strength.
ooby_dooby: Mastic, if I may offer some advice. Put on suit and tie and play the role of a mafia Don. You already got the LI accent so you got that base covered. Go with your strength.
mastic55: It must be 7 to 10 years that I'am here, and I think this is a waste of my time,nothing wrong with this site, but this online dating isn't for me,hell I even don't do so good live. I'am going to leave here soon, why get my hopes up. It's been fun but a little hurfultoo.
I know the feeling... fells like I've been here forever..
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