who do you turn to as a single parent? ( Archived) (22)

Apr 7, 2011 11:27 PM CST who do you turn to as a single parent?
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
hey!

who are the most important people in your life you turn to when your child gets sick or when you want to talk about the silly things that happen in your home?

who do you share the fun, of taking care of this child by yourself, with?
or the worries?
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Apr 8, 2011 1:00 AM CST who do you turn to as a single parent?
midnight_angel_1
midnight_angel_1midnight_angel_1Northwest, Tennessee USA1 Threads 399 Posts
My mom hears about all that is going on when we talk on the phone every week. grin
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Apr 8, 2011 7:51 AM CST who do you turn to as a single parent?
devon80
devon80devon80mytown, Kentucky USA705 Posts
carenza: hey!

who are the most important people in your life you turn to when your child gets sick or when you want to talk about the silly things that happen in your home?

who do you share the fun, of taking care of this child by yourself, with?
or the worries?




Im lucky for me its my ex. Hes very active in our daughters life. Although with him being military it hasnt always been that way. When he is on a deployment both of our families are not far away!
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Apr 8, 2011 7:16 PM CST who do you turn to as a single parent?
_LoVe_BuG_
_LoVe_BuG__LoVe_BuG_Moncton, New Brunswick Canada1 Threads 58 Posts
carenza: hey!

who are the most important people in your life you turn to when your child gets sick or when you want to talk about the silly things that happen in your home?

who do you share the fun, of taking care of this child by yourself, with?
or the worries?


My mom, best friend & sister are my rocks when I need someone to talk to.

I envy that you can communicate with your ex Devon. My ex is a wonderful father but we still do not get along after 4 years apart & only communicate via email or text.. A bit sad, really.
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Apr 8, 2011 11:34 PM CST who do you turn to as a single parent?
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
_LoVe_BuG_: My mom, best friend & sister are my rocks when I need someone to talk to.

I envy that you can communicate with your ex Devon. My ex is a wonderful father but we still do not get along after 4 years apart & only communicate via email or text.. A bit sad, really.


hey, that sounds familiar!

communicating with the ex through email or text.
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Apr 9, 2011 12:43 AM CST who do you turn to as a single parent?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
I've taken care of my son (now grown up) all by myself.
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Apr 9, 2011 12:48 AM CST who do you turn to as a single parent?
jodestir
jodestirjodestirNowhere Else, South Australia Australia32 Threads 15 Polls 166 Posts
.. i've raised my son completely solo ... and have loved each and every minute of it ... He's married now and grown into an amazing young man .. i couldn't be prouder ... I think strength to manage solo, comes from within ... and the desire to be the very best you can be for your child ... wave
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Apr 9, 2011 12:51 AM CST who do you turn to as a single parent?
anblu45
anblu45anblu45treviso, Veneto Italy31 Threads 2 Polls 731 Posts
it's not so easy to comunicate with other persons, even if you speak the same language.
and then your feelings become a sort of message, strange being the human, they can bear a bottle with message inside a sort of sos written and hiden.................till to the moment that an angel will find out it.................our message in a bottle
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Apr 9, 2011 12:54 AM CST who do you turn to as a single parent?
anblu45
anblu45anblu45treviso, Veneto Italy31 Threads 2 Polls 731 Posts
jodestir: .. i've raised my son completely solo ... and have loved each and every minute of it ... He's married now and grown into an amazing young man .. i couldn't be prouder ... I think strength to manage solo, comes from within ... and the desire to be the very best you can be for your child ...




l understand you, totally agree with you, and believe to me l'm moved
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Apr 21, 2011 5:14 AM CST who do you turn to as a single parent?
Blizzard14u
Blizzard14uBlizzard14uGosnells, Western Australia Australia67 Threads 2 Polls 1,430 Posts
carenza: hey!

who are the most important people in your life you turn to when your child gets sick or when you want to talk about the silly things that happen in your home?

who do you share the fun, of taking care of this child by yourself, with?
or the worries?


I just talk too the kid! Yes we have always talked openly like adults do!
Although I give the kid a little bit more respect than I do most adults,
As she will be the one that chooses my retirement home, if I live that long?
grin
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Apr 21, 2011 5:17 AM CST who do you turn to as a single parent?
ltlredcorvette
ltlredcorvetteltlredcorvetteNarrogin, Western Australia Australia3 Threads 112 Posts
I have a good friend who I can call to vent my worries and frustrations to. She is the best when I need soemone to listen to me and give me practical advice.
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Apr 21, 2011 12:04 PM CST who do you turn to as a single parent?
h8tuznb8
h8tuznb8h8tuznb8parker, Colorado USA2 Threads 16 Posts
I am very lucky in that, my ex and I get along very well and we both take active parts in the kids lives. By design, we live only a mile and a half apart so the kids can maintain their neigborhood peer groups and ride their bikes from house to house if they so desire. We share 50/50 custody but assist each other in getting the kids to/from their activities even on our 'off' weeks. When I have the kids, she watches my daughter after school until I get off work and pick her up. My son could very easily do this (and does on the rare occasion) but we feel he needs to be a kid himself and should no be burdaned with too much 'adut' responibility. I have the luxery of being able to take more time off from work than she does, so when one of the kids are sick and must stay home from school, typically they come to my house, even if it's on her time.
I may not have made a good choice for a life partner - but I ended up with a good freind, and a [great mother/u] for my children.
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Apr 21, 2011 6:37 PM CST who do you turn to as a single parent?
yabbadabbadont
yabbadabbadontyabbadabbadontsomewhere, Waikato New Zealand10 Threads 2 Polls 1,692 Posts
As a Dad who has full custody of his 2 girls....I have to admit that it would not be possible without the help of me Mum (my girls Granma)......

It has enabled me to keep them in my care,.....and for this I am deeply and eternally grateful... bowing bowing bowing
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Apr 21, 2011 11:52 PM CST who do you turn to as a single parent?
midnight_angel_1
midnight_angel_1midnight_angel_1Northwest, Tennessee USA1 Threads 399 Posts
Anymore I've been doing it all on my own. My mom and I don't get to talk much at all. I can't complain though, at least I can stand on my own. cool
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Apr 21, 2011 11:59 PM CST who do you turn to as a single parent?
Pops69
Pops69Pops69Somewhere, Wisconsin USA15 Threads 1 Polls 134 Posts
carenza: hey!

who are the most important people in your life you turn to when your child gets sick or when you want to talk about the silly things that happen in your home?

who do you share the fun, of taking care of this child by yourself, with?
or the worries?
I was a single parent for 20 years. I went to single parents meetings in town. And I was lucky enough to have a loving supporting family. I also thought to myself after My kids grew up and left. Wow, now I can be a bit of a kid myself. A wiser kid, But a kid none the less.
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Apr 22, 2011 12:03 AM CST who do you turn to as a single parent?
justhereNB
justhereNBjusthereNBgrandfalls, New Brunswick Canada16 Posts
midnight_angel_1: Anymore I've been doing it all on my own. My mom and I don't get to talk much at all. I can't complain though, at least I can stand on my own.



Ive raised my 2 kids alone and to me they are my best friends im lucky great kids when i get frustrated lol i go to my friends online They are awesome surport since most ive known for 9 years now they watched my kids grow up on face book in photos and all i take strength from them
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Apr 22, 2011 4:39 AM CST who do you turn to as a single parent?
ziggysdad2
ziggysdad2ziggysdad2glen burnie, Maryland USA3 Threads 14 Posts
jodestir: .. i've raised my son completely solo ... and have loved each and every minute of it ... He's married now and grown into an amazing young man .. i couldn't be prouder ... I think strength to manage solo, comes from within ... and the desire to be the very best you can be for your child ...
I have done the same with my son now 7 . He,s ADHD and requires much patience. Just yesterday he spilled milk on my keyboard,redesigned my farmtown,broke the antenna off a boom box,and knocked out a cieling light with a basket ball. Then wrapped his arms around me and said thanks for being so understanding with me. I was at the end of my wits, and worn to a frazzle but u got to love them . OMG did i sleep good !!!! peace thumbs up yawn yawn yawn
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Apr 22, 2011 4:50 AM CST who do you turn to as a single parent?
Lilly32
Lilly32Lilly32Aukštaitija, Lithuania6 Threads 259 Posts
My mom, I raise my 3 years old girl-alone.I have friends who has families and have contributed a great understanding and help when I need to.
And my girl is not easy, she is a very active talktive,learn fast and sometimes a trouble maker, I always blame the age crisis :-).
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Apr 22, 2011 9:32 AM CST who do you turn to as a single parent?
Paldi5
Paldi5Paldi5unknown, Pennsylvania USA13 Threads 2,376 Posts
h8tuznb8: I am very lucky in that, my ex and I get along very well and we both take active parts in the kids lives. By design, we live only a mile and a half apart so the kids can maintain their neigborhood peer groups and ride their bikes from house to house if they so desire. We share 50/50 custody but assist each other in getting the kids to/from their activities even on our 'off' weeks. When I have the kids, she watches my daughter after school until I get off work and pick her up. My son could very easily do this (and does on the rare occasion) but we feel he needs to be a kid himself and should no be burdaned with too much 'adut' responibility. I have the luxery of being able to take more time off from work than she does, so when one of the kids are sick and must stay home from school, typically they come to my house, even if it's on her time.
I may not have made a good choice for a life partner - but I ended up with a good freind, and a [great mother/u] for my children.
thumbs up
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Apr 22, 2011 10:26 AM CST who do you turn to as a single parent?
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
carenza: hey!

who are the most important people in your life you turn to when your child gets sick or when you want to talk about the silly things that happen in your home?

who do you share the fun, of taking care of this child by yourself, with?
or the worries?
For me when I was a single parent I always called my grandmother or my ex's family for advise.
If it was my child getting sick, I usually called the family doctor first..
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