who is going to want me now? (207)
texastornado1poplar bluff, Missouri USA1 Threads 1 PostsI got a divorce and was going through a child custody battle with two toddler's. Then i met someone. Fell in love and found out that we were pregnant with twins. He left me pregnant and now i dont know what to do. I am not rich..and even after the twins are born, I am not getting any help from my x-husband or then twins daddy. $ho in his right mind would ever take on that many kids? I am only 29 years old. I dont wanna spend the rest of my life alone. Anyone know what I should do to meet a real man and not get hurt worse???
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you're off on the right foot with your honesty. Many men love kids and have kids of their own - practically speaking maybe you could do something like join a parents without partners group
there's a guy out there somewhere who wants a blended family and God is saving him just for you!
there's a guy out there somewhere who wants a blended family and God is saving him just for you!
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texastornado1: I got a divorce and was going through a child custody battle with two toddler's. Then i met someone. Fell in love and found out that we were pregnant with twins. He left me pregnant and now i dont know what to do. I am not rich..and even after the twins are born, I am not getting any help from my x-husband or then twins daddy. $ho in his right mind would ever take on that many kids? I am only 29 years old. I dont wanna spend the rest of my life alone. Anyone know what I should do to meet a real man and not get hurt worse???
Well, sound like You are in a Fix, But Daddy one should be paying Child support on the first two, and Daddy 2 should be paying for the Twins when they are born, If you are sure who the second daddy is...
It will take a Special kind of Man to take that responsibility,
and May be hard finding one, sounds like you need a good job for now
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texastornado1: I got a divorce and was going through a child custody battle with two toddler's. Then i met someone. Fell in love and found out that we were pregnant with twins. He left me pregnant and now i dont know what to do. I am not rich..and even after the twins are born, I am not getting any help from my x-husband or then twins daddy. $ho in his right mind would ever take on that many kids? I am only 29 years old. I dont wanna spend the rest of my life alone. Anyone know what I should do to meet a real man and not get hurt worse???
If 4 is enough find some cute guy who can't father children of his own but wants them.
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texastornado1: I got a divorce and was going through a child custody battle with two toddler's. Then i met someone. Fell in love and found out that we were pregnant with twins. He left me pregnant and now i dont know what to do. I am not rich..and even after the twins are born, I am not getting any help from my x-husband or then twins daddy. $ho in his right mind would ever take on that many kids? I am only 29 years old. I dont wanna spend the rest of my life alone. Anyone know what I should do to meet a real man and not get hurt worse???
contrary to the above post, sweet do as she suggested. There are decent guys out there, and just one more thing, birth control but sure you don't need to be reminded
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right now I would say concentrate on the kids and let the rest fall into place
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texastornado1: I got a divorce and was going through a child custody battle with two toddler's. Then i met someone. Fell in love and found out that we were pregnant with twins. He left me pregnant and now i dont know what to do. I am not rich..and even after the twins are born, I am not getting any help from my x-husband or then twins daddy. $ho in his right mind would ever take on that many kids? I am only 29 years old. I dont wanna spend the rest of my life alone. Anyone know what I should do to meet a real man and not get hurt worse???
There are loads of guys who would take on that many kids. I would for one so don't panic, there are loads more guys like me out there. It's you they fall in love with and the kids are part of the package and they understand.
Most real guys want to be Dads and are not worried if they're not the birth father of the children they bring up. Children are blessings not problems.
You're only 29 so most of life is still ahead of you.
First find out your legal rights and make the dead beat fathers pay for their kids. For me there is nothing worse in the World than a dead beat father.
Then put on your pretty face and get talking to the guys on here. You'll soon find that you'll get a lot of interest given your openness and honesty. You're a girl most guys would find hard not to fall in love with.
A little advice. Try not to go for the pretty or bad boys, they may be fun but the best guys come in the more unusual types and sizes. Fall in love with the person not the image and you'll soon find a guy who will put you on the pedestal you deserve.
Remember what you write in your own words "I am able to do anything I put my mind and heart to"
I know you can and your friends here at CS are here to support you 100%.
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music that is so nice - how is it that u are still single anyway...the world could use more people with your 
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music is life
you live in a dream world
i mean this gal is young and i hold all hope for her but not all guys want to be dads and many end up confused and then jealous of family dynamics that were pre-existing to their arrival
in my experience a man that has never had successful family relationships
if he doesnt realize that undertaking will have a learning curve- and somehow become willing to learn about compromise, acceptance and group dynamics
the whole business is dead in the water pretty quick
some people living a solitary life cannot mix with a family and be happy about it
you live in a dream world
i mean this gal is young and i hold all hope for her but not all guys want to be dads and many end up confused and then jealous of family dynamics that were pre-existing to their arrival
in my experience a man that has never had successful family relationships
if he doesnt realize that undertaking will have a learning curve- and somehow become willing to learn about compromise, acceptance and group dynamics
the whole business is dead in the water pretty quick
some people living a solitary life cannot mix with a family and be happy about it
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texastornado1: I got a divorce and was going through a child custody battle with two toddler's. Then i met someone. Fell in love and found out that we were pregnant with twins. He left me pregnant and now i dont know what to do. I am not rich..and even after the twins are born, I am not getting any help from my x-husband or then twins daddy. $ho in his right mind would ever take on that many kids? I am only 29 years old. I dont wanna spend the rest of my life alone. Anyone know what I should do to meet a real man and not get hurt worse???
Hi OP...you are very young and while you do have a lot of kids, that is not going to stop a man from loving you and them as a package.
You've been through a great deal in your past and you're about to have another life-changing event in the near future--for now, focus on yourself and your children.
When you are ready to have a relationship, someone will come along and be more than happy, ready and willing to love you and accept your children too-don't worry and in the meantime, be good to yourself.
Take things in your life slower, be more proactive about the type of men you allow into your life and above all, when the right one comes along, it is something you will feel with every fiber of your being and you'll know it instinctively.
Trust yourself enough to let go---there's someone out there for everyone and you WILL find a man when you're ready. Best of luck to you on the new babies and I hope you have a happy, healthy, beautiful set of twins! Congrats to you!
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hey lilmama, is SHE the one who is supposed to love the "package?"
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felixis99: hey lilmama, is SHE the one who is supposed to love the "package?"
well now that you mention it, that's a rather important point you have there...
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Come to New York and hang with me, BIG DADDY...lol
But for real make sure they pay for those kids,it's the childrens right for you to make them pay and have proper shelter all around,the rest will fall intp place.
But for real make sure they pay for those kids,it's the childrens right for you to make them pay and have proper shelter all around,the rest will fall intp place.
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mindfful: music is life
you live in a dream world
i mean this gal is young and i hold all hope for her but not all guys want to be dads and many end up confused and then jealous of family dynamics that were pre-existing to their arrival
in my experience a man that has never had successful family relationships
if he doesnt realize that undertaking will have a learning curve- and somehow become willing to learn about compromise, acceptance and group dynamics
the whole business is dead in the water pretty quick
some people living a solitary life cannot mix with a family and be happy about it
you live in a dream world
i mean this gal is young and i hold all hope for her but not all guys want to be dads and many end up confused and then jealous of family dynamics that were pre-existing to their arrival
in my experience a man that has never had successful family relationships
if he doesnt realize that undertaking will have a learning curve- and somehow become willing to learn about compromise, acceptance and group dynamics
the whole business is dead in the water pretty quick
some people living a solitary life cannot mix with a family and be happy about it
Maybe your right, maybe I'm too much like Pollyanna. I do live in World where everything is possible and dreams are obtainable and to be honest I wouldn't like to live otherwise.
I agree there are guys who will not be able to cope with elements of the family dynamics, who end up in a situation they can't cope with. But for everyone one who can't there is another who can.
Is the glass half empty or half full. As Abraham Lincoln said 'if you look for the worst in people you will surely find it'
'this gal' as you call the Texas Tornado is struggling with the realities of life. I know there can be light for her in her future, if you want to close the blinds on it for her then feel free.
I am expressing my opinion, maybe it doesn't sit with yours but were are different people with different friends in different lifestyles. Many of my friends remarried and took on 3,4, even in one case 6 children and they are very happy. Maybe your experience is different.
I shall continue to talk about what I know and you can talk about what you know. I'm just happy to disagree in an amicable way and live in my World of inspiration and optomism.
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lilmamma71: well now that you mention it, that's a rather important point you have there...
oh incorrigble me! with the one track mind!
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felixis99: oh incorrigble me! with the one track mind!
hey a dirty mind is something to be appreciated and NOT wasted!
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Music_Is_Life: Maybe your right, maybe I'm too much like Pollyanna. I do live in World where everything is possible and dreams are obtainable and to be honest I wouldn't like to live otherwise.
I agree there are guys who will not be able to cope with elements of the family dynamics, who end up in a situation they can't cope with. But for everyone one who can't there is another who can.
Is the glass half empty or half full. As Abraham Lincoln said 'if you look for the worst in people you will surely find it'
'this gal' as you call the Texas Tornado is struggling with the realities of life. I know there can be light for her in her future, if you want to close the blinds on it for her then feel free.
I am expressing my opinion, maybe it doesn't sit with yours but were are different people with different friends in different lifestyles. Many of my friends remarried and took on 3,4, even in one case 6 children and they are very happy. Maybe your experience is different.
I shall continue to talk about what I know and you can talk about what you know. I'm just happy to disagree in an amicable way and live in my World of inspiration and optomism.
I agree there are guys who will not be able to cope with elements of the family dynamics, who end up in a situation they can't cope with. But for everyone one who can't there is another who can.
Is the glass half empty or half full. As Abraham Lincoln said 'if you look for the worst in people you will surely find it'
'this gal' as you call the Texas Tornado is struggling with the realities of life. I know there can be light for her in her future, if you want to close the blinds on it for her then feel free.
I am expressing my opinion, maybe it doesn't sit with yours but were are different people with different friends in different lifestyles. Many of my friends remarried and took on 3,4, even in one case 6 children and they are very happy. Maybe your experience is different.
I shall continue to talk about what I know and you can talk about what you know. I'm just happy to disagree in an amicable way and live in my World of inspiration and optomism.
good luck with that one music
but I tend to agree w/ you - many things are a matter of how we choose to see them
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texastornado1: I got a divorce and was going through a child custody battle with two toddler's. Then i met someone. Fell in love and found out that we were pregnant with twins. He left me pregnant and now i dont know what to do. I am not rich..and even after the twins are born, I am not getting any help from my x-husband or then twins daddy. $ho in his right mind would ever take on that many kids? I am only 29 years old. I dont wanna spend the rest of my life alone. Anyone know what I should do to meet a real man and not get hurt worse???
find a guy on his own, with a couple of kids, & life should be ok,
u may have to drop your standard or go for someone older, but I don't see a big problem,
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Wineman42: right now I would say concentrate on the kids and let the rest fall into place
I am in total agreeance. Your twins havent been born yet and you seem too concerned with still finding a man. Leave the men alone for awhile and focus on your children. Im sure you will have your hands full. Good luck.
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