Losing Your Life To Alzheimer's Disease ( Archived) (43)

Apr 16, 2011 10:42 AM CST Losing Your Life To Alzheimer's Disease
Snuggs09
Snuggs09Snuggs09Somewhere, New Jersey USA128 Threads 1 Polls 2,615 Posts
If your doctor told you that you had onset symptoms of Alzheimer's Disease and that it will progress to the point that you won't recognize anyone or anything in the life that you now have, what do you think would be your first thought after that diagnosis?

Your children, spouse, your job, money.

Would you be angry.

Would you start working on your bucket list.

One day my daughter told me that if it happened to me it would break her heart that I didn’t know who she was.

And as I write this thread, I tear up because that would my first fear....how am I going to know who she is....blues
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Apr 16, 2011 10:44 AM CST Losing Your Life To Alzheimer's Disease
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Alzheimers is what got my Nan in the end. It was sad...but in an odd way she was happy, living in her memories...It one that I hope they find a cure for soon sad flower
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Apr 16, 2011 10:46 AM CST Losing Your Life To Alzheimer's Disease
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
No,i wouldnt be angry.My anger would not stop the progression,it would only ruin the time i had left.bouquet
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Apr 16, 2011 10:47 AM CST Losing Your Life To Alzheimer's Disease
Snuggs09
Snuggs09Snuggs09Somewhere, New Jersey USA128 Threads 1 Polls 2,615 Posts
Hey V...Did she ever tell you what she was afraid of or did she just accept it? How long did she go through the progression?
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Apr 16, 2011 10:49 AM CST Losing Your Life To Alzheimer's Disease
Snuggs09
Snuggs09Snuggs09Somewhere, New Jersey USA128 Threads 1 Polls 2,615 Posts
time4fun4u: No,i wouldnt be angry.My anger would not stop the progression,it would only ruin the time i had left.


I think you make a good point and with the time left, would you start working on your bucket list
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Apr 16, 2011 10:50 AM CST Losing Your Life To Alzheimer's Disease
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
Snuggs09: I think you make a good point and with the time left, would you start working on your bucket list
That would take me about 30secs.bouquet
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Apr 16, 2011 10:53 AM CST Losing Your Life To Alzheimer's Disease
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Snuggs09: Hey V...Did she ever tell you what she was afraid of or did she just accept it? How long did she go through the progression?


About the last 10 years of her life, At that time not much was known about it, but she told me once in a lucid moment that she was happy. sad flower
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Apr 16, 2011 10:54 AM CST Losing Your Life To Alzheimer's Disease
Snuggs09
Snuggs09Snuggs09Somewhere, New Jersey USA128 Threads 1 Polls 2,615 Posts
time4fun4u: That would take me about 30secs.


Hmmmmmm....That's all you're good for huh sigh ..rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 16, 2011 10:57 AM CST Losing Your Life To Alzheimer's Disease
BB_snickers
BB_snickersBB_snickersNarnia, Ontario Canada56 Threads 3,755 Posts
Point of view is everything.




tip hat
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Apr 16, 2011 10:58 AM CST Losing Your Life To Alzheimer's Disease
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
Snuggs09: Hmmmmmm....That's all you're good for huh ..
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 16, 2011 11:03 AM CST Losing Your Life To Alzheimer's Disease
......this is NOT a disease- some jew frankenstein doctor named alzheimer decided to take credit for SENILITY........what the hell is the problem....?......stay busy.....think young- and stay away from sly doctors........the whole cursed usa doctor industry is geared to lying to people.......tell the doctor to go to hell- and that you want a refund of his fees......are people now so much like sheep that they run to the grossly overpaid doctors and say- 'tell me what is wrong with me...'......????????????.........look- take the stress out of your life with alternative methods..... cursed usa doctors just love to scare people- THAT IS HOW THEY CAN SEND BILLIONS IN TAX_EXEMPT DONATIONS TO ISRAEL
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Apr 16, 2011 11:06 AM CST Losing Your Life To Alzheimer's Disease
bestbefore
bestbeforebestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK116 Threads 2 Polls 4,701 Posts
Alzheimer's is but one of many diseases that can debilitate people in life. As awful as it is, many people live a long and productive life with help and medication.

As for not recognising people in the latter stages this is more of a problem with the family in my opinion. If you were locked away in a world of your own it would bother your loved ones more than it would affect you.

As for bucket lists,people live for years with this disease,unlike cancer victims with a short term prognosis.Many people world wide are living with diseases that affect their quality of life,this is but one of them,and living in fear will not help but hinder how one deals with it.j.m.o.
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Apr 16, 2011 11:08 AM CST Losing Your Life To Alzheimer's Disease
Snuggs09
Snuggs09Snuggs09Somewhere, New Jersey USA128 Threads 1 Polls 2,615 Posts
BB, I'm not sure that I agree with the speaker. She implies that if we want to escape our thoughts we and can bring AZ into our lives. That doesn't make sense to me.

I'm not sure what she means about resistance. dunno
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Apr 16, 2011 11:12 AM CST Losing Your Life To Alzheimer's Disease
Snuggs09
Snuggs09Snuggs09Somewhere, New Jersey USA128 Threads 1 Polls 2,615 Posts
bestbefore: Alzheimer's is but one of many diseases that can debilitate people in life. As awful as it is, many people live a long and productive life with help and medication.

As for not recognising people in the latter stages this is more of a problem with the family in my opinion. If you were locked away in a world of your own it would bother your loved ones more than it would affect you.

As for bucket lists,people live for years with this disease,unlike cancer victims with a short term prognosis.Many people world wide are living with diseases that affect their quality of life,this is but one of them,and living in fear will not help but hinder how one deals with it.j.m.o.


I agree, it would be harder on my daughter then on me but before I got to that point it would be a fear I lived with.

Many of us are procrastinators....I'll do it tomorrow....I'll do it when I get my bonus.....I'll do it when the kids are grown and left the nest. My bucket list is all around getting a knee replacement. There's always a reason to put off to tomorrow what we want to do today.
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Apr 16, 2011 11:12 AM CST Losing Your Life To Alzheimer's Disease
bestbefore
bestbeforebestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK116 Threads 2 Polls 4,701 Posts
Snuggs09: BB, I'm not sure that I agree with the speaker. She implies that if we want to escape our thoughts we and can bring AZ into our lives. That doesn't make sense to me.

I'm not sure what she means about resistance.


I didn't bother to look at the video,just wrote my own thoughts about the subject.handshake
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Apr 16, 2011 11:16 AM CST Losing Your Life To Alzheimer's Disease
Snuggs09
Snuggs09Snuggs09Somewhere, New Jersey USA128 Threads 1 Polls 2,615 Posts
bestbefore: I didn't bother to look at the video,just wrote my own thoughts about the subject.


When I made my comment about the video I should have used the name BB Snickers. Sorry Best.
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Apr 16, 2011 11:22 AM CST Losing Your Life To Alzheimer's Disease
Frankinstien
FrankinstienFrankinstienSan Juan, Puerto Rico1 Threads 1,521 Posts
woodstock1: ......this is NOT a disease- some jew frankenstein doctor named alzheimer decided to take credit for SENILITY........what the hell is the problem....?......stay busy.....think young- and stay away from sly doctors........the whole cursed usa doctor industry is geared to lying to people.......tell the doctor to go to hell- and that you want a refund of his fees......are people now so much like sheep that they run to the grossly overpaid doctors and say- 'tell me what is wrong with me...'......????????????.........look- take the stress out of your life with alternative methods..... cursed usa doctors just love to scare people- THAT IS HOW THEY CAN SEND BILLIONS IN TAX_EXEMPT DONATIONS TO ISRAEL
That's not true, I didn't name it alzheimers . I tried to name it cancer but someone took that name allready . By the way, I'm not Jewish . . . . .wave
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Apr 16, 2011 11:25 AM CST Losing Your Life To Alzheimer's Disease
bestbefore
bestbeforebestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK116 Threads 2 Polls 4,701 Posts
Snuggs09: I agree, it would be harder on my daughter then on me but before I got to that point it would be a fear I lived with.

Many of us are procrastinators....I'll do it tomorrow....I'll do it when I get my bonus.....I'll do it when the kids are grown and left the nest. My bucket list is all around getting a knee replacement. There's always a reason to put off to tomorrow what we want to do today.


Many people live on a daily basis with debilitating illnesses.Some cope,some give up,we are all different in how we deal with what life throws at us.

As for your knee op. make it a priority as to be pain free on a daily basis is a bonus.

I have just had a hip replacement,but here in the U.K. it's a matter of course,done within 18 weeks of diagnosise and at no cost to the patient.

Good luck.wave
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Apr 16, 2011 11:26 AM CST Losing Your Life To Alzheimer's Disease
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
Hello Snuggs wave My Mother has Alzheimers and I do believe in her own way she was happy with her memories. But it was very hard for us to cope with. bouquet
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Apr 16, 2011 11:30 AM CST Losing Your Life To Alzheimer's Disease
bestbefore
bestbeforebestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK116 Threads 2 Polls 4,701 Posts
morgan5: Hello Snuggs My Mother has Alzheimers and I do believe in her own way she was happy with her memories. But it was very hard for us to cope with.


Hi Morgan,hope you are wellwave

As I said in a previous post ,it's the family that lose out not the patient.They are usually quite happy in their own world,and with love and patience can live an acceptable life on their own terms,but not ours.hug
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