can we call it a relationship? ( Archived) (109)

Apr 21, 2011 10:55 AM CST can we call it a relationship?
Rumyet
RumyetRumyetBaku, Azerbaijan118 Threads 16 Polls 1,860 Posts
can u be in a relationship online with soemone u have never met?

ok.if u met someone in the internet and talking with him/her over couple of month,and everything goes well.can u consider yourself in relationship with him/her?should u stop talking or flirting others,should u put in ur profile that u r in a relationship?or u have to wait untill u meet him/her personally and then decide?
and would u ask him/her stop flirting with others?u think u have a right to do so?

give us ur opinion ,please
grin cheers grin cheers grin cheers
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Apr 21, 2011 11:00 AM CST can we call it a relationship?
ScarlettLipstick
ScarlettLipstickScarlettLipstickdunno, Metro Manila Philippines8 Threads 1 Polls 738 Posts
Rumyet: can u be in a relationship online with soemone u have never met?

ok.if u met someone in the internet and talking with him/her over couple of month,and everything goes well.can u consider yourself in relationship with him/her?should u stop talking or flirting others,should u put in ur profile that u r in a relationship?or u have to wait untill u meet him/her personally and then decide?
and would u ask him/her stop flirting with others?u think u have a right to do so?

give us ur opinion ,please


1. I can hehehehe..
2. stop flirting others? yes.. definitely.. stop flirting you?? NO WAY
3. should you put that on your profile.. you dont have to.. I personally do that to avoid missunderstanding
4. I don't ask him to stop flirting with others hehehe.. I trust him.. I flirt with you.. fair enough

cheers teddybear
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Apr 21, 2011 11:00 AM CST can we call it a relationship?
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
In response to: can u be in a relationship online with soemone u have never met?

ok.if u met someone in the internet and talking with him/her over couple of month,and everything goes well.can u consider yourself in relationship with him/her?should u stop talking or flirting others,should u put in ur profile that u r in a relationship?or u have to wait untill u meet him/her personally and then decide?
and would u ask him/her stop flirting with others?u think u have a right to do so?

give us ur opinion ,please


I would say no to that Rumyet,you have to meet that person in the real world so to speak,it takes time to build a good relationship,remember we never really know someone till we LIVE with them..cheers
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Apr 21, 2011 11:01 AM CST can we call it a relationship?
DeusExMachina
DeusExMachinaDeusExMachinahaaltert, Oost Vlaanderen Belgium55 Threads 1 Polls 2,705 Posts
yes we have a relationshipgrin
Rumyet: can u be in a relationship online with soemone u have never met?

ok.if u met someone in the internet and talking with him/her over couple of month,and everything goes well.can u consider yourself in relationship with him/her?should u stop talking or flirting others,should u put in ur profile that u r in a relationship?or u have to wait untill u meet him/her personally and then decide?
and would u ask him/her stop flirting with others?u think u have a right to do so?

give us ur opinion ,please
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Apr 21, 2011 11:04 AM CST can we call it a relationship?
DeusExMachina
DeusExMachinaDeusExMachinahaaltert, Oost Vlaanderen Belgium55 Threads 1 Polls 2,705 Posts
you and me will last forevertongue
Rumyet: does he know that u r in the relationship with him?
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Apr 21, 2011 11:05 AM CST can we call it a relationship?
DeusExMachina
DeusExMachinaDeusExMachinahaaltert, Oost Vlaanderen Belgium55 Threads 1 Polls 2,705 Posts
I have a bad hair day.
venusinsilk: You're looking damn fine today D.
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Apr 21, 2011 11:05 AM CST can we call it a relationship?
Rumyet
RumyetRumyetBaku, Azerbaijan118 Threads 16 Polls 1,860 Posts
ScarlettLipstick: 1. I can hehehehe..
2. stop flirting others? yes.. definitely.. stop flirting you?? NO WAY
3. should you put that on your profile.. you dont have to.. I personally do that to avoid missunderstanding
4. I don't ask him to stop flirting with others hehehe.. I trust him.. I flirt with you.. fair enough

but would u stop flirting others if ur partner asked u to do so?
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Apr 21, 2011 11:13 AM CST can we call it a relationship?
missingLondon
missingLondonmissingLondonMsida, Majjistral Malta101 Threads 11 Polls 455 Posts
it's a friendship until you meet in real life. I wouldn't change my cs status until I met the person and decided we're an item.
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Apr 21, 2011 11:36 AM CST can we call it a relationship?
newinsouth
newinsouthnewinsouthAiken, South Carolina USA26 Threads 2 Polls 1,039 Posts
I can't imagine anyone assuming they are in a relationship when they haven't even met the person. confused
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Apr 21, 2011 11:37 AM CST can we call it a relationship?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Until you meet in person, its all illusion in my book. wine
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Apr 21, 2011 11:39 AM CST can we call it a relationship?
myfisrt
myfisrtmyfisrtWest Jakarta, Jakarta Indonesia4 Threads 980 Posts
scottyburd: I would say no to that Rumyet,you have to meet that person in the real world so to speak,it takes time to build a good relationship,remember we never really know someone till we LIVE with them..


I couldn't agree with you more.. cool
To me, a relationship with someone we have never met is just an illusion..
peace
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Apr 21, 2011 11:41 AM CST can we call it a relationship?
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
to me everything is a relationship

just by default

i have a relationship with my mailman

my cashier at the grocery

my daughters friends

my pets

online friends and penpals


its all relationship dunno
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Apr 21, 2011 11:41 AM CST can we call it a relationship?
venusenvy: Until you meet in person, its all illusion in my book.
V said it...short and to the point. Online, we can be infatuated with an illusion. Hopefully, once we meet the person, the reality will be even better than the illusion. But the illusion can be better than the reality. Time and togetherness will sort that out.
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Apr 21, 2011 11:42 AM CST can we call it a relationship?
I think the in person meeting is when things do or don't go to the next, or another level of intimacy/caring

I think u can call ur online hunnie a relationship - that is still developingcool
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Apr 21, 2011 11:42 AM CST can we call it a relationship?
ScarlettLipstick
ScarlettLipstickScarlettLipstickdunno, Metro Manila Philippines8 Threads 1 Polls 738 Posts
Rumyet: but would u stop flirting others if ur partner asked u to do so?


he won't do that, even if he does.. I won't.. flirting with you and deus and viva and blues is too much fun.. not going to stop like EVER.. kiss
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Apr 21, 2011 11:43 AM CST can we call it a relationship?
Kaybee50: V said it...short and to the point. Online, we can be infatuated with an illusion. Hopefully, once we meet the person, the reality will be even better than the illusion. But the illusion can be better than the reality. Time and togetherness will sort that out.


exactly

it might not work out

but it also just might

it's glass half empty/ half full thing
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Apr 21, 2011 11:44 AM CST can we call it a relationship?
mindfful: to me everything is a relationship

just by default

i have a relationship with my mailman

my cashier at the grocery

my daughters friends

my pets

online friends and penpalsits all relationship
thumbs up

yes, qualitatively different, but all relationships
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Apr 21, 2011 11:47 AM CST can we call it a relationship?
yes, its email and chatting relationship, maybe later can married also on internet frustrated
i will never change the status till someone marry me in real.
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Apr 21, 2011 12:01 PM CST can we call it a relationship?
sasyecats
sasyecatssasyecatsCarroll, Iowa USA15 Threads 3 Polls 1,263 Posts
Rumyet: can u be in a relationship online with soemone u have never met?

ok.if u met someone in the internet and talking with him/her over couple of month,and everything goes well.can u consider yourself in relationship with him/her?should u stop talking or flirting others,should u put in ur profile that u r in a relationship?or u have to wait untill u meet him/her personally and then decide?
and would u ask him/her stop flirting with others?u think u have a right to do so?

give us ur opinion ,please


If you agree that it is a relationship, and if everyone is honest, then why not?

It's whatever you want it to be.

I'm not a flirt but if the flirting is harmless and they are honest I don't see a problem... but when people lie, keep secrets and play others or pretend to be something they are not...well that's just cold and I want no part of that.

I once dated a man for a couple of months that I had not met....turned out he was over 20 years older than he had told me and was using someone else's pictures. So get a webcam and know what you're really dealing with. sigh
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Apr 21, 2011 12:17 PM CST can we call it a relationship?
ColonelBogey
ColonelBogeyColonelBogeyHere, Surrey, England UK13 Threads 996 Posts
Rumyet: can u be in a relationship online with soemone u have never met?

ok.if u met someone in the internet and talking with him/her over couple of month,and everything goes well.can u consider yourself in relationship with him/her?should u stop talking or flirting others,should u put in ur profile that u r in a relationship?or u have to wait untill u meet him/her personally and then decide?
and would u ask him/her stop flirting with others?u think u have a right to do so?

give us ur opinion ,please

If you have both made a commitment to each other then why not? But from experience I would suggest meeting up at the first chance you get once you have made a commitment.
cheers
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