What do you think ...I am crazy or what? (162)
Sheherezada: Last Sunday I did open my husband messenger and a girl who he met on internet sent him a "nice wishes" with lots of love , of course.
I ask him if he stil have contact with that woman and he denied.I remind him who she was .
"Is the same woman from last year who wanted so desperate to chat with you "I said. The one who called me fat cow.Remember?
And my husband answer: did she saw you?
Now , I am asking you people : what you have done if you had been in my shoes? Hearing that from your own husband?
Do you take just as innocent saying or is the time to think deep about our relation?
And is more and more to talk about that.
Even some of you will laugh about the situation for me is not easy.
Thank you for your patience to read these lines.
I ask him if he stil have contact with that woman and he denied.I remind him who she was .
"Is the same woman from last year who wanted so desperate to chat with you "I said. The one who called me fat cow.Remember?
And my husband answer: did she saw you?
Now , I am asking you people : what you have done if you had been in my shoes? Hearing that from your own husband?
Do you take just as innocent saying or is the time to think deep about our relation?
And is more and more to talk about that.
Even some of you will laugh about the situation for me is not easy.
Thank you for your patience to read these lines.
sounds a little suspicious..
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In which way?
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Sheherezada: In which way?
He sounded worryed if she saw you on his msn..and if maybe you spoke to her..
I could be wrong..but if you really are worried about and and still have questions..come right on and be honest and tell him its bothering you about this girl
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"Husbands"Should not have "Private" Messangers in my veiw and if they do i wonder why 
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kissmedeeply: He sounded worryed if she saw you on his msn..and if maybe you spoke to her..
I could be wrong..but if you really are worried about and and still have questions..come right on and be honest and tell him its bothering you about this girl
I could be wrong..but if you really are worried about and and still have questions..come right on and be honest and tell him its bothering you about this girl
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The story is a little bit longer . Since last year he knows that I am checking his msn or yahoo and that is because after the wedding he just made some mistakes.Also before wedding did same mistakes and he hide it.Found out later after the wedding.
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Sheherezada: The story is a little bit longer . Since last year he knows that I am checking his msn or yahoo and that is because after the wedding he just made some mistakes.Also before wedding did same mistakes and he hide it.Found out later after the wedding.
Is 'mistake' a euphemism for cheating?
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Sheherezada: The story is a little bit longer . Since last year he knows that I am checking his msn or yahoo and that is because after the wedding he just made some mistakes.Also before wedding did same mistakes and he hide it.Found out later after the wedding.
What does ur gut tell you..Do you feel something is just not right?..Dont put urself through all this...Talk to him about it
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It doesn't sound good.Personally I would not want my husband chatting to other women on line who send them love,but everyone is different.Why he would ever talk to someone who insulted his wife is beyond me.
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Sheherezada: Last Sunday I did open my husband messenger and a girl who he met on internet sent him a "nice wishes" with lots of love , of course.
I ask him if he stil have contact with that woman and he denied.I remind him who she was .
"Is the same woman from last year who wanted so desperate to chat with you "I said. The one who called me fat cow.Remember?
And my husband answer: did she saw you?
Now , I am asking you people : what you have done if you had been in my shoes? Hearing that from your own husband?
Do you take just as innocent saying or is the time to think deep about our relation?
And is more and more to talk about that.
Even some of you will laugh about the situation for me is not easy.
Thank you for your patience to read these lines.
I ask him if he stil have contact with that woman and he denied.I remind him who she was .
"Is the same woman from last year who wanted so desperate to chat with you "I said. The one who called me fat cow.Remember?
And my husband answer: did she saw you?
Now , I am asking you people : what you have done if you had been in my shoes? Hearing that from your own husband?
Do you take just as innocent saying or is the time to think deep about our relation?
And is more and more to talk about that.
Even some of you will laugh about the situation for me is not easy.
Thank you for your patience to read these lines.
Yes, it's very suspicious. I wouldn't think twice about sending her a response -- as YOURSELF, not as him -- and reminding her that he is a married man and you are his wife. I would also not think twice about telling him exactly what you did. If he's worried about what SHE will think or how she will react and not worried about how this makes YOU feel....well, there's a problem. There is no reason for him to be communicating with other women, unless you are all friends or you are fully a part. Period. No reason. If he doesn't agree, ask him why.
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Just two days before wedding I did ask him if is anything to know.And he start to become nervous called me crazy.He denied totaly.I told him: tell me now and let me to decide if I stil want marry you.Don't lie and don't destroy our future .Please let me know now if is anything there.He said: no , is anything.Everything was is past , what you know already and you forgave me.But nothing for the rest.
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It does sound sneaky and if she called you a fat cow then your husband should defend you and break off all contact with this woman. Do you trust him and does he trust you? It seems to me that you don't trust him if you opened his messenger. Did you have his permission to open his messenger? Does he open yours? Without or with your permission? I don't think your crazy but maybe you and your husband should try counseling at your church if you attend church or professional counseling.Is he responding to her messages or does he delete the messages without reading them? Good luck
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In response to: Just two days before wedding I did ask him if is anything to know.And he start to become nervous called me crazy.He denied totaly.I told him: tell me now and let me to decide if I stil want marry you.Don't lie and don't destroy our future .Please let me know now if is anything there.He said: no , is anything.Everything was is past , what you know already and you forgave me.But nothing for the rest.
I'm sorry to say but I think you know in your heart that there is something not right in your marriage.You can only blind yourself to it for so long until it forces you to open you eyes.When that happens I am so sorry for the pain this man is going to,and has in the past,inflicted upon you.You really don't deserve that.
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Sheherezada: Yes of course I have his permission ..otherwise how do you know I have the passwords?
Also from credit card online I know , where I could see how 600 € goes in 2 weeks with girls online...
Also from credit card online I know , where I could see how 600 € goes in 2 weeks with girls online...
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kissmedeeply: What are you saying here..credit cards..girls..
I think she means "cam girls".
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maryrachelle: I think she means "cam girls".
No matter what it means..i wouldnt be sticking around if i was suspicious all the time and wouldnt say much about it..------ This thread is Archived ------
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I ask him if he stil have contact with that woman and he denied.I remind him who she was .
"Is the same woman from last year who wanted so desperate to chat with you "I said. The one who called me fat cow.Remember?
And my husband answer: did she saw you?
Now , I am asking you people : what you have done if you had been in my shoes? Hearing that from your own husband?
Do you take just as innocent saying or is the time to think deep about our relation?
And is more and more to talk about that.
Even some of you will laugh about the situation for me is not easy.
Thank you for your patience to read these lines.