Instant Gratification Romance (27)
hey you.
what if you get tired, and put it off again...? then, illness, or storm damage...?
anyone worth your heart will take you as you are, not your stuff to clean up.
=o)
what if you get tired, and put it off again...? then, illness, or storm damage...?
anyone worth your heart will take you as you are, not your stuff to clean up.
=o)
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"Do you think there are many women who would take a chance starting out with a man who's basically at an all-time low in his life?"
I think there are some, everything is relative...
your all-time low may exceed another man's all time high.
I think there are some, everything is relative...
your all-time low may exceed another man's all time high.
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You have a very good point there!
I have a nasty habit of always comparing myself with unrealistic perfect ideals.
I have a nasty habit of always comparing myself with unrealistic perfect ideals.
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I agree with Nene..
I mean, my house is an ongoing project too.
Today I went upstairs (needs renovation) and tried to figure out what to do next...
And in some ways tried to decide what would make this place sell-able in the long run, since two people do not need an eleven room house.
But I'm going to keep working on my place. Because meeting someone or dating or a relationshio has nothing to do with where I live or how I live.....
I like how I live.
Does that make sense?
I mean, my house is an ongoing project too.
Today I went upstairs (needs renovation) and tried to figure out what to do next...
And in some ways tried to decide what would make this place sell-able in the long run, since two people do not need an eleven room house.
But I'm going to keep working on my place. Because meeting someone or dating or a relationshio has nothing to do with where I live or how I live.....
I like how I live.
Does that make sense?
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Face it.
You're in Jail!
You're in Jail!
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hey magic man
heres the plan hire a maid
ask her to wear her uniform
then she can detail you after the house
heres the plan hire a maid
ask her to wear her uniform
then she can detail you after the house
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makes sense to me, hon.
besides, tomorrow comes with another whole set of problems...maybe the all-time low isn't as low as we imagine at the time?
and, abra, never compare to ideals! oh fatal trap, that.
besides, tomorrow comes with another whole set of problems...maybe the all-time low isn't as low as we imagine at the time?
and, abra, never compare to ideals! oh fatal trap, that.
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I am embarrassed to bring invite someone to my home if there's so much as a spec of dust on the floor. I'm VERY self-critical when it comes to stuff like that. Which is why no one ever comes here. Cuz there's always specs of dust on my floor -- and then some.
But...I would say...think about it. Would YOU feel comfortable going to someone's home that was reminiscent of an old storage shed at a factory that had been closed for several years? I know I wouldn't be.
But...by the same token, if I was interested in someone, I'd volunteer to help them clean it up.
But...I would say...think about it. Would YOU feel comfortable going to someone's home that was reminiscent of an old storage shed at a factory that had been closed for several years? I know I wouldn't be.
But...by the same token, if I was interested in someone, I'd volunteer to help them clean it up.
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An all time low could be changed to an all time high with the right woman. Having lows is the common denominator here. If you want to talk, flower me. I'll call. Paws
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Now that I think about it,…. I was feeling a bit depressed when I was with my last girlfriend. My mother had just died, and to be perfectly honest I wasn't exactly thrilled about my last girlfriend either.
Anyway, I kept apologizing to her for being lazy. She kept saying, "God! If you call what you do being lazy I can't imagine what you must be like when you ambitious!"
I had fabricated and installed all her window frames, painted the ceiling in two rooms of her house, fixed her car, and cleaned up her entire yard. And that was just while I was moping around at her place for a couple days.
Owl bet Arabella wouldn't mind me coming up and being lazy at her place for a while. Or Nene either.
Women always seem to like it when the hunk comes to repair their abodes.
Anyway, I kept apologizing to her for being lazy. She kept saying, "God! If you call what you do being lazy I can't imagine what you must be like when you ambitious!"
I had fabricated and installed all her window frames, painted the ceiling in two rooms of her house, fixed her car, and cleaned up her entire yard. And that was just while I was moping around at her place for a couple days.
Owl bet Arabella wouldn't mind me coming up and being lazy at her place for a while. Or Nene either.
Women always seem to like it when the hunk comes to repair their abodes.
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Hahahhaha, you stinker...
I like my "jail" and the next place that I buy will be further out in the woods, heated with wood and the place I will be buried!!!
I like my "jail" and the next place that I buy will be further out in the woods, heated with wood and the place I will be buried!!!
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I don't want to talk to you leo!
All you want to talk about is Lorena Bobbit.
P.S. Are the photo shoots still coming alone?
All you want to talk about is Lorena Bobbit.
P.S. Are the photo shoots still coming alone?
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Well, being disabled, I cannot do things like before...and, I do not have help, yet.
but, it didn't stop me from accepting someone in my home.
renovations, messes... all that can be cleaned up. stuff is stuff.
but, it didn't stop me from accepting someone in my home.
renovations, messes... all that can be cleaned up. stuff is stuff.
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Women are alot tougher then we sometimes give them credit, if you touch the right woman's heart there nothing about a house that could dissuade her.
PS. I've been in thousands of people's homes, there is a big difference between the perception of how most people live and the reality of it.
PS. I've been in thousands of people's homes, there is a big difference between the perception of how most people live and the reality of it.
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I would say.."as is"...
You are an intelligent man and there is alot more to you than your house. I do think there are women out there that would overlook the superficial stuff and be able to see the potential of it all.
You are an intelligent man and there is alot more to you than your house. I do think there are women out there that would overlook the superficial stuff and be able to see the potential of it all.
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Photo shoots are slowing down. Did a Jack and Jill last weekend. 55 beautiful women and I was stuck behind the camera. Paws
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Well if all you women didn't live so far away we could clean up each other's lives. 
I actually like doing constructive stuff. I'm a workaholic!
At least I get that way with a woman around. When I'm alone I fall into lonley depression and just let everything go.
I'm the kind of man who needs to have a woman around. Just the way I am. Call me dependent I don't care!
What woman would mind having a dependent who actually WORKS!?
I actually like doing constructive stuff. I'm a workaholic!
At least I get that way with a woman around. When I'm alone I fall into lonley depression and just let everything go.
I'm the kind of man who needs to have a woman around. Just the way I am. Call me dependent I don't care!
What woman would mind having a dependent who actually WORKS!?
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Awwwww you poor boy. 
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So what's the scoop? Should I just fact the fact that I'm not in a position to ask a woman to come into my life right now? And wait until next summer after I "clean up my act"? Or should I go ahead and ask a woman to come into my life "as is" knowing that I have a heart of gold waiting for her which is more important than the superficial stuff?
I mean, in my mind, I'm sure it will all be romantic for her in the long haul. In fact, when she looks back on the "early days" she's probably say those were the most romantic of all moments anyway. Yet, it does seem hard to get a woman to actually take the plunge. It's like they expect that "finished project" first so-to-speak.
Whadda think? Do you think there are many women who would take a chance starting out with a man who's basically at an all-time low in his life?