Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust (26)

May 14, 2011 5:34 PM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
HOUSTON4
HOUSTON4HOUSTON4Lampeter, Dyfed, Wales UK10 Threads 394 Posts
My new subject is about Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust between couples

Ok I have an example of this issue:

Well I had been dating my last girlfriend for about two months so we still had freedom to do our own thing One afternoon I decided to go round a friends house for a few hours after work and wefor a while
After I left their house I went shopping and then went home That day I had left my mobile phone at home but when I checked it there was message after message left on my phone it was my girlfriend and she seemed to be frantic so I thought ok I had better ring her back I was shocked to hear what she had to say She said where have you been I have been trying to get hold of you I was worried that you was with another woman Well I was shocked that she would think this of me but explained where I was and what I had been doing so we made up again
I won't pretend that I trusted her either but I did in the early stages of us dating until I got to know her properly.

Have you experienced Jealousy issues in past relationships?
Did you ever have a partner that was insecure?
Did you ever have a partner that had trust issues?
Did you ever have a partner that cheated on you?

This is a important subject and these things are key parts of a successful relationship and if couples have these issues the relationship is doomed.
Ok you lot let's have your views or experiences on these questions
May 14, 2011 5:37 PM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixSarkoville, Ile-de-France France110 Threads 32 Polls 2,591 Posts
HOUSTON4: My new subject is about Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust between couples

Ok I have an example of this issue:

Well I had been dating my last girlfriend for about two months so we still had freedom to do our own thing One afternoon I decided to go round a friends house for a few hours after work and wefor a while
After I left their house I went shopping and then went home That day I had left my mobile phone at home but when I checked it there was message after message left on my phone it was my girlfriend and she seemed to be frantic so I thought ok I had better ring her back I was shocked to hear what she had to say She said where have you been I have been trying to get hold of you I was worried that you was with another woman Well I was shocked that she would think this of me but explained where I was and what I had been doing so we made up again
I won't pretend that I trusted her either but I did in the early stages of us dating until I got to know her properly.

Have you experienced Jealousy issues in past relationships?
Did you ever have a partner that was insecure?
Did you ever have a partner that had trust issues?
Did you ever have a partner that cheated on you?

This is a important subject and these things are key parts of a successful relationship and if couples have these issues the relationship is doomed.
Ok you lot let's have your views or experiences on these questions
May 14, 2011 8:16 PM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixSarkoville, Ile-de-France France110 Threads 32 Polls 2,591 Posts
HOUSTON4: To be honest mate she was seeing some behind my back and is with them now so there is no going back


Why didn't you explain that in your OP???? 2nd please don't tell me or the world you are miffed. Just maybe she smelt a rat....Nubiles sense is better than spidey's....
May 14, 2011 8:33 PM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
HOUSTON4
HOUSTON4HOUSTON4Lampeter, Dyfed, Wales UK10 Threads 394 Posts
Phoenix: Why didn't you explain that in your OP???? 2nd please don't tell me or the world you are miffed. Just maybe she smelt a rat....Nubiles sense is better than spidey's....
You should read this thing properly because I did say my experience was an example
I wanted people to share their experiences and views on this and not simpathy from anyonedoh
May 14, 2011 10:00 PM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixSarkoville, Ile-de-France France110 Threads 32 Polls 2,591 Posts
HOUSTON4: That is your view at least I have the bottle to talk about my experiences You know nothing about my past and me as a person so don't be so quick to judge me you are maybe a fake or a fraud and just want to get attention from people by trying to make e look badIt won't work because I can see right threw you and this is how you look


No you think you can see through me...Trust me you couldn't.

Q for your good self..Were you born stupid or did it just come
naturally?
May 15, 2011 6:00 AM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
gussi
gussigussiVilters-Wangs, St Gallen Switzerland12 Threads 2 Polls 4,032 Posts
HOUSTON4: That is your view at least I have the bottle to talk about my experiences You know nothing about my past and me as a person so don't be so quick to judge me you are maybe a fake or a fraud and just want to get attention from people by trying to make e look badIt won't work because I can see right threw you and this is how you look



Very true Houston, much more than some have.

thumbs up cheers
May 15, 2011 6:06 AM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
Sailfree
SailfreeSailfreeHeidelberg, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany118 Threads 5,202 Posts
HOUSTON4: That is your view at least I have the bottle to talk about my experiences You know nothing about my past and me as a person so don't be so quick to judge me you are maybe a fake or a fraud and just want to get attention from people by trying to make e look badIt won't work because I can see right threw you and this is how you look
thumbs up wave
May 15, 2011 6:07 AM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
HOUSTON4
HOUSTON4HOUSTON4Lampeter, Dyfed, Wales UK10 Threads 394 Posts
gussi: Very true Houston, much more than some have.
thumbs up Thanks matecheers
May 15, 2011 6:08 AM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
HOUSTON4
HOUSTON4HOUSTON4Lampeter, Dyfed, Wales UK10 Threads 394 Posts
thumbs up wave
May 15, 2011 6:18 AM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
HOUSTON4
HOUSTON4HOUSTON4Lampeter, Dyfed, Wales UK10 Threads 394 Posts
Phoenix: No you think you can see through me...Trust me you couldn't.

Q for your good self..Were you born stupid or did it just come
naturally?
Were you born nasty or did it just come natuarally to you?laugh rolling on the floor laughing
Don't bother to reply because everyone know what the answer is to that questionbowing
May 15, 2011 6:23 AM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
gussi
gussigussiVilters-Wangs, St Gallen Switzerland12 Threads 2 Polls 4,032 Posts
HOUSTON4: Were you born nasty or did it just come natuarally to you?
Don't bother to reply because everyone know what the answer is to that question


........ no comment........ As we used to say " you have the right to remain silent, Anything you say can and will be ......."

laugh
May 15, 2011 6:31 AM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
HOUSTON4
HOUSTON4HOUSTON4Lampeter, Dyfed, Wales UK10 Threads 394 Posts
gussi: ........ no comment........ As we used to say " you have the right to remain silent, Anything you say can and will be ......."
laugh cheers
May 15, 2011 6:57 AM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixSarkoville, Ile-de-France France110 Threads 32 Polls 2,591 Posts
HOUSTON4: Were you born nasty or did it just come natuarally to you?
Don't bother to reply because everyone know what the answer is to that question


natural.....grin
May 15, 2011 8:12 AM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixSarkoville, Ile-de-France France110 Threads 32 Polls 2,591 Posts
HOUSTON4: That is your view at least I have the bottle to talk about my experiences You know nothing about my past and me as a person so don't be so quick to judge me you are maybe a fake or a fraud and just want to get attention from people by trying to make e look badIt won't work because I can see right threw you and this is how you look


Trust me....I'm an original (nothing fake about me...)

As for you point about talking about personal experiences why don't you click on to my profile and simply back track on my threads-posts and you quickly see I do talk about my life.

I wouldn't try to make you look bad. You do that all by yourself.



wine
May 15, 2011 8:20 AM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
HOUSTON4
HOUSTON4HOUSTON4Lampeter, Dyfed, Wales UK10 Threads 394 Posts
Phoenix: Trust me....I'm an original (nothing fake about me...)

As for you point about talking about personal experiences why don't you click on to my profile and simply back track on my threads-posts and you quickly see I do talk about my life.

I wouldn't try to make you look bad. You do that all by yourself.
I bet you are popular on this sitethumbs down all you want to do is try and bring people down to your levelbarf but I won't resort to being like youyay wave
May 15, 2011 8:28 AM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
HOUSTON4
HOUSTON4HOUSTON4Lampeter, Dyfed, Wales UK10 Threads 394 Posts
This is to the people that are not honest and open like me on this sitethumbs down I have opened up and talked about my past relationship and I don't want simpathy or people attacking me with nasty commentsthumbs down I was hoping that other people would be honest and open and share their experiences like I didthumbs up I will finsh this subject by sayingtyping does it pay to be honest and open about yourself when no one else seems to beconfused dunno tongue
May 15, 2011 8:45 AM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
faded_dino
faded_dinofaded_dinounknown, Tennessee USA13 Threads 1 Polls 1,674 Posts
Personally, over the years, I have learned that jealousy gets you nowhere. It's a big waste of time. If the other person wants to go out with someone different...I just say go, I don't need you(that is if we are in an exclusive relationship)..(Otherwise, I don't care, we have no ties)....To get angry about it, does show insecurity and again, a waste of my time.
I am happy and secure in my life. I know what I want and what I don't. If the other person wants to get possessive and jealous, they can just go somewhere else. Life is just way too short!

wine teddybear
May 15, 2011 2:40 PM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixSarkoville, Ile-de-France France110 Threads 32 Polls 2,591 Posts
HOUSTON4: I bet you are popular on this site


Very popular....You are familiar with the expression about the sun shining out of peoples asses....The sun actually shines outta mine.


HOUSTON4: all you want to do is try and bring people down to your level but I won't resort to being like you


I do my best to bring people up to my level...(trust me I've high standards..)

wine
May 15, 2011 3:07 PM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
brum_mum
brum_mumbrum_mumBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK7 Threads 2,659 Posts
faded_dino: Personally, over the years, I have learned that jealousy gets you nowhere. It's a big waste of time. If the other person wants to go out with someone different...I just say go, I don't need you(that is if we are in an exclusive relationship)..(Otherwise, I don't care, we have no ties)....To get angry about it, does show insecurity and again, a waste of my time.
I am happy and secure in my life. I know what I want and what I don't. If the other person wants to get possessive and jealous, they can just go somewhere else. Life is just way too short!
thumbs up

I don't know exactly what I want, but I'll get there in the end.
May 15, 2011 5:29 PM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
Sailfree
SailfreeSailfreeHeidelberg, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany118 Threads 5,202 Posts
HOUSTON4: I bet you are popular on this site all you want to do is try and bring people down to your level but I won't resort to being like you
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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