Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust (32)

May 14, 2011 6:34 PM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
HOUSTON4
HOUSTON4HOUSTON4Lampeter, Dyfed, Wales UK15 Threads 726 Posts
My new subject is about Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust between couples

Ok I have an example of this issue:

Well I had been dating my last girlfriend for about two months so we still had freedom to do our own thing One afternoon I decided to go round a friends house for a few hours after work and wefor a while
After I left their house I went shopping and then went home That day I had left my mobile phone at home but when I checked it there was message after message left on my phone it was my girlfriend and she seemed to be frantic so I thought ok I had better ring her back I was shocked to hear what she had to say She said where have you been I have been trying to get hold of you I was worried that you was with another woman Well I was shocked that she would think this of me but explained where I was and what I had been doing so we made up again
I won't pretend that I trusted her either but I did in the early stages of us dating until I got to know her properly.

Have you experienced Jealousy issues in past relationships?
Did you ever have a partner that was insecure?
Did you ever have a partner that had trust issues?
Did you ever have a partner that cheated on you?

This is a important subject and these things are key parts of a successful relationship and if couples have these issues the relationship is doomed.
Ok you lot let's have your views or experiences on these questions
May 14, 2011 6:37 PM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixSarkoville, Ile-de-France France156 Threads 47 Polls 4,070 Posts
HOUSTON4: My new subject is about Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust between couples

Ok I have an example of this issue:

Well I had been dating my last girlfriend for about two months so we still had freedom to do our own thing One afternoon I decided to go round a friends house for a few hours after work and wefor a while
After I left their house I went shopping and then went home That day I had left my mobile phone at home but when I checked it there was message after message left on my phone it was my girlfriend and she seemed to be frantic so I thought ok I had better ring her back I was shocked to hear what she had to say She said where have you been I have been trying to get hold of you I was worried that you was with another woman Well I was shocked that she would think this of me but explained where I was and what I had been doing so we made up again
I won't pretend that I trusted her either but I did in the early stages of us dating until I got to know her properly.

Have you experienced Jealousy issues in past relationships?
Did you ever have a partner that was insecure?
Did you ever have a partner that had trust issues?
Did you ever have a partner that cheated on you?

This is a important subject and these things are key parts of a successful relationship and if couples have these issues the relationship is doomed.
Ok you lot let's have your views or experiences on these questions
May 14, 2011 6:45 PM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixSarkoville, Ile-de-France France156 Threads 47 Polls 4,070 Posts
Sorry about the last post...I fcuked up.<--Happens to the best of us.

Anyhow....Maybe her confidence was shattered by her previous realionship...And simply needs time to regain her confidence in blokes....

If she means anything to you...Tell her. And if you have to reasure her 24/7 for a while do it. It's not rocket science...Even if you have to go out of your way to prove it to her..

Bottom line is...you think enough about her to ask strangers advice on forum...The next time you see her, square ball her and tell her what she means to you (until you are blue in the face if needs be)...Follow you belly<---9 outta times 10 its right...

In a nutshell tell her that you think about her 24/7-365 and sometimes in between.....She'll eventually believe you (only if you are honest in your actions not words..cause actions speak louder by volumes)
May 14, 2011 7:03 PM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
HOUSTON4
HOUSTON4HOUSTON4Lampeter, Dyfed, Wales UK15 Threads 726 Posts
Phoenix: Sorry about the last post...I fcuked up.<--Happens to the best of us.

Anyhow....Maybe her confidence was shattered by her previous realionship...And simply needs time to regain her confidence in blokes....

If she means anything to you...Tell her. And if you have to reasure her 24/7 for a while do it. It's not rocket science...Even if you have to go out of your way to prove it to her..

Bottom line is...you think enough about her to ask strangers advice on forum...The next time you see her, square ball her and tell her what she means to you (until you are blue in the face if needs be)...Follow you belly<---9 outta times 10 its right...

In a nutshell tell her that you think about her 24/7-365 and sometimes in between.....She'll eventually believe you (only if you are honest in your actions not words..cause actions speak louder by volumes)
thumbs up Thanks for all your advise but I split up with my girlfriend about four months ago and would never get back with her nowthumbs down but I thought I might share that experience with everyone and it would be good to hear other peoples experiences and views on these questionsthumbs up
May 14, 2011 7:36 PM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixSarkoville, Ile-de-France France156 Threads 47 Polls 4,070 Posts
HOUSTON4: Thanks for all your advise but I split up with my girlfriend about four months ago and would never get back with her now but I thought I might share that experience with everyone and it would be good to hear other peoples experiences and views on these questions


Not sure if this any use to you...But I met a wee girl and her confidence was fcuked when I met her and I basically gave her the time of day to dimiss the deamons in her head and not prove but kinda let her find out for her herself that not all blokes are pricks...(not meant you are)....but just maybe as I said before her confidence was 'twisted'<--for want of a better word...at a low ebb probably better..and now she's a diamond. maybe you where to quick to judge and not look at her side...after a few months (JMO) you don't really know jack....

Give her a chance. Like I said she made enough of an impression after a few mths on you for you to voice your opinions here. Maybe she was shit on before and didn't want to be burnt again. Give the wee girl a chance. Rome was built in a day.
May 14, 2011 8:33 PM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
HOUSTON4
HOUSTON4HOUSTON4Lampeter, Dyfed, Wales UK15 Threads 726 Posts
Phoenix: Not sure if this any use to you...But I met a wee girl and her confidence was fcuked when I met her and I basically gave her the time of day to dimiss the deamons in her head and not prove but kinda let her find out for her herself that not all blokes are pricks...(not meant you are)....but just maybe as I said before her confidence was 'twisted'<--for want of a better word...at a low ebb probably better..and now she's a diamond. maybe you where to quick to judge and not look at her side...after a few months (JMO) you don't really know jack....

Give her a chance. Like I said she made enough of an impression after a few mths on you for you to voice your opinions here. Maybe she was shit on before and didn't want to be burnt again. Give the wee girl a chance. Rome was built in a day.

To be honest mate she was seeing some behind my back and is with them now so there is no going back cheers
May 14, 2011 9:16 PM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixSarkoville, Ile-de-France France156 Threads 47 Polls 4,070 Posts
HOUSTON4: To be honest mate she was seeing some behind my back and is with them now so there is no going back


Why didn't you explain that in your OP???? 2nd please don't tell me or the world you are miffed. Just maybe she smelt a rat....Nubiles sense is better than spidey's....
May 14, 2011 9:33 PM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
HOUSTON4
HOUSTON4HOUSTON4Lampeter, Dyfed, Wales UK15 Threads 726 Posts
Phoenix: Why didn't you explain that in your OP???? 2nd please don't tell me or the world you are miffed. Just maybe she smelt a rat....Nubiles sense is better than spidey's....
You should read this thing properly because I did say my experience was an example
I wanted people to share their experiences and views on this and not simpathy from anyonedoh
May 14, 2011 9:52 PM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixSarkoville, Ile-de-France France156 Threads 47 Polls 4,070 Posts
HOUSTON4: You should read this thing properly


And proof read too...Cuase you said a lot of things. And my reading now is....You fcuked up otherwise you wouldn't talk to the world about it.....



wine
May 14, 2011 10:28 PM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
HOUSTON4
HOUSTON4HOUSTON4Lampeter, Dyfed, Wales UK15 Threads 726 Posts
Phoenix: And proof read too...Cuase you said a lot of things. And my reading now is....You fcuked up otherwise you wouldn't talk to the world about it.....
That is your view thumbs down at least I have the bottle to talk about my experiencestongue You know nothing about my past and me as a person so don't be so quick to judge mevery mad you are maybe a fake or a fraud and just want to get attention from people by trying to make e look badscoldIt won't work because I can see right threw you and this is how you look barf laugh rolling on the floor laughing
May 14, 2011 11:00 PM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixSarkoville, Ile-de-France France156 Threads 47 Polls 4,070 Posts
HOUSTON4: That is your view at least I have the bottle to talk about my experiences You know nothing about my past and me as a person so don't be so quick to judge me you are maybe a fake or a fraud and just want to get attention from people by trying to make e look badIt won't work because I can see right threw you and this is how you look


No you think you can see through me...Trust me you couldn't.

Q for your good self..Were you born stupid or did it just come
naturally?
May 15, 2011 7:00 AM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
gussi
gussigussiVilters-Wangs, St Gallen Switzerland15 Threads 3 Polls 6,745 Posts
HOUSTON4: That is your view at least I have the bottle to talk about my experiences You know nothing about my past and me as a person so don't be so quick to judge me you are maybe a fake or a fraud and just want to get attention from people by trying to make e look badIt won't work because I can see right threw you and this is how you look



Very true Houston, much more than some have.

thumbs up cheers
May 15, 2011 7:06 AM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
Sailfree
SailfreeSailfreeHeidelberg, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany156 Threads 1 Polls 7,295 Posts
HOUSTON4: That is your view at least I have the bottle to talk about my experiences You know nothing about my past and me as a person so don't be so quick to judge me you are maybe a fake or a fraud and just want to get attention from people by trying to make e look badIt won't work because I can see right threw you and this is how you look
thumbs up wave
May 15, 2011 7:07 AM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
HOUSTON4
HOUSTON4HOUSTON4Lampeter, Dyfed, Wales UK15 Threads 726 Posts
gussi: Very true Houston, much more than some have.
thumbs up Thanks matecheers
May 15, 2011 7:08 AM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
HOUSTON4
HOUSTON4HOUSTON4Lampeter, Dyfed, Wales UK15 Threads 726 Posts
thumbs up wave
May 15, 2011 7:18 AM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
HOUSTON4
HOUSTON4HOUSTON4Lampeter, Dyfed, Wales UK15 Threads 726 Posts
Phoenix: No you think you can see through me...Trust me you couldn't.

Q for your good self..Were you born stupid or did it just come
naturally?
Were you born nasty or did it just come natuarally to you?laugh rolling on the floor laughing
Don't bother to reply because everyone know what the answer is to that questionbowing
May 15, 2011 7:23 AM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
gussi
gussigussiVilters-Wangs, St Gallen Switzerland15 Threads 3 Polls 6,745 Posts
HOUSTON4: Were you born nasty or did it just come natuarally to you?
Don't bother to reply because everyone know what the answer is to that question


........ no comment........ As we used to say " you have the right to remain silent, Anything you say can and will be ......."

laugh
May 15, 2011 7:31 AM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
HOUSTON4
HOUSTON4HOUSTON4Lampeter, Dyfed, Wales UK15 Threads 726 Posts
gussi: ........ no comment........ As we used to say " you have the right to remain silent, Anything you say can and will be ......."
laugh cheers
May 15, 2011 7:57 AM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixSarkoville, Ile-de-France France156 Threads 47 Polls 4,070 Posts
HOUSTON4: Were you born nasty or did it just come natuarally to you?
Don't bother to reply because everyone know what the answer is to that question


natural.....grin
May 15, 2011 9:12 AM CST Jealousy, Insecurity, Honesty and Trust
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixSarkoville, Ile-de-France France156 Threads 47 Polls 4,070 Posts
HOUSTON4: That is your view at least I have the bottle to talk about my experiences You know nothing about my past and me as a person so don't be so quick to judge me you are maybe a fake or a fraud and just want to get attention from people by trying to make e look badIt won't work because I can see right threw you and this is how you look


Trust me....I'm an original (nothing fake about me...)

As for you point about talking about personal experiences why don't you click on to my profile and simply back track on my threads-posts and you quickly see I do talk about my life.

I wouldn't try to make you look bad. You do that all by yourself.



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