Ok Lok as frustrating as it is remember your in control , sure she will have her tantrum thats ok shes pissed off let her , ignore it , talk to her like normal about your day blah blah keep the punishment as set by you for the theft , when she realizes the venom is having no effect then the crawling will begin DONT CAVE when she asks sweetly can i have my privilides back ive been good , say yes at the end of the month all your privilidges will be reinstated If your behaiviour continues in this respectful manner.If not we shall have to renegotiate. Talk to her about her needs teenage girls need stuff acknowledge this ! suggest she tried to get some checkoput chickie stuff after school or do some babysitting. Perhaps discuss her cooking the evening meal 3 nights a week for an increase in allowance , She is between an adult and a child she is a teen they are terrible creatures however stealing drugs and disrespect are not negotable.Its not ok not under any circumstances.keep your conversation light , let her know the topic is over she needs to incurr her punishment then its forgotten and forgiven good luck lok were here for you xxxx
Kontikitactsilkeborg, Central Jutland Denmark797 posts
Kontikitact: lok...I have two girls...I am alone with them...I hope this does'n t get your cooker boiling but....daughters at 15 do tend sometimes to "test the limit"..maybe you did too,in your time ? Military/policing attitudes can have a rebounding effect..perhaps far greater than the finanical indescretion warrants...sit down..be a father and hear her view..then your turn...she is afterall your child !
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Talk to her about her needs teenage girls need stuff acknowledge this ! suggest she tried to get some checkoput chickie stuff after school or do some babysitting. Perhaps discuss her cooking the evening meal 3 nights a week for an increase in allowance , She is between an adult and a child she is a teen they are terrible creatures however stealing drugs and disrespect are not negotable.Its not ok not under any circumstances.keep your conversation light , let her know the topic is over she needs to incurr her punishment then its forgotten and forgiven
good luck lok were here for you
xxxx