Anger and the way people express it (60)
I can't say I get angry....I can get narked, niggled or p....d at something or some one.
EssJay: I can't say I get angry....I can get narked, niggled or p....d at something or some one.
Thankyou for your comment
I am a very calm person, not easily angered, but when I do get angry (and I would only class that as being probably less than 5 occasions that spring to mind), I amaze even myself with my fury. Once I was so angry with my ex when I was married to him about something I had been putting up with for years with talking to him rationally about it for years, I just blew and we were in the kitchen - I open the cupboard and threw every plate one by one on the floor. It was so unlike me and I had never behaved like that before or since. Things were better with that problem between us after that incident as it made him realise just how strongly I felt.
I am a very calm person, not easily angered, but when I do get angry (and I would only class that as being probably less than 5 occasions that spring to mind), I amaze even myself with my fury. Once I was so angry with my ex when I was married to him about something I had been putting up with for years with talking to him rationally about it for years, I just blew and we were in the kitchen - I open the cupboard and threw every plate one by one on the floor. It was so unlike me and I had never behaved like that before or since. Things were better with that problem between us after that incident as it made him realise just how strongly I felt.
Sorry about the double post.
Anger!
I am also a faily calm person.
Anger is something that is normally caused by others.
If that happens then you are allowing others to control
you! I do not allow others to control me. I decide my
mood.
How one feels inside is entirely different though.
To vent anger is something that does more damage than
the the event that caused it.
I find somethings irk me, but not to the degree of anger.
I just shrug and shake it off as insignificant.
I am also a faily calm person.
Anger is something that is normally caused by others.
If that happens then you are allowing others to control
you! I do not allow others to control me. I decide my
mood.
How one feels inside is entirely different though.
To vent anger is something that does more damage than
the the event that caused it.
I find somethings irk me, but not to the degree of anger.
I just shrug and shake it off as insignificant.
Wow_Factor: I am a very calm person, not easily angered, but when I do get angry (and I would only class that as being probably less than 5 occasions that spring to mind), I amaze even myself with my fury. Once I was so angry with my ex when I was married to him about something I had been putting up with for years with talking to him rationally about it for years, I just blew and we were in the kitchen - I open the cupboard and threw every plate one by one on the floor. It was so unlike me and I had never behaved like that before or since. Things were better with that problem between us after that incident as it made him realise just how strongly I felt.
Yes I understand that somethings do lead us to anger
thanks for your commentSailfree: Anger!
I am also a faily calm person.
Anger is something that is normally caused by others.
If that happens then you are allowing others to control
you! I do not allow others to control me. I decide my
mood.
How one feels inside is entirely different though.
To vent anger is something that does more damage than
the the event that caused it.
I find somethings irk me, but not to the degree of anger.
I just shrug and shake it off as insignificant.
I am also a faily calm person.
Anger is something that is normally caused by others.
If that happens then you are allowing others to control
you! I do not allow others to control me. I decide my
mood.
How one feels inside is entirely different though.
To vent anger is something that does more damage than
the the event that caused it.
I find somethings irk me, but not to the degree of anger.
I just shrug and shake it off as insignificant.
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There are some many ways that people can express anger for example:
I lost my motorcycle keys and was looking everywhere for them and was I a rush
anger set in but I was angry with myself because I forgot were I put them
When I get sales people constantly ring me up and keep on and on trying to sell me something even when I tell them I am not interested
The one that I tend to hate is when I get with a friend over a stupid argument and said something hurtful to them 
I know I should not have said that but you just loose control and say the first thing that comes into your head
So does anyone else have stories about anger and how it has affected them
I lost my motorcycle keys and was looking everywhere for them and was I a rush
anger set in but I was angry with myself because I forgot were I put them When I get sales people constantly ring me up
and keep on and on trying to sell me something even when I tell them I am not interested The one that I tend to hate is when I get
with a friend over a stupid argument and said something hurtful to them I know I should not have said that but you just loose control and say the first thing that comes into your head So does anyone else have stories about anger and how it has affected them
What makes us mad?
How do we keep our self control?
Is there such a thing as cool and calm?
Are their some occasions when we go over the top and maybe do or say something we wished we did not?
Does anyone else have a view on this subject
How do we keep our self control?
Is there such a thing as cool and calm?
Are their some occasions when we go over the top and maybe do or say something we wished we did not?
Does anyone else have a view on this subject
Just checking in very quickly as busy! Good morning Houston4. Good morning all.
In addition to my post above, where the incident happened about 20 years ago I feel now that I think carefully, very carefully befor doing anything that would be potentially damaging to me or someone else. There have been times when I could get irate, but I seriously don't want to let something get out of hand, because people certainly remember - in fact they have very long memories, and no amount of apologising for any outburst can make them forget - they can forgive but not forget - so I always am ultra-careful now. I remember loads of times when family members have shown their true colours and shown what they feel in an angry way, rather than in a calm and rational way, and it does make me think of them differently. Sounds like I am little Miss Perfect - I am not - but I certainly try to keep decorum and respect for people and for myself.
Ok, back to work for me! Have a good day everyone!
In addition to my post above, where the incident happened about 20 years ago I feel now that I think carefully, very carefully befor doing anything that would be potentially damaging to me or someone else. There have been times when I could get irate, but I seriously don't want to let something get out of hand, because people certainly remember - in fact they have very long memories, and no amount of apologising for any outburst can make them forget - they can forgive but not forget - so I always am ultra-careful now. I remember loads of times when family members have shown their true colours and shown what they feel in an angry way, rather than in a calm and rational way, and it does make me think of them differently. Sounds like I am little Miss Perfect - I am not - but I certainly try to keep decorum and respect for people and for myself.
Ok, back to work for me! Have a good day everyone!
HOUSTON4: There are some many ways that people can express anger for example:
I lost my motorcycle keys and was looking everywhere for them and was I a rush anger set in but I was angry with myself because I forgot were I put them
When I get sales people constantly ring me up and keep on and on trying to sell me something even when I tell them I am not interested
The one that I tend to hate is when I get with a friend over a stupid argument and said something hurtful to them I know I should not have said that but you just loose control and say the first thing that comes into your head
So does anyone else have stories about anger and how it has affected them
I lost my motorcycle keys and was looking everywhere for them and was I a rush anger set in but I was angry with myself because I forgot were I put them
When I get sales people constantly ring me up and keep on and on trying to sell me something even when I tell them I am not interested
The one that I tend to hate is when I get with a friend over a stupid argument and said something hurtful to them I know I should not have said that but you just loose control and say the first thing that comes into your head
So does anyone else have stories about anger and how it has affected them
Yes i suppose we can all get a little irate at times and do silly things .
I used to lose control now and again and pick up anything close to me to hit people with ,{not good i know},but sometimes i couldnt even remember doing it , i was in so much of a rage ,
On 3 accasions it was a Hatchet ,this i know is a bit over the top , and someone could have got seriously hurt had i not have missed there head .
So yes on reflection , rage is stupid .
Wow_Factor: Just checking in very quickly as busy! Good morning Houston4. Good morning all.
In addition to my post above, where the incident happened about 20 years ago I feel now that I think carefully, very carefully befor doing anything that would be potentially damaging to me or someone else. There have been times when I could get irate, but I seriously don't want to let something get out of hand, because people certainly remember - in fact they have very long memories, and no amount of apologising for any outburst can make them forget - they can forgive but not forget - so I always am ultra-careful now. I remember loads of times when family members have shown their true colours and shown what they feel in an angry way, rather than in a calm and rational way, and it does make me think of them differently. Sounds like I am little Miss Perfect - I am not - but I certainly try to keep decorum and respect for people and for myself.
Ok, back to work for me! Have a good day everyone!
In addition to my post above, where the incident happened about 20 years ago I feel now that I think carefully, very carefully befor doing anything that would be potentially damaging to me or someone else. There have been times when I could get irate, but I seriously don't want to let something get out of hand, because people certainly remember - in fact they have very long memories, and no amount of apologising for any outburst can make them forget - they can forgive but not forget - so I always am ultra-careful now. I remember loads of times when family members have shown their true colours and shown what they feel in an angry way, rather than in a calm and rational way, and it does make me think of them differently. Sounds like I am little Miss Perfect - I am not - but I certainly try to keep decorum and respect for people and for myself.
Ok, back to work for me! Have a good day everyone!
Yes that is the best way to be
jonnt: Yes i suppose we can all get a little irate at times and do silly things .
I used to lose control now and again and pick up anything close to me to hit people with ,{not good i know},but sometimes i couldnt even remember doing it , i was in so much of a rage ,
On 3 accasions it was a Hatchet ,this i know is a bit over the top , and someone could have got seriously hurt had i not have missed there head .
So yes on reflection , rage is stupid .
I used to lose control now and again and pick up anything close to me to hit people with ,{not good i know},but sometimes i couldnt even remember doing it , i was in so much of a rage ,
On 3 accasions it was a Hatchet ,this i know is a bit over the top , and someone could have got seriously hurt had i not have missed there head .
So yes on reflection , rage is stupid .
Well we do get angry sometimes but maybe what yo are talking about 
is taking things too far
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What makes us mad?
How do we keep our self control?
Is there such a thing as cool
Are their some occasions when we go over the top and maybe do or say something we wished we did not?
These are my answers:
I know that sometimes I suffer from anger but know how to control things and keep my composure
Yes sometimes I can be in a great mood and nothing can touch me when I feel like that
Yes I also know that I say things in the heat of the moment too but I think most of us do
So it's up to you lot to express your comments and views