Since about six month all the mails I´m receiving seems to be either from a scammer or from young men from India, Pakistan and so on who wants to marry me.
Where are the real men? I know I´m no more twenty or thirty but I love my age and I know I do look fine. So why is it so hard in here to find a real man? Distance does not matter. I´m once a year either in USA or Canada.
I´ve been thinking about to close my account on this page.
bestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK4,701 posts
cleopatrawitch: Since about six month all the mails I´m receiving seems to be either from a scammer or from young men from India, Pakistan and so on who wants to marry me.
Where are the real men? I know I´m no more twenty or thirty but I love my age and I know I do look fine. So why is it so hard in here to find a real man? Distance does not matter. I´m once a year either in USA or Canada.
I´ve been thinking about to close my account on this page.
So men, what do you think about it?
Hi cleo,I'm actually not looking which is quite clear on my profile,but recently I have been inundated with mail from guys in their 30's to 40's.Some I have received are different guys with the same US army photo.What the hell's that all about.
At one time I used to reply with a "no thank you",but now just delete.Anyone sending me a phone number and email on 1st contact gets binned.
There are some genuine guys out there I'm sure, it's just a question of sorting the wheat from the chaff.
cleopatrawitch: Since about six month all the mails I´m receiving seems to be either from a scammer or from young men from India, Pakistan and so on who wants to marry me.
Where are the real men? I know I´m no more twenty or thirty but I love my age and I know I do look fine. So why is it so hard in here to find a real man? Distance does not matter. I´m once a year either in USA or Canada.
I´ve been thinking about to close my account on this page.
So men, what do you think about it?
Plenty of us out here. How easy have you been to find? You filled out your profile, and.....what? Waited for suitors to come knocking? Well, they did. The scammers. Lesson: that's what you get when you make no effort -- nothing.
Or, you could get involved, get to know people, become part of the community. It's fun! And, then you'd know the guys you met were real, 'cause they'd already be your friends.
what do you mean by I make no effort and I should become a part of the community?
I'm sorry if it sounded harsh. By "become part of the community," I meant just this: get involved, interact with others, meet people, have some fun. CS works best (when it works at all) as a sort of ongoing party, where you mingle, talk, bump elbows, etc.
And the "making no effort" part, well, forgive me if it did not apply in your case; I may have been hasty. But it's not uncommon to hear folk (of both genders) suddenly appear and say, This place sucks, all I get is scammers! when they've made no effort to introduce themselves to anyone.
what do you mean by I make no effort and I should become a part of the community?
I'm sorry if it sounded harsh. By "become part of the community," I meant just this: get involved, interact with others, meet people, have some fun. CS works best (when it works at all) as a sort of ongoing party, where you mingle, talk, bump elbows, etc.
And the "making no effort" part, well, forgive me if it did not apply in your case; I may have been hasty. But it's not uncommon to hear folk (of both genders) suddenly appear and say, This place sucks, all I get is scammers! when they've made no effort to introduce themselves to anyone.
Well I red some of the forums and a lot of them don´t even make any senses. So I don´t think I will really get to know people on this kind and way.
What are you doing now??? Just interacting with fol and look at the return you are getting. Jac was right the best way to find The Good, The Bad and the downright Bonkers is on the FORUMS....As always JMO...
Of course there are real man there too. Germany is a rich country and I earn my own money. Perfect conditions for someone from India or Pakistan. Don´t you think so?
trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK8,005 posts
Dagosto: I'm sorry if it sounded harsh. By "become part of the community," I meant just this: get involved, interact with others, meet people, have some fun. CS works best (when it works at all) as a sort of ongoing party, where you mingle, talk, bump elbows, etc.
And the "making no effort" part, well, forgive me if it did not apply in your case; I may have been hasty. But it's not uncommon to hear folk (of both genders) suddenly appear and say, This place sucks, all I get is scammers! when they've made no effort to introduce themselves to anyone.
we knew what you meant.... ......interract.... you wanna get your clogs..off.... filthy....swine......
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Where are the real men? I know I´m no more twenty or thirty but I love my age and I know I do look fine. So why is it so hard in here to find a real man? Distance does not matter. I´m once a year either in USA or Canada.
I´ve been thinking about to close my account on this page.
So men, what do you think about it?