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Jun 4, 2011 5:32 PM CST help please
Mikenj3
Mikenj3Mikenj3Benalmadina, Andalusia Spain3 Threads 7 Posts
ok there's these lass i really like,we seen each other quite alot recently,we do have a great time,just towards the end of the night 2nd time in a row just not had the confidence to go in for a kiss and get a cuddle out of it.

Just the thing is i know we got a lot in common we make each other laugh just sometimes things i feel a little awkward not that i don't like her cause i really do,just not the most confident at the moment,u think the longer i put things off like not being as forward as i should be i will lose her? she has said she like me and we are good friends,just could use some advice here frustrated
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Jun 4, 2011 5:34 PM CST help please
montecito
montecitomontecitoLovely, New Jersey USA96 Threads 2 Polls 5,086 Posts
Mikenj3: ok there's these lass i really like,we seen each other quite alot recently,we do have a great time,just towards the end of the night 2nd time in a row just not had the confidence to go in for a kiss and get a cuddle out of it.

Just the thing is i know we got a lot in common we make each other laugh just sometimes things i feel a little awkward not that i don't like her cause i really do,just not the most confident at the moment,u think the longer i put things off like not being as forward as i should be i will lose her? she has said she like me and we are good friends,just could use some advice here


Maybe she's wondering why you don't give her a LITTLE kiss - don't put your tongue down her throat on the first kiss...laugh
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Jun 4, 2011 5:34 PM CST help please
tallman51
tallman51tallman51Limerick, Ireland9 Threads 1 Polls 3,327 Posts
Ask her for a loan of 30,000 euros !!

If she gives it too you it means she really likes you
or that she is really stupid !

Just a thought !






laugh
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Jun 4, 2011 5:36 PM CST help please
tallman51: Ask her for a loan of 30,000 euros !!

If she gives it too you it means she really likes you
or that she is really stupid !

Just a thought !
tongue roll eyes that's is just sooooo helpful



rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 4, 2011 5:37 PM CST help please
go at the pace u are comfortable with. kiss her of u want to and pay close mind to how she responds as this will be ur clue for what to do nexthug
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Jun 4, 2011 5:40 PM CST help please
cynicalorange
cynicalorangecynicalorangeBristol or Dortmund, Somerset, England UK27 Threads 5 Polls 1,897 Posts
Mikenj3: ok there's these lass i really like,we seen each other quite alot recently,we do have a great time,just towards the end of the night 2nd time in a row just not had the confidence to go in for a kiss and get a cuddle out of it.

Just the thing is i know we got a lot in common we make each other laugh just sometimes things i feel a little awkward not that i don't like her cause i really do,just not the most confident at the moment,u think the longer i put things off like not being as forward as i should be i will lose her? she has said she like me and we are good friends,just could use some advice here


As you're walking back to wherever you are parting company for the night, just put your arm around her waist or hold her hand.
Those alone will let you know if you've fallen into the 'friends zone'.

If all is good and you've not had CS (oooh, the site's name oddly enough) gas sprayed into your eyes, then just offer a peck on the cheek and see how she reacts. If your balls are still between your legs, then move in for a hug. Mention you've had a wonderful evening, and really enjoy being with her at the same time.

If all is still going well, then a kiss will happen naturally.










My sole serious post of the night!grin
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Jun 4, 2011 5:41 PM CST help please
Amadeus1756
Amadeus1756Amadeus1756Germany, Lower Saxony Germany72 Posts
Mikenj3: ok there's these lass i really like,we seen each other quite alot recently,we do have a great time,just towards the end of the night 2nd time in a row just not had the confidence to go in for a kiss and get a cuddle out of it.

Just the thing is i know we got a lot in common we make each other laugh just sometimes things i feel a little awkward not that i don't like her cause i really do,just not the most confident at the moment,u think the longer i put things off like not being as forward as i should be i will lose her? she has said she like me and we are good friends,just could use some advice here

Why are you not feeling the most confident at the moment?
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Jun 4, 2011 5:41 PM CST help please
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
Just tell her you want to kiss her......

whats the worst that can happen

oh yeah she could laugh in your face
but
I'm sure that wont happen (gulp) grin
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Jun 4, 2011 5:42 PM CST help please
cynicalorange
cynicalorangecynicalorangeBristol or Dortmund, Somerset, England UK27 Threads 5 Polls 1,897 Posts
Oh, and no slobbering like a boxer dog either. That's such a turn off when chins have to be wiped mumbling
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Jun 4, 2011 5:43 PM CST help please
Mikenj3
Mikenj3Mikenj3Benalmadina, Andalusia Spain3 Threads 7 Posts
haha thanks though i do appreciate it :)
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Jun 4, 2011 5:44 PM CST help please
Amadeus1756
Amadeus1756Amadeus1756Germany, Lower Saxony Germany72 Posts
almera03: Just tell her you want to kiss her......

whats the worst that can happen

oh yeah she could laugh in your face
but
I'm sure that wont happen (gulp)

Okay, asking first never gets the right answer in this department. In my experience at least.
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Jun 4, 2011 5:45 PM CST help please
Mikenj3
Mikenj3Mikenj3Benalmadina, Andalusia Spain3 Threads 7 Posts
not so confident at the moment,last relationship was cheated on,u know same old crap happened i good 6 month ago and this 1 is the first lady actually had any feelings about since then,want to take things slowly with her,but still the x hit me for 6...
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Jun 4, 2011 5:47 PM CST help please
Amadeus1756
Amadeus1756Amadeus1756Germany, Lower Saxony Germany72 Posts
Mikenj3: not so confident at the moment,last relationship was cheated on,u know same old crap happened i good 6 month ago and this 1 is the first lady actually had any feelings about since then,want to take things slowly with her,but still the x hit me for 6...

The past is the past. Have courage, chicks dig that.
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Jun 4, 2011 5:48 PM CST help please
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
Amadeus1756: Okay, asking first never gets the right answer in this department. In my experience at least.
its not what you say, its how you say it dancing
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Jun 4, 2011 5:51 PM CST help please
Amadeus1756
Amadeus1756Amadeus1756Germany, Lower Saxony Germany72 Posts
almera03: its not what you say, its how you say it

Asking without words wins every time. Trust me. (or not)
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Jun 4, 2011 5:52 PM CST help please
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Mikenj3: ok there's these lass i really like,we seen each other quite alot recently,we do have a great time,just towards the end of the night 2nd time in a row just not had the confidence to go in for a kiss and get a cuddle out of it.

Just the thing is i know we got a lot in common we make each other laugh just sometimes things i feel a little awkward not that i don't like her cause i really do,just not the most confident at the moment,u think the longer i put things off like not being as forward as i should be i will lose her? she has said she like me and we are good friends,just could use some advice here

what kinda advice did you have in mind???
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