ok there's these lass i really like,we seen each other quite alot recently,we do have a great time,just towards the end of the night 2nd time in a row just not had the confidence to go in for a kiss and get a cuddle out of it.
Just the thing is i know we got a lot in common we make each other laugh just sometimes things i feel a little awkward not that i don't like her cause i really do,just not the most confident at the moment,u think the longer i put things off like not being as forward as i should be i will lose her? she has said she like me and we are good friends,just could use some advice here
Mikenj3: ok there's these lass i really like,we seen each other quite alot recently,we do have a great time,just towards the end of the night 2nd time in a row just not had the confidence to go in for a kiss and get a cuddle out of it.
Just the thing is i know we got a lot in common we make each other laugh just sometimes things i feel a little awkward not that i don't like her cause i really do,just not the most confident at the moment,u think the longer i put things off like not being as forward as i should be i will lose her? she has said she like me and we are good friends,just could use some advice here
Maybe she's wondering why you don't give her a LITTLE kiss - don't put your tongue down her throat on the first kiss...
cynicalorangeBristol or Dortmund, Somerset, England UK1,897 posts
Mikenj3: ok there's these lass i really like,we seen each other quite alot recently,we do have a great time,just towards the end of the night 2nd time in a row just not had the confidence to go in for a kiss and get a cuddle out of it.
Just the thing is i know we got a lot in common we make each other laugh just sometimes things i feel a little awkward not that i don't like her cause i really do,just not the most confident at the moment,u think the longer i put things off like not being as forward as i should be i will lose her? she has said she like me and we are good friends,just could use some advice here
As you're walking back to wherever you are parting company for the night, just put your arm around her waist or hold her hand. Those alone will let you know if you've fallen into the 'friends zone'.
If all is good and you've not had CS (oooh, the site's name oddly enough) gas sprayed into your eyes, then just offer a peck on the cheek and see how she reacts. If your balls are still between your legs, then move in for a hug. Mention you've had a wonderful evening, and really enjoy being with her at the same time.
If all is still going well, then a kiss will happen naturally.
Mikenj3: ok there's these lass i really like,we seen each other quite alot recently,we do have a great time,just towards the end of the night 2nd time in a row just not had the confidence to go in for a kiss and get a cuddle out of it.
Just the thing is i know we got a lot in common we make each other laugh just sometimes things i feel a little awkward not that i don't like her cause i really do,just not the most confident at the moment,u think the longer i put things off like not being as forward as i should be i will lose her? she has said she like me and we are good friends,just could use some advice here
Why are you not feeling the most confident at the moment?
not so confident at the moment,last relationship was cheated on,u know same old crap happened i good 6 month ago and this 1 is the first lady actually had any feelings about since then,want to take things slowly with her,but still the x hit me for 6...
Mikenj3: not so confident at the moment,last relationship was cheated on,u know same old crap happened i good 6 month ago and this 1 is the first lady actually had any feelings about since then,want to take things slowly with her,but still the x hit me for 6...
The past is the past. Have courage, chicks dig that.
Mikenj3: ok there's these lass i really like,we seen each other quite alot recently,we do have a great time,just towards the end of the night 2nd time in a row just not had the confidence to go in for a kiss and get a cuddle out of it.
Just the thing is i know we got a lot in common we make each other laugh just sometimes things i feel a little awkward not that i don't like her cause i really do,just not the most confident at the moment,u think the longer i put things off like not being as forward as i should be i will lose her? she has said she like me and we are good friends,just could use some advice here
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Just the thing is i know we got a lot in common we make each other laugh just sometimes things i feel a little awkward not that i don't like her cause i really do,just not the most confident at the moment,u think the longer i put things off like not being as forward as i should be i will lose her? she has said she like me and we are good friends,just could use some advice here