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Jun 5, 2011 3:24 AM CST ex boyfriend
GRshygirl
GRshygirlGRshygirlGrand Rapids, Michigan USA6 Threads 135 Posts
Is it a mistake for me to get back with my ex after 3 years? I broke it off because I loved him and he didn't feel the same. I wanted to find someone to love me. I haven't been on one date ... I still love him.
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Jun 5, 2011 3:27 AM CST ex boyfriend
Dagosto
DagostoDagostoKnoxville, Tennessee USA74 Threads 15 Polls 3,076 Posts
Do you believe his feelings for you have grown?

wine
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Jun 5, 2011 3:28 AM CST ex boyfriend
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
GRshygirl: Is it a mistake for me to get back with my ex after 3 years? I broke it off because I loved him and he didn't feel the same. I wanted to find someone to love me. I haven't been on one date ... I still love him.



Yes...move forward.

Never look back.thumbs up
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Jun 5, 2011 3:28 AM CST ex boyfriend
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
GRshygirl: Is it a mistake for me to get back with my ex after 3 years? I broke it off because I loved him and he didn't feel the same. I wanted to find someone to love me. I haven't been on one date ... I still love him.


BIG mistake...

if he didn't feel the same then....why would he feel it now?

please go on some dates, make new friends..
life is too short..

good luck

hug
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Jun 5, 2011 3:31 AM CST ex boyfriend
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
GRshygirl: Is it a mistake for me to get back with my ex after 3 years? I broke it off because I loved him and he didn't feel the same. I wanted to find someone to love me. I haven't been on one date ... I still love him.

Is life really worth living without a few mistakes , besides ...Who Dares, Wins
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Jun 5, 2011 3:33 AM CST ex boyfriend
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Does he REALY loves you???? or you THINK he does???
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Jun 5, 2011 3:40 AM CST ex boyfriend
Aswina
AswinaAswinaNitra, Slovakia2 Threads 1,373 Posts
GRshygirl: Is it a mistake for me to get back with my ex after 3 years? I broke it off because I loved him and he didn't feel the same. I wanted to find someone to love me. I haven't been on one date ... I still love him.

in wars and loves is all allowed... just you can´t think about consequences...
enjoy being with him... and one day if you feel no enjoyment any more for you, so move aheadbouquet
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Jun 5, 2011 3:42 AM CST ex boyfriend
englishelegance
englisheleganceenglisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK76 Threads 1 Polls 3,025 Posts
GRshygirl: Is it a mistake for me to get back with my ex after 3 years? I broke it off because I loved him and he didn't feel the same. I wanted to find someone to love me. I haven't been on one date ... I still love him.


Hi therewave one sided love is never a good idea, its painful for the one who is in love. I would say find a guy that will love and cherish you for you, only give your heart to someone that will appreciate you.. Coming out of a relationship where you loved someone can take time to heal, you deserve to be loved, go find it!teddybear
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Jun 5, 2011 3:43 AM CST ex boyfriend
GRshygirl
GRshygirlGRshygirlGrand Rapids, Michigan USA6 Threads 135 Posts
I don't think his feelings have changed, but we had good times together, and I'm not going to find anyone else if I' m still hung up on him. I'm just wondering if I can handle it emotionally.
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Jun 5, 2011 3:45 AM CST ex boyfriend
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
GRshygirl: I don't think his feelings have changed, but we had good times together, and I'm not going to find anyone else if I' m still hung up on him. I'm just wondering if I can handle it emotionally.


If he dumped you..maybe you were at fault...and need to look at your own mistakes.



Something alot of women aren't good at doing.
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Jun 5, 2011 3:45 AM CST ex boyfriend
Dagosto
DagostoDagostoKnoxville, Tennessee USA74 Threads 15 Polls 3,076 Posts
GRshygirl: I don't think his feelings have changed, but we had good times together, and I'm not going to find anyone else if I' m still hung up on him. I'm just wondering if I can handle it emotionally.


If you had to end the relationship before because he did not have feelings for you...and his feelings have not grown, as far as you know....what outcome would you expect if you renewed the relationship?

wine
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Jun 5, 2011 3:45 AM CST ex boyfriend
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Take 2 cynical pills, 3 times a day and to make sure they go down, grab yourself by the scruff of the neck and give yourself a good shaking.
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Jun 5, 2011 3:46 AM CST ex boyfriend
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
thewall2: If he dumped you..maybe you were at fault...and need to look at your own mistakes.
Something alot of women aren't good at doing.



You left him...after three years...I wouldn't take anybody back.I had an ex that wanted me back after 3 years.

i told her to f.uck off.
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Jun 5, 2011 3:47 AM CST ex boyfriend
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
thewall2: You left him...after three years...I wouldn't take anybody back.I had an ex that wanted me back after 3 years.

i told her to f.uck off.




So...take your chances..but don't expect much.
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Jun 5, 2011 3:48 AM CST ex boyfriend
Ladefoss23
Ladefoss23Ladefoss23Langen, Hessen Germany79 Threads 26 Polls 1,898 Posts
Boban1: Is life really worth living without a few mistakes , besides ...Who Dares, Wins
thumbs up
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Jun 5, 2011 3:49 AM CST ex boyfriend
vyoleta
vyoletavyoletaArkaroola, South Australia Australia44 Threads 6 Polls 1,050 Posts
GRshygirl: I don't think his feelings have changed, but we had good times together, and I'm not going to find anyone else if I' m still hung up on him. I'm just wondering if I can handle it emotionally.


You still love him, he still doesn't love you, he wants you back, you don't want him back....confused ... are you sure about the logic of the above? I mean, why should he want you back if he didn't love you? Maybe he does love you, only he is showing it in the way that is not convenient to you. Try to talk about it with him, clear it up with him. Good luck!
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Jun 5, 2011 3:49 AM CST ex boyfriend
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
thewall2: So...take your chances..but don't expect much.



I also had one that wanted me back after 10 years..and I'm thinking..

it's the ITALIAN PASSION..for sure man.laugh
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Jun 5, 2011 3:50 AM CST ex boyfriend
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
thewall2: I also had one that wanted me back after 10 years..and I'm thinking..

it's the ITALIAN PASSION..for sure man.



You can't make anybody love you..they either do or they don't.

Anything else,is manipulation...I don't believe in the whole..

winning your partner bulls.hit.

Either the chemistry is there..or it's not.
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Jun 5, 2011 3:56 AM CST ex boyfriend
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
When realise is not greener in the other side,some thinking what they lost,thats why come back knocking at the door.
thewall2: You left him...after three years...I wouldn't take anybody back.I had an ex that wanted me back after 3 years.

i told her to f.uck off.
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Jun 5, 2011 4:03 AM CST ex boyfriend
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
GRshygirl: Is it a mistake for me to get back with my ex after 3 years? I broke it off because I loved him and he didn't feel the same. I wanted to find someone to love me. I haven't been on one date ... I still love him.


I'd go on one date and suss him out... at least you get to go out on a date Hey?

and within that date, you can suss out if you really do feel the same about him... It might be a releasing and enlightening experience for you... at least then you can confidently walk forward...

Good luck. cheers
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