I regret giving up my job to go to London with him as he'd lost his job. We've now split and I've been looking for a job for nearly two years now. Lesson learnt never give up your indpendence for anybody no matter how much you love them as love dies and you have to live with the consequences.
missingLondon: I regret giving up my job to go to London with him as he'd lost his job. We've now split and I've been looking for a job for nearly two years now. Lesson learnt never give up your indpendence for anybody no matter how much you love them as love dies and you have to live with the consequences.
missingLondon: good for you. Some divorced women keep their husband's name. I wonder why?
I went back to my maiden name but some of my friends did not, for a variety of reasons one of which was they wanted the same surname as their children. Wasnt an issue for me, my children just see it as me having my Fathers name and they have theirs.
missingLondon: good for you. Some divorced women keep their husband's name. I wonder why?
I went back to my maiden name but some of my friends did not, for a variety of reasons one of which was they wanted the same surname as their children. Wasnt an issue for me, my children just see it as me having my Fathers name and they have theirs.
Glatlol: I went back to my maiden name but some of my friends did not, for a variety of reasons one of which was they wanted the same surname as their children. Wasnt an issue for me, my children just see it as me having my Fathers name and they have theirs.
I did the same .My kids have no problems with it - mind u post man drives me around the bend at times
missingLondon: I regret giving up my job to go to London with him as he'd lost his job. We've now split and I've been looking for a job for nearly two years now. Lesson learnt never give up your indpendence for anybody no matter how much you love them as love dies and you have to live with the consequences.
One of my ex partners took my smile away - when he came back years later to ask my forgiveness in what had happened in our relationship ... I told him i could never forgive him but i was pleased that threw that learning experience with him i maintained to gain my smile back once i was rid of him :0) And vowed no matter who i meet i would never allow anyone to take my smile away !
Twice in the past 5 years I have gave up my job and security by moving to be with a partner. But I do not regret it no matter what the consequences because it felt right at the time. I do understand your frustrations with your work though op.
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