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Jun 7, 2011 4:28 PM CST This was sent to me by a friend today. Makes you think
outdoorgirlsun
outdoorgirlsunoutdoorgirlsunSapulpa, Oklahoma USA5 Threads 1,085 Posts
When I was a kid, my Mom liked to make breakfast food for dinner every now and then. And I remember one night in particular when she had made breakfast after a long, hard day at work.. On that evening so long ago, my Mom placed a plate of eggs, sausage and extremely burned biscuits in front of my dad. I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed! Yet all my dad did was reach for his biscuit, smile at my Mom and ask me how my day was at school.



I don't remember what I told him that night, but I do remember watching him smear butter and jelly on that ugly burned biscuit. He ate every bite of that thing... never made a face nor uttered a word about it!



When I got up from the table that evening, I remember hearing my Mom apologize to my dad for burning the biscuits. And I'll never forget what he said: "Honey, I love burned biscuits every now and then." Later that night, I went to kiss Daddy good night and I asked him if he really liked his biscuits burned. He wrapped me in his arms and said, "Your Momma put in a hard day at work today and she's real tired. And besides a little burned biscuit never hurt anyone!"



As I've grown older, I've thought about that many times. Life is full of imperfect things and imperfect people. I'm not the best at hardly anything, and I forget birthdays and anniversaries just like everyone else. But what I've learned over the years is that learning to accept each others faults and choosing to celebrate each other’s differences - is one of the most important keys to creating a healthy, growing, and lasting relationship.



And that's my prayer for you today... that you will learn to take the good, the bad, and the ugly parts of your life and lay them at the feet of God. Because in the end, He's the only One who will be able to give you a relationship where a burnt biscuit isn't a deal-breaker! We could extend this to any relationship. In fact, understanding is the base of any relationship, be it a husband-wife or parent-child or friendship!


So, please pass me a biscuit, and yes, the burned one will do just fine.
And PLEASE pass this along to someone who has enriched your life.
Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting
some kind of battle.

"Life without love is like an unsharpened pencil - it has no point
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Jun 7, 2011 4:32 PM CST This was sent to me by a friend today. Makes you think
outdoorgirlsun
outdoorgirlsunoutdoorgirlsunSapulpa, Oklahoma USA5 Threads 1,085 Posts
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Jun 7, 2011 5:12 PM CST This was sent to me by a friend today. Makes you think
manOfewwords
manOfewwordsmanOfewwordsLongview, Texas USA30 Threads 756 Posts
a very good lesson, thank you for posting it...
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Jun 7, 2011 5:21 PM CST This was sent to me by a friend today. Makes you think
cmariemcev
cmariemcevcmariemcevRochester, Kent, England UK3 Posts
Well said and I think these days so many strive constantly for perfection but it is so difficult if not impossible to achieve perfection in anything not to mention everything !

applause
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Jun 7, 2011 5:23 PM CST This was sent to me by a friend today. Makes you think
I had burnt Biskits Once





Once.
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Jun 7, 2011 5:26 PM CST This was sent to me by a friend today. Makes you think
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
Beautiful!! Thank you!! bouquet
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Jun 7, 2011 5:40 PM CST This was sent to me by a friend today. Makes you think
A few imperfections makes life perfect teddybear
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Aug 18, 2011 4:25 PM CST This was sent to me by a friend today. Makes you think
SUNSHINEB0Y
SUNSHINEB0YSUNSHINEB0Ycork, Cork Ireland2,259 Posts
outdoorgirlsun: When I was a kid, my Mom liked to make breakfast food for dinner every now and then. And I remember one night in particular when she had made breakfast after a long, hard day at work.. On that evening so long ago, my Mom placed a plate of eggs, sausage and extremely burned biscuits in front of my dad. I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed! Yet all my dad did was reach for his biscuit, smile at my Mom and ask me how my day was at school.



I don't remember what I told him that night, but I do remember watching him smear butter and jelly on that ugly burned biscuit. He ate every bite of that thing... never made a face nor uttered a word about it!



When I got up from the table that evening, I remember hearing my Mom apologize to my dad for burning the biscuits. And I'll never forget what he said: "Honey, I love burned biscuits every now and then." Later that night, I went to kiss Daddy good night and I asked him if he really liked his biscuits burned. He wrapped me in his arms and said, "Your Momma put in a hard day at work today and she's real tired. And besides a little burned biscuit never hurt anyone!"



As I've grown older, I've thought about that many times. Life is full of imperfect things and imperfect people. I'm not the best at hardly anything, and I forget birthdays and anniversaries just like everyone else. But what I've learned over the years is that learning to accept each others faults and choosing to celebrate each other’s differences - is one of the most important keys to creating a healthy, growing, and lasting relationship.



And that's my prayer for you today... that you will learn to take the good, the bad, and the ugly parts of your life and lay them at the feet of God. Because in the end, He's the only One who will be able to give you a relationship where a burnt biscuit isn't a deal-breaker! We could extend this to any relationship. In fact, understanding is the base of any relationship, be it a husband-wife or parent-child or friendship! So, please pass me a biscuit, and yes, the burned one will do just fine.
And PLEASE pass this along to someone who has enriched your life.
Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting
some kind of battle.

"Life without love is like an unsharpened pencil - it has no point


Absolutely, you were so lucky to have such parents.
A lovely story, I enjoyed every second of it.
Thank you for posting.bouquet
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Aug 18, 2011 4:31 PM CST This was sent to me by a friend today. Makes you think
Ur_Knight
Ur_KnightUr_KnightWindsor, Ontario Canada10 Threads 2,176 Posts
That was such a nice story... certainly one to think about (and remember)

Thank You for posting it OG teddybear
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Aug 18, 2011 4:33 PM CST This was sent to me by a friend today. Makes you think
FreddyFudpucker
FreddyFudpuckerFreddyFudpuckerObamaville, Indiana USA10,179 Posts
Well said~
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Aug 18, 2011 4:34 PM CST This was sent to me by a friend today. Makes you think
outdoorgirlsun
outdoorgirlsunoutdoorgirlsunSapulpa, Oklahoma USA5 Threads 1,085 Posts
You folks are welcome! Just makes you all warm inside, uh?
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Aug 18, 2011 4:38 PM CST This was sent to me by a friend today. Makes you think
SUNSHINEB0Y
SUNSHINEB0YSUNSHINEB0Ycork, Cork Ireland2,259 Posts
doh I thought that was the whiskeyuh oh






grin
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Aug 18, 2011 4:39 PM CST This was sent to me by a friend today. Makes you think
outdoorgirlsun
outdoorgirlsunoutdoorgirlsunSapulpa, Oklahoma USA5 Threads 1,085 Posts
SUNSHINEB0Y: I thought that was the whiskey


Well now, that's makes you warm and fuzzy inside!
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Aug 18, 2011 4:40 PM CST This was sent to me by a friend today. Makes you think
SUNSHINEB0Y
SUNSHINEB0YSUNSHINEB0Ycork, Cork Ireland2,259 Posts
just joking, I could actually see it in my minds eye as I was reading, yes very heart warmingthumbs up hug bouquet
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Aug 18, 2011 5:42 PM CST This was sent to me by a friend today. Makes you think
Frankinstien
FrankinstienFrankinstienSan Juan, Puerto Rico1 Threads 1,521 Posts
Just think, If your Mom hadn't screwed up and burnt the biscuits then you wouldn't have this memory now . If life hands you lemons, make lemonaid . Down here we make mojitos ! . .bartender waiter drink pouring
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