It's probably best to take the test on the above website, but I thought I'd paste it below to give you an idea what it consists of.
I haven't taken the test yet, but I have pretty good idea how I'll score (and how the love of my life would score!).
"This test was adapted from The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate by Gary Chapman.
"Instructions: There will be two statements beside each number in the list below. Select the statement that best describes how you feel towards your spouse. When you are finished, click the button at the bottom labeled "Get your Love Test answer."
1: I like it when you give me notes of affirmation. I like it when you hug me.
2: I like to spend one-on-one time with you. I feel loved when you give practical help to me.
3: I like it when you give me gifts. I like taking long walks with you.
4: I feel loved when you do things to help me. I feel loved when you touch me.
5: I feel loved when you hold me in your arms. I feel loved when I receive a gift from you.
6: I like to go places with you. I like to hold hands with you.
7: Visible symbols of love (gifts) are very important to me. I feel loved when you affirm me.
8: I like to sit close to you. I like for you to tell me I am attractive/handsome.
9: I like to spend time with you. I like to receive little gifts from you.
10: Your words of acceptance are important to me. I know you love me when you help me.
11: I like to be together when we do things. I like it when you say kind words to me.
12: What you do affects me more than what you say. I feel whole when we hug.
13: I value your praise and try to avoid your criticism. Several inexpensive gifts from you mean more to me than one large gift.
14: I feel close when we are talking or doing something together. I feel closer to you when you touch me often.
15: I like it when you compliment my achievements. I know you love me when you do things for me that you don't enjoy doing.
16: I like for you to touch me when I walk by. I like it when you listen to me sympathetically.
17: I feel loved when you help me with my jobs around the house. I really enjoy receiving gifts from you.
18: I like for you to compliment my appearance. I feel loved when you take time to understand my feelings.
19: I feel secure when you are touching me. Your acts of service make me feel loved.
20: I appreciate the many things you do for me. I like receiving gifts that you make.
21: I really enjoy the feeling I get when you give me your undivided attention. I really enjoy the feeling I get when you do some acts of service for me.
22: I feel loved when you celebrate my birthday with a gift. I feel loved when you celebrate my birthday with meaningful words.
23: I know you are thinking of me when you give me a gift. I feel loved when you help out with my chores.
24: I appreciate it when you listen to me patiently and don't interrupt me. I appreciate it when you remember special days with a gift.
25: I like to know you are concerned enough to help with my daily tasks. I enjoy extended trips with you.
26: Kissing me unexpectedly excites me. Giving me a gift for no special occasion excites me.
27: I like to be told that you appreciate me. I like for you to look at me when we are talking.
28: Your gifts are always special to me. I feel good when you are touching me.
29: I feel loved when you enthusiastically do some task I have requested. I feel loved when you tell me how much you appreciate me.
montecito: Ambrose, I took the test. Let me know when you are in the thread and I'll tell you what my score is
Percent Language Score 37% Words of Affirmation 11 27% Quality Time 8
3% Receiving Gifts 1 7% Acts of Service 2 27% Physical Touch 8 How to Interpret Your Profile Score...
Pretty self-evident, I'd say. (Hi, C!)
I'd venture to guess that if you and your mate/gf/SO score near-opposite values for any of these languages (for instance, scoring an 8 on Receiving Gifts to my 1!), you got your some serious work to do in aligning your...Love Languages!
venusenvy: Words of Affirmation 6 23% Quality Time 7 0% Receiving Gifts 17% Acts of Service 5 40% Physical Touch 12 K theres my score Amby...but truly for some of them I can see where both answers have meaning
I had thought I'd score higher on the "physical touch" part myself, but I guess it was high enough. I expected to be "Words of Affirmation" kinda guy. Not too far off, Envy.
I'm pretty sure I know a certain someone who would score very high on the Receiving Gifts and Acts of Service categories (while they're my lowest. Veeerryyy interreesting, as they say!).
Ambrose2007: I'm pretty sure I know a certain someone who would score very high on the Receiving Gifts and Acts of Service categories (while they're my lowest. Veeerryyy interreesting, as they say!).
Ambrose2007: Thanks, V. You've never said that before about me...guess the reading glasses make the man??
I know someone else who likes glasses on her man...
O Ive always thought you were handsome as all get out but also sadly in a relationship sooo I resist the urge to flirt. the glasses just send it over the top ...some things are just beyond my power to resist
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It's probably best to take the test on the above website, but I thought I'd paste it below to give you an idea what it consists of.
I haven't taken the test yet, but I have pretty good idea how I'll score (and how the love of my life would score!).
"This test was adapted from The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate by Gary Chapman.
"Instructions: There will be two statements beside each number in the list below. Select the statement that best describes how you feel towards your spouse. When you are finished, click the button at the bottom labeled "Get your Love Test answer."
1:
I like it when you give me notes of affirmation.
I like it when you hug me.
2:
I like to spend one-on-one time with you.
I feel loved when you give practical help to me.
3:
I like it when you give me gifts.
I like taking long walks with you.
4:
I feel loved when you do things to help me.
I feel loved when you touch me.
5:
I feel loved when you hold me in your arms.
I feel loved when I receive a gift from you.
6:
I like to go places with you.
I like to hold hands with you.
7:
Visible symbols of love (gifts) are very important to me.
I feel loved when you affirm me.
8:
I like to sit close to you.
I like for you to tell me I am attractive/handsome.
9:
I like to spend time with you.
I like to receive little gifts from you.
10:
Your words of acceptance are important to me.
I know you love me when you help me.
11:
I like to be together when we do things.
I like it when you say kind words to me.
12:
What you do affects me more than what you say.
I feel whole when we hug.
13:
I value your praise and try to avoid your criticism.
Several inexpensive gifts from you mean more to me than one large gift.
14:
I feel close when we are talking or doing something together.
I feel closer to you when you touch me often.
15:
I like it when you compliment my achievements.
I know you love me when you do things for me that you don't enjoy doing.
16:
I like for you to touch me when I walk by.
I like it when you listen to me sympathetically.
17:
I feel loved when you help me with my jobs around the house.
I really enjoy receiving gifts from you.
18:
I like for you to compliment my appearance.
I feel loved when you take time to understand my feelings.
19:
I feel secure when you are touching me.
Your acts of service make me feel loved.
20:
I appreciate the many things you do for me.
I like receiving gifts that you make.
21:
I really enjoy the feeling I get when you give me your undivided attention.
I really enjoy the feeling I get when you do some acts of service for me.
22:
I feel loved when you celebrate my birthday with a gift.
I feel loved when you celebrate my birthday with meaningful words.
23:
I know you are thinking of me when you give me a gift.
I feel loved when you help out with my chores.
24:
I appreciate it when you listen to me patiently and don't interrupt me.
I appreciate it when you remember special days with a gift.
25:
I like to know you are concerned enough to help with my daily tasks.
I enjoy extended trips with you.
26:
Kissing me unexpectedly excites me.
Giving me a gift for no special occasion excites me.
27:
I like to be told that you appreciate me.
I like for you to look at me when we are talking.
28:
Your gifts are always special to me.
I feel good when you are touching me.
29:
I feel loved when you enthusiastically do some task I have requested.
I feel loved when you tell me how much you appreciate me.
30:
I need to be touched every day.