What language of love do you speak? ( Archived) (172)

Jun 7, 2011 6:55 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts


It's probably best to take the test on the above website, but I thought I'd paste it below to give you an idea what it consists of.

I haven't taken the test yet, but I have pretty good idea how I'll score (and how the love of my life would score!).

"This test was adapted from The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate by Gary Chapman.

"Instructions: There will be two statements beside each number in the list below. Select the statement that best describes how you feel towards your spouse. When you are finished, click the button at the bottom labeled "Get your Love Test answer."

1:
I like it when you give me notes of affirmation.
I like it when you hug me.

2:
I like to spend one-on-one time with you.
I feel loved when you give practical help to me.

3:
I like it when you give me gifts.
I like taking long walks with you.

4:
I feel loved when you do things to help me.
I feel loved when you touch me.

5:
I feel loved when you hold me in your arms.
I feel loved when I receive a gift from you.

6:
I like to go places with you.
I like to hold hands with you.

7:
Visible symbols of love (gifts) are very important to me.
I feel loved when you affirm me.

8:
I like to sit close to you.
I like for you to tell me I am attractive/handsome.

9:
I like to spend time with you.
I like to receive little gifts from you.

10:
Your words of acceptance are important to me.
I know you love me when you help me.

11:
I like to be together when we do things.
I like it when you say kind words to me.

12:
What you do affects me more than what you say.
I feel whole when we hug.

13:
I value your praise and try to avoid your criticism.
Several inexpensive gifts from you mean more to me than one large gift.

14:
I feel close when we are talking or doing something together.
I feel closer to you when you touch me often.

15:
I like it when you compliment my achievements.
I know you love me when you do things for me that you don't enjoy doing.

16:
I like for you to touch me when I walk by.
I like it when you listen to me sympathetically.

17:
I feel loved when you help me with my jobs around the house.
I really enjoy receiving gifts from you.

18:
I like for you to compliment my appearance.
I feel loved when you take time to understand my feelings.

19:
I feel secure when you are touching me.
Your acts of service make me feel loved.

20:
I appreciate the many things you do for me.
I like receiving gifts that you make.

21:
I really enjoy the feeling I get when you give me your undivided attention.
I really enjoy the feeling I get when you do some acts of service for me.

22:
I feel loved when you celebrate my birthday with a gift.
I feel loved when you celebrate my birthday with meaningful words.

23:
I know you are thinking of me when you give me a gift.
I feel loved when you help out with my chores.

24:
I appreciate it when you listen to me patiently and don't interrupt me.
I appreciate it when you remember special days with a gift.

25:
I like to know you are concerned enough to help with my daily tasks.
I enjoy extended trips with you.

26:
Kissing me unexpectedly excites me.
Giving me a gift for no special occasion excites me.

27:
I like to be told that you appreciate me.
I like for you to look at me when we are talking.

28:
Your gifts are always special to me.
I feel good when you are touching me.

29:
I feel loved when you enthusiastically do some task I have requested.
I feel loved when you tell me how much you appreciate me.

30:
I need to be touched every day.
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Jun 7, 2011 6:59 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
montecito
montecitomontecitoLovely, New Jersey USA96 Threads 2 Polls 5,086 Posts
wave I don't have a spouse. Should I "use" the last man in my life for the test....laugh
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Jun 7, 2011 7:08 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
montecito
montecitomontecitoLovely, New Jersey USA96 Threads 2 Polls 5,086 Posts
Ambrose, I took the test. Let me know when you are in the thread and I'll tell you what my score is
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Jun 7, 2011 7:11 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
Words of Affirmation 10/33%
Acts of Service 8/27%
Physical Touch 7/23%
Receiving Gifts 4/13%
Quality Time 1/3%

I am set for life.laugh
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Jun 7, 2011 7:24 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Not married but living with my b/f.We may as well be married.lol


Percent Language Score
20%

Words of Affirmation 6
30%

Quality Time 9
0%

Receiving Gifts
17%

Acts of Service 5
33%

Physical Touch 10
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Jun 7, 2011 7:25 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Words of Affirmation 6
23%
Quality Time 7
0%
Receiving Gifts
17%
Acts of Service 5
40%
Physical Touch 12


K theres my score Amby...but truly for some of them I can see where both answers have meaning wine
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Jun 7, 2011 7:26 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
montecito
montecitomontecitoLovely, New Jersey USA96 Threads 2 Polls 5,086 Posts
Words of Affirmation 8

Love Language 7

Act of Service 8

Physical Touch 6

Gifts 1
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Jun 7, 2011 7:26 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
montecito: Ambrose, I took the test. Let me know when you are in the thread and I'll tell you what my score is


Percent Language Score
37%
Words of Affirmation 11
27%
Quality Time 8

3%
Receiving Gifts 1
7%
Acts of Service 2
27%
Physical Touch 8
How to Interpret Your Profile Score...

Pretty self-evident, I'd say. laugh blushing (Hi, C!)

I'd venture to guess that if you and your mate/gf/SO score near-opposite values for any of these languages (for instance, scoring an 8 on Receiving Gifts to my 1!), you got your some serious work to do in aligning your...Love Languages! wow uh oh dancing hug
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Jun 7, 2011 7:27 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
montecito: Words of Affirmation 8

Love Language 7

Act of Service 8

Physical Touch 6

Gifts 1


Hmmm...you're missing "quality time," Monte. conversing confused wine
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Jun 7, 2011 7:31 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
venusenvy: Words of Affirmation 6
23%
Quality Time 7
0%
Receiving Gifts
17%
Acts of Service 5
40%
Physical Touch 12 K theres my score Amby...but truly for some of them I can see where both answers have meaning


I had thought I'd score higher on the "physical touch" part myself, but I guess it was high enough. I expected to be "Words of Affirmation" kinda guy. Not too far off, Envy. beer
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Jun 7, 2011 7:31 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
I like your new pic Ambrose...vedy vedy handsome...Hellooo you handsome goood loooking you flirty
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Jun 7, 2011 7:33 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
I'm pretty sure I know a certain someone who would score very high on the Receiving Gifts and Acts of Service categories (while they're my lowest. Veeerryyy interreesting, as they say!). wow uh oh uh oh sad flower help conversing dunno sad flower
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Jun 7, 2011 7:35 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Ambrose2007: I'm pretty sure I know a certain someone who would score very high on the Receiving Gifts and Acts of Service categories (while they're my lowest. Veeerryyy interreesting, as they say!).


What was your score?? hmmm
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Jun 7, 2011 7:36 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
venusenvy: I like your new pic Ambrose...vedy vedy handsome...Hellooo you handsome goood loooking you


Thanks, V. You've never said that before about me...guess the reading glasses make the man?? nerd dunno

I know someone else who likes glasses on her man... sigh mumbling
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Jun 7, 2011 7:37 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
PandoraX
PandoraXPandoraXApeldoorn, Gelderland Netherlands4 Threads 3,191 Posts
I saw this as I was about to go to bed, and had to take it.


So, here goes:


Words of Affirmation - 5

Quality Time - 9

Receiving Gifts - 2

Act of Service - 5

Physical Touch - 9






sad flower
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Jun 7, 2011 7:37 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
venusenvy: What was your score??


It's above. I'm a WOA sorta guy, it appears. Just what I figured. Which means...saying complimentary things about me floats my stoat, so to speak... grin
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Jun 7, 2011 7:38 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
PandoraX: I saw this as I was about to go to bed, and had to take it. So, here goes:Words of Affirmation - 5

Quality Time - 9

Receiving Gifts - 2

Act of Service - 5

Physical Touch - 9


Why the sad flower, Pannie? dunno hmmmwave
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Jun 7, 2011 7:39 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
PandoraX
PandoraXPandoraXApeldoorn, Gelderland Netherlands4 Threads 3,191 Posts
Ambrose2007: Why the sad flower, Pannie?


Because I don't have any of it.
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Jun 7, 2011 7:39 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Ambrose2007: Thanks, V. You've never said that before about me...guess the reading glasses make the man??

I know someone else who likes glasses on her man...


O Ive always thought you were handsome as all get out but also sadly in a relationship sooo I resist the urge to flirt. the glasses just send it over the top ...some things are just beyond my power to resist smitten
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Jun 7, 2011 7:40 PM CST What language of love do you speak?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
PandoraX: Because I don't have any of it.



comfort hug bouquet
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