Uvita: what would you say? ;) Variants: 1) honesty is the best policy 2) this girl knows what she wants 3) your variant ;)
am afraid my friend most genuine guys will think ( gold digger stay away ) there are plenty of rich guys in the world but most of them are not genuine sincere guys who will truely love you because they know they have the money to get a girl who will fall in love at the drop of a hat.
UvitaOProtterdam, South Holland Netherlands60 posts
thank you very much for your responces. Leaving aside a universal truth about "be who you are and be proud of this", I was curious about the following - one of male complaints about girls are: - girls are too emotional - girls don't know what they want - oftrn gold-diggers
So coming back to this statement - it wasn't emotional, it was straighforward in its meaning, as for gold-digging - I mentioned about falling in love, so it was not meant to be about profits or somehtings. And also, a handsome, witty, rich guy is better than a silly ugly poor one, and same goes for ladies..
So what was in it that makes people think negatively?
P.S. an opinion poll for a russian friend of mine, who is hunting on this site, ???????, ??????? !
Uvita: thank you very much for your responces. Leaving aside a universal truth about "be who you are and be proud of this", I was curious about the following - one of male complaints about girls are: - girls are too emotional - girls don't know what they want - oftrn gold-diggers
So coming back to this statement - it wasn't emotional, it was straighforward in its meaning, as for gold-digging - I mentioned about falling in love, so it was not meant to be about profits or somehtings. And also, a handsome, witty, rich guy is better than a silly ugly poor one, and same goes for ladies..
So what was in it that makes people think negatively?
P.S. an opinion poll for a russian friend of mine, who is hunting on this site, ???????, ??????? !
If you rewright it but make it a poll then you will have a lot of answers good luck
lifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico16,713 posts
Uvita: if I say that I search a handsome, witty, rich guy of a fertile age to fall in love with -
You are a very beautiful,young and educated girl.
If you country has not given you the opportunities to shine, consider moving and then in another country you might find a YOUNG, honest, educated man, with whom to design a life project for the two of you.
I do have a 26yr old daughter and we have talked about it -she is also very beautiful, educated and very smart, getting her second degree- and she would choose a YOUNG and educated partner and then work the two of them to get their goals.
She would prefer a European young gentleman for a partner and she is planning to apply for a job in a Nordic European country.
A rich men can have any girl they want and they have several at the time, would you like to be one of the herd. I would not, not even at my age!
What would you need a rich man for? For an eccentric life to live?
UvitaOProtterdam, South Holland Netherlands60 posts
I do have a 26yr old daughter and we have talked about it -she is also very beautiful, educated and very smart, getting her second degree- and she would choose a YOUNG and educated partner and then work the two of them to get their goals.
She would prefer a European young gentleman for a partner and she is planning to apply for a job in a Nordic European country.
Wish biggest luck to your daughter - young ladies with talents and persistence deserve success and I hope she will get there :)
As for "rich" - very curious that this is the key word that most people catch in my statement - it seems that nobody here has problems with being handsome and clever but some finacial position in life is still to be worked on :) As I see it, to be rich does not always mean to be spoiled and to waste your time paying to young blondes , eating caviar and spend time in Monaco casino. But I really believe in brains and hard work, combined with some luck, and these three engines will definitely bring you to a secure financial and social situation. So what is so irritating about being rich?
UvitaOProtterdam, South Holland Netherlands60 posts
Tulefel: A quite a few times I’ve bumped in the same attitude in poor (with income lower than mine) men as well.
Happened also to me )) and actually i still believe that attitude to women and people in general doesn't depend much on their financial situation. I worked in a kids' camp in the USA, and together with american kids there were two children from the French Rothschild family, and there were perfect kids with polite attitude and manners, not arrogant or spoiled at all (comparing to american children, by the way). Another case - if the person achieved everything in his life by himself , due to hard work, and in this case people value what they have, and don't waste for nothing.
UvitaOProtterdam, South Holland Netherlands60 posts
chris27292729: Your selection is very limited,rich guy's are few.And as the song say, "money cannot buy love" Oh darn,you ain't looking for love,ain't you??
I know type of men I fall in love with )) and yes, success is one of the key points :) And guys, be honest - would you prefer stupid ugly and not really young lady , even with the biggest heart? I have plenty of friends like this , and they are all single, because guys need beauty, easy communication and kind heart comes only after the first two points click. So why we? girls, cannot ask for handsome, clever and rich guy? Sometims dreams come true ))
Yes, of course it exists. It is only a problem, in my opinion, if there is a huge difference between the two people.
I often get mail from people who have no job, no education, but BIG egos. They say they think we are a good match and I sit here and wonder what makes them think so (Perhaps they are socialists and want to redistribute my money into their account and then we would be equals ) Sorry, couldn't help a bit of sarcasm
UvitaOProtterdam, South Holland Netherlands60 posts
Scubadiva: Yes, of course it exists. It is only a problem, in my opinion, if there is a huge difference between the two people.
I often get mail from people who have no job, no education, but BIG egos. They say they think we are a good match and I sit here and wonder what makes them think so (Perhaps they are socialists and want to redistribute my money into their account and then we would be equals ) Sorry, couldn't help a bit of sarcasm
you really have a wicked sense of humour )) in my case the situation is a bit different - I have a good situation here, university degree and nice job, but generally ex USSR countries are in worse economical conditions than EU or USA .. so I regularly get offers from guys with hints how I can improve my economic conditions )) Very kind of them, isn't it ? ))
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Variants:
1) honesty is the best policy
2) this girl knows what she wants
3) your variant ;)