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Jun 15, 2011 5:39 PM CST This may be disrespectfull./but the truth.
jebencla
jebenclajebenclawillimstad, Netherlands Antilles1 Threads 11 Posts
We men are being ,corrected, rediculed,twisted,possibly condemned for making a choice to be looking for females without offsprings,,for the want of not accepting females with offspring we may be the worst thing out,,,,here it comes,,,,Where are the fathers ,,they are the appropiate individuals.
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Jun 15, 2011 5:51 PM CST This may be disrespectfull./but the truth.
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
jebencla: We men are being ,corrected, rediculed,twisted,possibly condemned for making a choice to be looking for females without offsprings,,for the want of not accepting females with offspring we may be the worst thing out,,,,here it comes,,,,Where are the fathers ,,they are the appropiate individuals.


There are some fathers who don't take responsibility for their children.

There are some women who feel the same about not dating men who have children.

So it's not just the men catching the heat.
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Jun 15, 2011 5:51 PM CST This may be disrespectfull./but the truth.
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
I think its a little sad to rule out the possibility of a relationship with anyone because they have a child, that applies to both genders.

In alot of cases the natural father/mother are part of a child's life, once the relationship is over and that to me thats how it should be when possible. Because a child is part of a persons life doesn't mean they can't go on to have a relationship with another partner.

End of the day its down to choice, women/men with children aren't always looking for a replacement parent. jmo
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Jun 15, 2011 5:52 PM CST This may be disrespectfull./but the truth.
nocturnal7
nocturnal7nocturnal7London, Greater London, England UK50 Posts
taking the kids on the weekends and paying child support and maintenance. its called divorce.dunno

rock on with the whinging thoughthumbs up uh oh
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Jun 15, 2011 5:56 PM CST This may be disrespectfull./but the truth.
maryrachelle
maryrachellemaryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada27 Threads 1,370 Posts
You have children.So why are you rejecting people who are in the exact same boat as you???
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Jun 15, 2011 5:57 PM CST This may be disrespectfull./but the truth.
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
maryrachelle: You have children.So why are you rejecting people who are in the exact same boat as you???


roll eyes rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 15, 2011 6:01 PM CST This may be disrespectfull./but the truth.
Happygolucky4uonline today!
Happygolucky4uonline today!Happygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
jebencla: We men are being ,corrected, rediculed,twisted,possibly condemned for making a choice to be looking for females without offsprings,,for the want of not accepting females with offspring we may be the worst thing out,,,,here it comes,,,,Where are the fathers ,,they are the appropiate individuals.
I think if a person does not want someone with children it is best to lay your cards on the table for all to see. It is not just females many men come with children too. And I can assure you I would want to know if a man felt that children were not what he wanted. It would save everyone alot of bs. Thank you for the honesty and the appropiate individual is some one who loves the child. teddybear
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Jun 15, 2011 7:12 PM CST This may be disrespectfull./but the truth.
jebencla: We men are being ,corrected, rediculed,twisted,possibly condemned for making a choice to be looking for females without offsprings,,for the want of not accepting females with offspring we may be the worst thing out,,,,here it comes,,,,Where are the fathers ,,they are the appropiate individuals.
I've gotten myself chewed out a couple of times for having an opinion about this, which I don't think is quite cricket, either. Not everyone wants a nuclear family, and not everyone wants a lifestyle that includes kids. We are not all cut from the same cloth, and if a man wants to find a woman to be with, marry, but does not want kids, either his own or adoptive, etc... is that not his right? It doesn't mean he doesn't like kids, or think negatively of them, but not everybody wants that, and I think that's OK if they don't. It is unfair to find fault with someone just because he knows what he wants. Fair enough?
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Jun 15, 2011 7:17 PM CST This may be disrespectfull./but the truth.
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
I'm kinda tired of this nonsense....funny how the people who always feel disrespected..men or women...are often...the most disrespectful of all.



What did you do ...to get the ball rolling to be disrespected?


Maybe you deserved it...ever thaought about that.

Somebody dosrepects me...I'll roast them.

AND THEY CAN SAY AND DO WHAT THEY WANT..


DEEP DOWN....


I ..



JUST..


DON'T ...

GIVE .....

A..














F.UCK.
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Jun 15, 2011 7:18 PM CST This may be disrespectfull./but the truth.
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
thewall2: I'm kinda tired of this nonsense....funny how the people who always feel disrespected..men or women...are often...the most disrespectful of all.
What did you do ...to get the ball rolling to be disrespected?Maybe you deserved it...ever thaought about that.

Somebody dosrepects me...I'll roast them.

AND THEY CAN SAY AND DO WHAT THEY WANT..DEEP DOWN....I ..
JUST..DON'T ...

GIVE .....

A..F.UCK.



CAUSE..


THAT'S..


HOW..



I...



































ROLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL!very mad
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Jun 15, 2011 7:25 PM CST This may be disrespectfull./but the truth.
thewall2: CAUSE..THAT'S..HOW..
I...ROLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL!
I don't see the OP's comments as being nonsense, but would be interested to know why you said that. Just a polite question, and I have been known to look at something differently if and when there is good ideas on the other person's view. Thanks.
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Jun 15, 2011 7:34 PM CST This may be disrespectfull./but the truth.
thewall2: I'm kinda tired of this nonsense....funny how the people who always feel disrespected..men or women...are often...the most disrespectful of all.
What did you do ...to get the ball rolling to be disrespected?Maybe you deserved it...ever thaought about that.

Somebody dosrepects me...I'll roast them.

AND THEY CAN SAY AND DO WHAT THEY WANT..DEEP DOWN....I ..
JUST..DON'T ...

GIVE .....

A..F.UCK.
Wall...why so much negativity? You have nothing to prove to anyone. Be true to yourself. And speak to others, as you wish to be spoken to. handshake
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Jun 15, 2011 7:34 PM CST This may be disrespectfull./but the truth.
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
having a ready made family would,nt worry me...what would worry me tho.........is .........wuold they accept me.....dunno dunno .......????
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Jun 15, 2011 7:37 PM CST This may be disrespectfull./but the truth.
Kaybee50: Wall...why so much negativity? You have nothing to prove to anyone. Be true to yourself. And speak to others, as you wish to be spoken to.
thumbs up (something's going on--I'm worried about him a little. Not his usual self)teddybear for you, dear
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Jun 15, 2011 7:40 PM CST This may be disrespectfull./but the truth.
tstone61
tstone61tstone61brayton, Iowa USA5 Threads 651 Posts
trueheart1941: having a ready made family would,nt worry me...what would worry me tho.........is .........wuold they accept me..... .......????
At your age not sayen your old. but you would be acepting of a ready made family have you not been there done that .wow cheers
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Jun 15, 2011 7:41 PM CST This may be disrespectfull./but the truth.
maryrachelle
maryrachellemaryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada27 Threads 1,370 Posts
Kaybee50: Wall...why so much negativity? You have nothing to prove to anyone. Be true to yourself. And speak to others, as you wish to be spoken to.
In 90 of his post he is dropping f bombs all over the place.It seems to be his way.dunno
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Jun 15, 2011 7:41 PM CST This may be disrespectfull./but the truth.
maryrachelle
maryrachellemaryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada27 Threads 1,370 Posts
maryrachelle: In 90 of his post he is dropping f bombs all over the place.It seems to be his way.
90%
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Jun 15, 2011 7:47 PM CST This may be disrespectfull./but the truth.
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
tstone61: At your age not sayen your old. but you would be acepting of a ready made family have you not been there done that .wow
hi there my friend.....yes been there and done it.........but would like to be part of a family again.....thumbs up
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Jun 15, 2011 7:50 PM CST This may be disrespectfull./but the truth.
tstone61
tstone61tstone61brayton, Iowa USA5 Threads 651 Posts
trueheart1941: hi there my friend.....yes been there and done it.........but would like to be part of a family again.....
cool just a thought ,hope ya find what your looking for , good luck ,cheers peace
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Jun 15, 2011 7:53 PM CST This may be disrespectfull./but the truth.
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
tstone61: cool just a thought ,hope ya find what your looking for , good luck ,
thanks ....Tcheers cheers
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