I've been on cs and other sites for close to two years now. I've had plenty of first dates. However the men I've met online seem to have some negative characteristics in common such as commitment phobia, immaturity, inability to sustain a relationship. In other words they're all wrong. So even though I don't have friends to hit the bar with, I've decided it's time to hit the bars and see who I can meet in real lifo. I don't think Mr. Right is on the net though you're welcome to prove me wrong.
missingLondon: I've been on cs and other sites for close to two years now. I've had plenty of first dates. However the men I've met online seem to have some negative characteristics in common such as commitment phobia, immaturity, inability to sustain a relationship. In other words they're all wrong. So even though I don't have friends to hit the bar with, I've decided it's time to hit the bars and see who I can meet in real lifo. I don't think Mr. Right is on the net though you're welcome to prove me wrong.
Well - - - - I have got the chance to talk to you couple of times, and read your posts on the forums - - - - I don't know you, but what I did notice is, that you are a very big perfectionist.
missingLondon: I've been on cs and other sites for close to two years now. I've had plenty of first dates. However the men I've met online seem to have some negative characteristics in common such as commitment phobia, immaturity, inability to sustain a relationship. In other words they're all wrong. So even though I don't have friends to hit the bar with, I've decided it's time to hit the bars and see who I can meet in real lifo. I don't think Mr. Right is on the net though you're welcome to prove me wrong.
In response to: I've been on cs and other sites for close to two years now. I've had plenty of first dates. However the men I've met online seem to have some negative characteristics in common such as commitment phobia, immaturity, inability to sustain a relationship. In other words they're all wrong. So even though I don't have friends to hit the bar with, I've decided it's time to hit the bars and see who I can meet in real lifo. I don't think Mr. Right is on the net though you're welcome to prove me wrong.
Thanks. I'm not looking for perfection. Just somebody with whom there is a degree of chemistry, character compatibility. E.g. tonight I have an unconfirmed dinner date that's been coming a long time. It's 5 pm and the guy though he's tentatively booked a restaurant hasn't told me where or at what time we're meeting, so I guess it's off. I find stuff like this very off putting. If somebody is interested in me they'll make time to meet me. I'm tired of chatting and relying on photos. I want to meet men in the flesh, have a chat and decide if i want to see them again without having to go on quasi blind dates with only a photo and chats to go by. Now that I've landed a g ood job every Friday I'll take myself out to dinner at an Intdian restaurant and then hit my favourite bar for some live music and hope to meet new people. Not having friends to go out with should not confine me indoors on the net.
LONG456christchurch, Canterbury New Zealand261 posts
missingLondon: Thanks. I'm not looking for perfection. Just somebody with whom there is a degree of chemistry, character compatibility. E.g. tonight I have an unconfirmed dinner date that's been coming a long time. It's 5 pm and the guy though he's tentatively booked a restaurant hasn't told me where or at what time we're meeting, so I guess it's off. I find stuff like this very off putting. If somebody is interested in me they'll make time to meet me. I'm tired of chatting and relying on photos. I want to meet men in the flesh, have a chat and decide if i want to see them again without having to go on quasi blind dates with only a photo and chats to go by. Now that I've landed a g ood job every Friday I'll take myself out to dinner at an Intdian restaurant and then hit my favourite bar for some live music and hope to meet new people. Not having friends to go out with should not confine me indoors on the net.
I have giving up trying to finding someone on this site. Not even gonna bother anymore.::frustrated:
missingLondon: Thanks. I'm not looking for perfection. Just somebody with whom there is a degree of chemistry, character compatibility. E.g. tonight I have an unconfirmed dinner date that's been coming a long time. It's 5 pm and the guy though he's tentatively booked a restaurant hasn't told me where or at what time we're meeting, so I guess it's off. I find stuff like this very off putting. If somebody is interested in me they'll make time to meet me. I'm tired of chatting and relying on photos. I want to meet men in the flesh, have a chat and decide if i want to see them again without having to go on quasi blind dates with only a photo and chats to go by. Now that I've landed a g ood job every Friday I'll take myself out to dinner at an Intdian restaurant and then hit my favourite bar for some live music and hope to meet new people. Not having friends to go out with should not confine me indoors on the net.
Yeah I agree with you on that one - - - - - In this respect we are on the same note - - - - and if one is really serious, one says where and when - - - -
The way the society is today I'd be very leary about dating anyone I met online.From what I've seen for myself of some people who are so cruel online to other people I'd be wondering if they were the very same if I were to meet them in person.
I'm well aware that we'd be taking simliar chances on the people we meet offline too.
LONG456christchurch, Canterbury New Zealand261 posts
Ccincy: The way the society is today I'd be very leary about dating anyone I met online.From what I've seen for myself of some people who are so cruel online to other people I'd be wondering if they were the very same if I were to meet them in person.
I'm well aware that we'd be taking simliar chances on the people we meet offline too.
Ccincy: The way the society is today I'd be very leary about dating anyone I met online.From what I've seen for myself of some people who are so cruel online to other people I'd be wondering if they were the very same if I were to meet them in person.
I'm well aware that we'd be taking simliar chances on the people we meet offline too.
I was lucky and found Mr.Right here on cs. We've been together for nearly over a year now. We've hit obstacles and have had to put some work into our relationship but I've never been happier. I agree that you need to get out and about to expand your search but always keep the internet in your sight cause you just never know.
Ccincy: The way the society is today I'd be very leary about dating anyone I met online.From what I've seen for myself of some people who are so cruel online to other people I'd be wondering if they were the very same if I were to meet them in person.
I'm well aware that we'd be taking simliar chances on the people we meet offline too.
Yeah you are right, but on the other hand I'd date you if you'd be a bit youngish
nanners2863: I was lucky and found Mr.Right here on cs. We've been together for nearly over a year now. We've hit obstacles and have had to put some work into our relationship but I've never been happier. I agree that you need to get out and about to expand your search but always keep the internet in your sight cause you just never know.
Hi Nanners, I'm very happy for you. I will remain on cs but I need to go out there and make friends even if it means going to a bar solo for some time.
nanners2863: I was lucky and found Mr.Right here on cs. We've been together for nearly over a year now. We've hit obstacles and have had to put some work into our relationship but I've never been happier. I agree that you need to get out and about to expand your search but always keep the internet in your sight cause you just never know.
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