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Jul 2, 2011 9:37 PM CST Being Played
faded_dino
faded_dinofaded_dinounknown, Tennessee USA13 Threads 1 Polls 1,674 Posts
We have all been through it and it sucks, but I have to tell you there is more to my story, so here goes...
Many of you know that I am exploring my Native American Heritage. I have discovered some things that I have looked for most of my life.
I even found someone that when I looked in his eyes, I saw something ancient. I saw a person that I had lost a very long time ago.

But.....I also knew that if either one of us turned away, it would be lost forever. We had a chance to fix what was torn away.
That will never happen now. He ran and not only did he run, but he had the balls to write me and tell me(as someone else) that he was killed in a head on collision on the way to work. I am no fool and I am far from stupid.

frustrated frustrated frustrated

Use greater caution...the lurkers are lurkingwine doh
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Jul 2, 2011 9:50 PM CST Being Played
Dagosto
DagostoDagostoKnoxville, Tennessee USA74 Threads 15 Polls 3,076 Posts
Oh I am so sorry to hear of this hon. I cry for you and with you.

You deserve better.

wine
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Jul 2, 2011 9:50 PM CST Being Played
chococherrie
chococherriechococherrieSomewhere over the Rainbow, Indonesia71 Threads 5 Polls 5,647 Posts
are fd what an idiot! sorry to hear that! maybe this journey u have to do is a solo onewave
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Jul 2, 2011 9:54 PM CST Being Played
Dreamyone
DreamyoneDreamyoneRaleigh, North Carolina USA4 Threads 1 Polls 913 Posts
teddybear
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Jul 2, 2011 9:56 PM CST Being Played
faded_dino
faded_dinofaded_dinounknown, Tennessee USA13 Threads 1 Polls 1,674 Posts
Thanks dag and choco....

Dag, I sent u an e-mail....

I dont feel sad or angry or anything....guess thats good...lol
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Jul 2, 2011 9:56 PM CST Being Played
faded_dino
faded_dinofaded_dinounknown, Tennessee USA13 Threads 1 Polls 1,674 Posts
Thank you, Dream....your a dear one
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Jul 2, 2011 9:57 PM CST Being Played
Actractorguy
ActractorguyActractorguyTims Ford Lake, Tennessee USA26 Threads 7 Polls 2,089 Posts
OH wow. So sorry to hear that. bouquet hug
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Jul 2, 2011 9:58 PM CST Being Played
faded_dino
faded_dinofaded_dinounknown, Tennessee USA13 Threads 1 Polls 1,674 Posts
Actractorguy: OH wow. So sorry to hear that.

Thank you, sweetie.....wine
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Jul 2, 2011 9:59 PM CST Being Played
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
comfort So sorry...
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Jul 2, 2011 10:01 PM CST Being Played
faded_dino
faded_dinofaded_dinounknown, Tennessee USA13 Threads 1 Polls 1,674 Posts
mbcasey: So sorry...
Thank you.....I really am okay...he doesn't know what he threw away...and I'm a better personwine
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Jul 2, 2011 10:16 PM CST Being Played
Dreamyone
DreamyoneDreamyoneRaleigh, North Carolina USA4 Threads 1 Polls 913 Posts
faded_dino: Thank you.....I really am okay...he doesn't know what he threw away...and I'm a better person

and you are right. You wouldn't want such a shallow person in your life.
Personally I would send a condolence card!
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Jul 2, 2011 11:15 PM CST Being Played
Nikogas
NikogasNikogasMetro, Oregon USA46 Threads 5 Polls 4,037 Posts
faded_dino: We have all been through it and it sucks, but I have to tell you there is more to my story, so here goes...
Many of you know that I am exploring my Native American Heritage. I have discovered some things that I have looked for most of my life.
I even found someone that when I looked in his eyes, I saw something ancient. I saw a person that I had lost a very long time ago.

But.....I also knew that if either one of us turned away, it would be lost forever. We had a chance to fix what was torn away.
That will never happen now. He ran and not only did he run, but he had the balls to write me and tell me(as someone else) that he was killed in a head on collision on the way to work. I am no fool and I am far from stupid.



Use greater caution...the lurkers are lurking

Wow!comfort sorry to hear that. You are correct though, at least for me, I have scammed by some pretty clever people..in my case they are women...I have found that even after meeting and long heart felt talks that the person you are living with or otherwise can be someone you never dreamed...be safe..all of us, Be Safe.
enough said
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Jul 2, 2011 11:22 PM CST Being Played
lucynad
lucynadlucynadSunny city, Sicilia Italy7 Threads 2,431 Posts
hi, dino wave

i'm sorry to hear about your experience...doh

i know you (as myself) like blues...

let's enjoy the king, then hug

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Jul 3, 2011 12:43 AM CST Being Played
mariespoodles
mariespoodlesmariespoodlesSydney, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 1,648 Posts
Dreamyone: and you are right. You wouldn't want such a shallow person in your life.
Personally I would send a condolence card rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing !


I once had a bf tell me he was diagnosed with cancer and strung me along for 5mths till I put 2 and 2 together and kicked him to the kerb... he rang me 18mths later and the first thing that came out of my mouth before hanging up on him was "oh... aren't you dead yet??" doh roll eyes roll eyes

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 3, 2011 12:48 AM CST Being Played
YesWho
YesWhoYesWhoWoodbury, New Jersey USA2 Threads 2,322 Posts
mariespoodles: I once had a bf tell me he was diagnosed with cancer and strung me along for 5mths till I put 2 and 2 together and kicked him to the kerb... he rang me 18mths later and the first thing that came out of my mouth before hanging up on him was "oh... aren't you dead yet??"
So sorry to hear what happen. Why are some people real a holes. You are a nice woman and you deserve much better.
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Jul 3, 2011 12:54 AM CST Being Played
manroe23
manroe23manroe23indonesia, Jakarta Indonesia7 Threads 6,801 Posts
Sorry to hear that hope you okay now hug comfort
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Jul 3, 2011 1:20 AM CST Being Played
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
Sorry to hear about what happened. That guy was not just a player, he was outright cruel. Maybe he even thought he was funny. Goes to show that the cromagnons are still among us devil
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Jul 3, 2011 1:33 AM CST Being Played
faded_dino: We have all been through it and it sucks, but I have to tell you there is more to my story, so here goes...
Many of you know that I am exploring my Native American Heritage. I have discovered some things that I have looked for most of my life.
I even found someone that when I looked in his eyes, I saw something ancient. I saw a person that I had lost a very long time ago.

But.....I also knew that if either one of us turned away, it would be lost forever. We had a chance to fix what was torn away.
That will never happen now. He ran and not only did he run, but he had the balls to write me and tell me(as someone else) that he was killed in a head on collision on the way to work. I am no fool and I am far from stupid.



Use greater caution...the lurkers are lurking
Sorry to hear that ,He Coward lost a Lovely Girl comfort hug
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Jul 3, 2011 6:46 AM CST Being Played
faded_dino
faded_dinofaded_dinounknown, Tennessee USA13 Threads 1 Polls 1,674 Posts
Thank you all......I really mean that!
Funny thing, when I find out the truth(and I always do), I find myself at peace, because I know I have done the right thing.
What he did, will come back to haunt him in a big way.
Some good did come out of it. I was getting overloaded with some of my volunteer work and cut some of it back...so now I have some free time again...
What to do?...lol....I will drawprofessor laugh wine
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Jul 3, 2011 7:24 AM CST Being Played
indromaniez
indromaniezindromaniezjakarta, Jakarta Indonesia73 Posts
warmest hug for you fd. he is an idiot i think. n the story about he was killed...seriously..
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