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Jul 14, 2011 1:03 PM CST what if.......
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
a person seems interested in you, but he or she is honest and says he or she is in a relationship already but it's about to end.

what if you know this relationship is not working....would you date that person?

do you think you're setting yourself up to get hurt or do you think...oh well, this relationship isn't working at all and it's a matter of time before it ends....so why not?

is the 'being honest' part important?

what is your opinion about this?
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Jul 14, 2011 1:05 PM CST what if.......
carenza: a person seems interested in you, but he or she is honest and says he or she is in a relationship already but it's about to end.

what if you know this relationship is not working....would you date that person?

do you think you're setting yourself up to get hurt or do you think...oh well, this relationship isn't working at all and it's a matter of time before it ends....so why not?

is the 'being honest' part important?

what is your opinion about this?
popcorn drink pouring
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Jul 14, 2011 1:05 PM CST what if.......
Sterling_Wollops
Sterling_WollopsSterling_WollopsMelburn't, Victoria Australia22 Threads 2 Polls 1,749 Posts
The grass is always greener on the other side...
Often folks in relationships will say that because they wish for something new but are happy with the comfort their relationship offers them wave
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Jul 14, 2011 1:06 PM CST what if.......
nomade2011
nomade2011nomade2011Mons, Hainaut Belgium7 Threads 125 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 14, 2011 1:07 PM CST what if.......
nomade2011
nomade2011nomade2011Mons, Hainaut Belgium7 Threads 125 Posts
Oops...I always forget to quote.

This one was for Ali rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 14, 2011 1:08 PM CST what if.......
nomade2011: Oops...I always forget to quote.

This one was for Ali
come here .... comfort hug ...go...laugh laugh

hi nomade wave
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Jul 14, 2011 1:09 PM CST what if.......
ColonelBogey
ColonelBogeyColonelBogeyHere, Surrey, England UK13 Threads 996 Posts
They guy can be approaching the end of his relationship and interested in someone else for the first time as many times as he wishes too.
doh
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Jul 14, 2011 1:09 PM CST what if.......
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
carenza: a person seems interested in you, but he or she is honest and says he or she is in a relationship already but it's about to end.

what if you know this relationship is not working....would you date that person?

do you think you're setting yourself up to get hurt or do you think...oh well, this relationship isn't working at all and it's a matter of time before it ends....so why not?

is the 'being honest' part important?

what is your opinion about this?


more important is tow to learn to lie like a pro...laugh

If there is no honesty ,what else should we build on the relationship
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Jul 14, 2011 1:10 PM CST what if.......
nomade2011
nomade2011nomade2011Mons, Hainaut Belgium7 Threads 125 Posts
carenza: a person seems interested in you, but he or she is honest and says he or she is in a relationship already but it's about to end.

what if you know this relationship is not working....would you date that person?

do you think you're setting yourself up to get hurt or do you think...oh well, this relationship isn't working at all and it's a matter of time before it ends....so why not?

is the 'being honest' part important?

what is your opinion about this?


In my opinion, of course that man had been honest by telling you that he is already involved in a relationship, but com'on! If this relationship will be ended in a short period of time...wait and see!

And the most part of time you will see that the man won't end the relationship scold
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Jul 14, 2011 1:10 PM CST what if.......
ColonelBogey: They guy can be approaching the end of his relationship and interested in someone else for the first time as many times as he wishes too.
Newton's 4th law ? laugh wave
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Jul 14, 2011 1:11 PM CST what if.......
Sterling_Wollops
Sterling_WollopsSterling_WollopsMelburn't, Victoria Australia22 Threads 2 Polls 1,749 Posts
nomade2011: Oops...I always forget to quote.

This one was for Ali


Stop laughing at me scold crying crying tongue
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Jul 14, 2011 1:13 PM CST what if.......
nomade2011
nomade2011nomade2011Mons, Hainaut Belgium7 Threads 125 Posts
Sterling_Wollops: Stop laughing at me


What if... I don't stop blushing
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Jul 14, 2011 1:14 PM CST what if.......
marijo70
marijo70marijo70Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK6 Threads 4 Polls 1,433 Posts
nomade2011: In my opinion, of course that man had been honest by telling you that he is already involved in a relationship, but com'on! If this relationship will be ended in a short period of time...wait and see!

And the most part of time you will see that the man won't end the relationship


I agree...sheep.. playball
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Jul 14, 2011 1:14 PM CST what if.......
ColonelBogey
ColonelBogeyColonelBogeyHere, Surrey, England UK13 Threads 996 Posts
ali110: Newton's 4th law ?

And every cheaters first.
cheers
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Jul 14, 2011 1:15 PM CST what if.......
Sterling_Wollops
Sterling_WollopsSterling_WollopsMelburn't, Victoria Australia22 Threads 2 Polls 1,749 Posts
nomade2011: What if... I don't stop


Then i may have to take drastic and oh so dire action ... boxing
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Jul 14, 2011 1:20 PM CST what if.......
mustbnutz
mustbnutzmustbnutzKingman, Arizona USA33 Threads 5 Polls 3,730 Posts
carenza: a person seems interested in you, but he or she is honest and says he or she is in a relationship already but it's about to end.

what if you know this relationship is not working....would you date that person?

do you think you're setting yourself up to get hurt or do you think...oh well, this relationship isn't working at all and it's a matter of time before it ends....so why not?

is the 'being honest' part important?

what is your opinion about this?




Over is not over until "the fat lady sings"......

doh
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Jul 14, 2011 1:21 PM CST what if.......
nomade2011
nomade2011nomade2011Mons, Hainaut Belgium7 Threads 125 Posts
Sterling_Wollops: Then i may have to take drastic and oh so dire action ...


I'm ready frustrated
I will do the same thing to you if necessary frustrated

hug
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Jul 14, 2011 1:21 PM CST what if.......
54xmax
54xmax54xmaxDublin, Ireland32 Threads 5 Polls 1,712 Posts
carenza: a person seems interested in you, but he or she is honest and says he or she is in a relationship already but it's about to end.

what if you know this relationship is not working....would you date that person?

do you think you're setting yourself up to get hurt or do you think...oh well, this relationship isn't working at all and it's a matter of time before it ends....so why not?

is the 'being honest' part important?

what is your opinion about this?


Run for your life this person don't know what the hell it want's if it would want to end, it would end and move on . . . This kind of person needs an emotional crouch and can't be alone If you ask how she was going from one relationship to another it will be always the same story - - - - in between there will be no alone time . . . . . They are emotional vipers - - - - Normal people sort things out with the past, sort them selves out and then move on - - - ( There are exceptions to the rule ) - - - but in general RUN
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Jul 14, 2011 1:22 PM CST what if.......
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
It's not over untill the lady with a few extra pounds sings grin

oh and rebounds suck.....
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Jul 14, 2011 1:22 PM CST what if.......
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
thanks for the replies so far.

I would stay out of it all together. I think I would set myself up for some serious hurt, knowing this man will not leave his girlfriend or wife.

I saw a profile today of a man who says he is in a relationship and he is having kids.
he is looking for a new girlfriend and in between the lines I read that he is not happy with his current relationship.

I wondered what kind of women would contact him, knowing he is in a relationship already, with kids involved.

and I also wondered why this man put this in his profile. I must say, it's extremely honest as far as I am concerned but it's not really appealing for women to read this.

I expect not much replies to his profile and in a way he is setting himself up for hurt. on the other hand, maybe this man is just looking for some banter, allthough he hasn't said that in his profile...
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