Feeling Vulnerable (58)
feelinglost: Since I have been on CS I have learnt several things about women one of these is that many feel vulnerable a sentiment not common in men.
Understanding the fact that women feel vulnerable goes a long way to explaining why women are the way they are, for example a woman may not tell you about her feelings, a woman may not tell you exactly what she is thinking this is not because they don’t want too it is because their nature does not allow them to leave themselves at risk to any form of assault on their emotions.
A woman’s vulnerability comes in several forms it maybe something as simple as not wanting to post a photo in their profile as this may lead to being harassed by large amounts of mail, alternatively a woman may feel vulnerable after detailing or asked to detail events of a personal or semi personal nature... so the next time you wonder why your wife, girlfriend, partner or whatever is acting a little defensive then you may want to consider what you have done or said has left them feeling vulnerable
Understanding the fact that women feel vulnerable goes a long way to explaining why women are the way they are, for example a woman may not tell you about her feelings, a woman may not tell you exactly what she is thinking this is not because they don’t want too it is because their nature does not allow them to leave themselves at risk to any form of assault on their emotions.
A woman’s vulnerability comes in several forms it maybe something as simple as not wanting to post a photo in their profile as this may lead to being harassed by large amounts of mail, alternatively a woman may feel vulnerable after detailing or asked to detail events of a personal or semi personal nature... so the next time you wonder why your wife, girlfriend, partner or whatever is acting a little defensive then you may want to consider what you have done or said has left them feeling vulnerable
I am not vulnerable and I know men who are more vulnerable than women. They are less open and hide their thoughts. It is not connected with gender, but more individual characteristics.
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feelinglost: Since I have been on CS I have learnt several things about women one of these is that many feel vulnerable a sentiment not common in men.
Understanding the fact that women feel vulnerable goes a long way to explaining why women are the way they are, for example a woman may not tell you about her feelings, a woman may not tell you exactly what she is thinking this is not because they don’t want too it is because their nature does not allow them to leave themselves at risk to any form of assault on their emotions.
A woman’s vulnerability comes in several forms it maybe something as simple as not wanting to post a photo in their profile as this may lead to being harassed by large amounts of mail, alternatively a woman may feel vulnerable after detailing or asked to detail events of a personal or semi personal nature... so the next time you wonder why your wife, girlfriend, partner or whatever is acting a little defensive then you may want to consider what you have done or said has left them feeling vulnerable
not sure about this vulneralbe thing .....but voluptuous seems like to a good thing...Understanding the fact that women feel vulnerable goes a long way to explaining why women are the way they are, for example a woman may not tell you about her feelings, a woman may not tell you exactly what she is thinking this is not because they don’t want too it is because their nature does not allow them to leave themselves at risk to any form of assault on their emotions.
A woman’s vulnerability comes in several forms it maybe something as simple as not wanting to post a photo in their profile as this may lead to being harassed by large amounts of mail, alternatively a woman may feel vulnerable after detailing or asked to detail events of a personal or semi personal nature... so the next time you wonder why your wife, girlfriend, partner or whatever is acting a little defensive then you may want to consider what you have done or said has left them feeling vulnerable
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feelinglost: Since I have been on CS I have learnt several things about women one of these is that many feel vulnerable a sentiment not common in men.
Understanding the fact that women feel vulnerable goes a long way to explaining why women are the way they are, for example a woman may not tell you about her feelings, a woman may not tell you exactly what she is thinking this is not because they don’t want too it is because their nature does not allow them to leave themselves at risk to any form of assault on their emotions.
A woman’s vulnerability comes in several forms it maybe something as simple as not wanting to post a photo in their profile as this may lead to being harassed by large amounts of mail, alternatively a woman may feel vulnerable after detailing or asked to detail events of a personal or semi personal nature... so the next time you wonder why your wife, girlfriend, partner or whatever is acting a little defensive then you may want to consider what you have done or said has left them feeling vulnerable
Understanding the fact that women feel vulnerable goes a long way to explaining why women are the way they are, for example a woman may not tell you about her feelings, a woman may not tell you exactly what she is thinking this is not because they don’t want too it is because their nature does not allow them to leave themselves at risk to any form of assault on their emotions.
A woman’s vulnerability comes in several forms it maybe something as simple as not wanting to post a photo in their profile as this may lead to being harassed by large amounts of mail, alternatively a woman may feel vulnerable after detailing or asked to detail events of a personal or semi personal nature... so the next time you wonder why your wife, girlfriend, partner or whatever is acting a little defensive then you may want to consider what you have done or said has left them feeling vulnerable
Women don't need words to understand emotions, they can read much in people without the spoken word. Which is why Women often "tell" you how they feel, without literally telling you how they feel.
But you're right, this keener awareness, compassion and empathy that is inherent to Women does on the flipside make them more fragile and vulnerable. Just calling Women vulnerable though will promote a vulnerable response - being defensive.
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feelinglost: Since I have been on CS I have learnt several things about women one of these is that many feel vulnerable a sentiment not common in men.
Understanding the fact that women feel vulnerable goes a long way to explaining why women are the way they are, for example a woman may not tell you about her feelings, a woman may not tell you exactly what she is thinking this is not because they don’t want too it is because their nature does not allow them to leave themselves at risk to any form of assault on their emotions.
A woman’s vulnerability comes in several forms it maybe something as simple as not wanting to post a photo in their profile as this may lead to being harassed by large amounts of mail, alternatively a woman may feel vulnerable after detailing or asked to detail events of a personal or semi personal nature... so the next time you wonder why your wife, girlfriend, partner or whatever is acting a little defensive then you may want to consider what you have done or said has left them feeling vulnerable
Understanding the fact that women feel vulnerable goes a long way to explaining why women are the way they are, for example a woman may not tell you about her feelings, a woman may not tell you exactly what she is thinking this is not because they don’t want too it is because their nature does not allow them to leave themselves at risk to any form of assault on their emotions.
A woman’s vulnerability comes in several forms it maybe something as simple as not wanting to post a photo in their profile as this may lead to being harassed by large amounts of mail, alternatively a woman may feel vulnerable after detailing or asked to detail events of a personal or semi personal nature... so the next time you wonder why your wife, girlfriend, partner or whatever is acting a little defensive then you may want to consider what you have done or said has left them feeling vulnerable
Vulnerability is not gender biased, it is just handled differently by males and females...Being vulnerable is a good thing...It means we are sensitive and it is a protective "instinct" .What "can" cause problems is "how" we handle our vulnerability...This is just one more reason why trust is vital to a good relationship.....
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feelinglost: Since I have been on CS I have learnt several things about women one of these is that many feel vulnerable a sentiment not common in men.
Understanding the fact that women feel vulnerable goes a long way to explaining why women are the way they are, for example a woman may not tell you about her feelings, a woman may not tell you exactly what she is thinking this is not because they don’t want too it is because their nature does not allow them to leave themselves at risk to any form of assault on their emotions.
A woman’s vulnerability comes in several forms it maybe something as simple as not wanting to post a photo in their profile as this may lead to being harassed by large amounts of mail, alternatively a woman may feel vulnerable after detailing or asked to detail events of a personal or semi personal nature... so the next time you wonder why your wife, girlfriend, partner or whatever is acting a little defensive then you may want to consider what you have done or said has left them feeling vulnerable
Understanding the fact that women feel vulnerable goes a long way to explaining why women are the way they are, for example a woman may not tell you about her feelings, a woman may not tell you exactly what she is thinking this is not because they don’t want too it is because their nature does not allow them to leave themselves at risk to any form of assault on their emotions.
A woman’s vulnerability comes in several forms it maybe something as simple as not wanting to post a photo in their profile as this may lead to being harassed by large amounts of mail, alternatively a woman may feel vulnerable after detailing or asked to detail events of a personal or semi personal nature... so the next time you wonder why your wife, girlfriend, partner or whatever is acting a little defensive then you may want to consider what you have done or said has left them feeling vulnerable
I am every bit the opposite. I feel compelled to say what's on my mind and how I feel. It is all part of open communication. Otherwise, we are just wasting precious time, and time is not to be wasted.JMO
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THANK YOU!!! Someone who finally " gets it!" Women arethe pursued and men are usually more aggressive, and it is our nature to be wary of your intentions until we know you better. Also we aren't your "buddies" so trying to do the " male bonding" thing with us usually just makes us
and it u get too nosy we wonder why you aren't more interested in being lovy dovey
like what IS his agenda?????
and it u get too nosy we wonder why you aren't more interested in being lovy dovey
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leigh2154: Vulnerability is not gender biased, it is just handled differently by males and females...Being vulnerable is a good thing...It means we are sensitive and it is a protective "instinct" .
What "can" cause problems is "how" we handle our vulnerability...This is just one more reason why trust is vital to a good relationship.....
What "can" cause problems is "how" we handle our vulnerability...This is just one more reason why trust is vital to a good relationship.....
what do u mean leigh by, " how we handle our vulnerability?"
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@vyoleta
I was surprised at your responce after having read your post "I don't know what to do" sounds to me as though you are feeling very vulnerable in that post
I was surprised at your responce after having read your post "I don't know what to do" sounds to me as though you are feeling very vulnerable in that post
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I am vulnerable.I need a woman to let me snuggle into her breasts just to make me secure.
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Picking up the soap in the clink 
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@venere08
Obviously I generalised in what I had to say, of course there are people like yourself who speak their mind and readily show their feelings, generally speaking (again) I would have thought some men find that frightening in a woman... Have you encountered this?
Obviously I generalised in what I had to say, of course there are people like yourself who speak their mind and readily show their feelings, generally speaking (again) I would have thought some men find that frightening in a woman... Have you encountered this?
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feelinglost: @sterling
Not if you are gay!!
Not if you are gay!!
Suppose it may take some breaking in
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feelinglost: @time4fun
Get a life pal!
Whats your problem?Get a life pal!
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feelinglost: Since I have been on CS I have learnt several things about women one of these is that many feel vulnerable a sentiment not common in men.
Understanding the fact that women feel vulnerable goes a long way to explaining why women are the way they are, for example a woman may not tell you about her feelings, a woman may not tell you exactly what she is thinking this is not because they don’t want too it is because their nature does not allow them to leave themselves at risk to any form of assault on their emotions.
A woman’s vulnerability comes in several forms it maybe something as simple as not wanting to post a photo in their profile as this may lead to being harassed by large amounts of mail, alternatively a woman may feel vulnerable after detailing or asked to detail events of a personal or semi personal nature... so the next time you wonder why your wife, girlfriend, partner or whatever is acting a little defensive then you may want to consider what you have done or said has left them feeling vulnerable
Understanding the fact that women feel vulnerable goes a long way to explaining why women are the way they are, for example a woman may not tell you about her feelings, a woman may not tell you exactly what she is thinking this is not because they don’t want too it is because their nature does not allow them to leave themselves at risk to any form of assault on their emotions.
A woman’s vulnerability comes in several forms it maybe something as simple as not wanting to post a photo in their profile as this may lead to being harassed by large amounts of mail, alternatively a woman may feel vulnerable after detailing or asked to detail events of a personal or semi personal nature... so the next time you wonder why your wife, girlfriend, partner or whatever is acting a little defensive then you may want to consider what you have done or said has left them feeling vulnerable
WTG!!! You really do get it
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I think we ALL have vunerable moments, men and women. I think its part of the human experience more so than a gender thang
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Understanding the fact that women feel vulnerable goes a long way to explaining why women are the way they are, for example a woman may not tell you about her feelings, a woman may not tell you exactly what she is thinking this is not because they don’t want too it is because their nature does not allow them to leave themselves at risk to any form of assault on their emotions.
A woman’s vulnerability comes in several forms it maybe something as simple as not wanting to post a photo in their profile as this may lead to being harassed by large amounts of mail, alternatively a woman may feel vulnerable after detailing or asked to detail events of a personal or semi personal nature... so the next time you wonder why your wife, girlfriend, partner or whatever is acting a little defensive then you may want to consider what you have done or said has left them feeling vulnerable