is wealth worth holding onto (25)
happyslapperdublin, Dublin Ireland1 Threads 6 Postsguys and girls..just read an article about the new female "dragon"...it says that she recommends that wealthy ladies have a prenup contract signed before tying the knot and it reminded me of some of the more careful females in our midst on this site..this is the type of thing i have in mind..ladies who like to be wined and dined...weekends away etc and at least one irish lass who clearly stated that she wanted some one solvent as she was not paying for any man..although one assumes that there are other ladies who have modernised their views on going dutch...how do you ladies feel about the ladies who, to use that old metaphor feel that " whats mine is mine and yours is ours"
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happyslapper: guys and girls..just read an article about the new female "dragon"...it says that she recommends that wealthy ladies have a prenup contract signed before tying the knot and it reminded me of some of the more careful females in our midst on this site..this is the type of thing i have in mind..ladies who like to be wined and dined...weekends away etc and at least one irish lass who clearly stated that she wanted some one solvent as she was not paying for any man..although one assumes that there are other ladies who have modernised their views on going dutch...how do you ladies feel about the ladies who, to use that old metaphor feel that " whats mine is mine and yours is ours"
This should be a good one.Oh BTW here they say, what's mine is mine and what's yours is mine.
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No one has the right to anything I have and I feel the same of any man I might get involved with. It makes for an easy break if needed. If prenup is requested, I will have one of my own.
Once my ex wanted me to quit working, so I cut my hours and made less income, after splitting I had to work harder to get were I was before the marriage.
Once my ex wanted me to quit working, so I cut my hours and made less income, after splitting I had to work harder to get were I was before the marriage.
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The saying in mine and my b/f household is that what income we earn is ours to which we contribrute to our household.We came to that agreement the day we moved in with one another.There is no what's mine is mine and what his is his kinda thing.Even tho we're not married but living anything of mine is his and what's will be mine.Most of what we have we bought together.
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Ccincy: The saying in mine and my b/f household is that what income we earn is ours to which we contribrute to our household.We came to that agreement the day we moved in with one another.There is no what's mine is mine and what's his is his kinda thing.Even tho we're not married but living together anything of mine will become his and what's hisa will be mine.We both made out wills to that affect.Most of what we have anyway we bought together.
Well I messed the first one up good.
I'm trying to do two things at once.Corrected
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the real question i was asking are women motivated to love someone thru money
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happyslapper: the real question i was asking are women motivated to love someone thru money
NO
and to answer your OP,i would share what i have with someone im in a relationship with,same as i would expect he would share with me,what he has..
only fair,if and when the relationship is over and we take our separate ways(in case,there are not kids to consider)everyone to go back to what has been before..
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happyslapper: the real question i was asking are women motivated to love someone thru money
No and double and triple no.
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totally agree with you...so are these girls ruling out great guys by designating money as a prerequisite to happiness
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happyslapper: guys and girls..just read an article about the new female "dragon"...it says that she recommends that wealthy ladies have a prenup contract signed before tying the knot and it reminded me of some of the more careful females in our midst on this site..this is the type of thing i have in mind..ladies who like to be wined and dined...weekends away etc and at least one irish lass who clearly stated that she wanted some one solvent as she was not paying for any man..although one assumes that there are other ladies who have modernised their views on going dutch...how do you ladies feel about the ladies who, to use that old metaphor feel that " whats mine is mine and yours is ours"
Having someone who is "solvent" is different to wanting someone who is "rich".
Most people, men or women, want someone who can financially support at least themselves.
How you share your income, once a couple is down to individual choice.
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Bodecia: Having someone who is "solvent" is different to wanting someone who is "rich".
Most people, men or women, want someone who can financially support at least themselves.
How you share your income, once a couple is down to individual choice.
Most people, men or women, want someone who can financially support at least themselves.
How you share your income, once a couple is down to individual choice.
No, its totally different.
Solvent means they are able to live independently and at least have the means, albeit basic to support themselves.
Rich means that they have surplus cash.
Solvent is good enough for me; its the man that matters.
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Bodecia: No, its totally different.
Solvent means they are able to live independently and at least have the means, albeit basic to support themselves.
Rich means that they have surplus cash.
Solvent is good enough for me; its the man that matters.
Solvent means they are able to live independently and at least have the means, albeit basic to support themselves.
Rich means that they have surplus cash.
Solvent is good enough for me; its the man that matters.
And I just quoted myself..
Thats probably illegal in some states..
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happyslapper: the real question i was asking are women motivated to love someone thru money
No, not me....
I can love a man who does not talk about money.
The more money they have the cheaper they are.
jmho
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I think if a man a woman spilt up then they each should be allowed to keep 100% what was theirs before they met and then split 50:50 the new stuff they created while together.
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happyslapper: before i go ..and it was lovely to chat...how would you feel if a man mentioned money in this wy on his profile..would it be a yes or a no
I just checked out your profile
you handled this thread well, thanks for the chuckle.Best wishes in your search.
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billyj1: I think if a man a woman spilt up then they each should be allowed to keep 100% what was theirs before they met and then split 50:50 the new stuff they created while together.
BINGO! Here in the state of Ohio, USA, I believe anything acquired by an individual prior to a marriage is not considered a marital asset; thus reverting back to the original individual... including cash, stocks, bonds, real estate etc... with some exceptions whereas the other party involved helps maintain any of the aforementioned stuff.
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happyslapper: i see your point but are you not playing with words ..rich solvent etc..or are ladies just emphasising the category of man they want..i never ever see men use this type of description
No we are not just playing with words ...
A solvent person is someone who is capable of assuming their own fiancial responsibilities however large or small they are and preferably living within their means (no debts or able to pay them back). It has absolutely nothing to do with wealth.
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billyj1: I think if a man a woman spilt up then they each should be allowed to keep 100% what was theirs before they met and then split 50:50 the new stuff they created while together.
I agree. My ex used money I made before we married to start his business. He said I'd get it back. When I mentioned it, he said "you have a roof over your head".
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