I want you back BUT... (4)
itchywitch: totally agree with you but having said that, not all of us go about doing things the right ways all the time...you wouldnt cheat if really in love??? but if you really loved would you not leisen??? taking for granted is that not a hardship on its own??? hmmmm im not rightly sure which is the disloyal one here
eh' just for the record this is not about me .. ok
eh' just for the record this is not about me .. ok
Hey missus
I totally get your point hun, but the whole thing about being in a relationship is figuring out how to communicate with each other especially when they couple is going through a hard time, it's not always easy to listen or to even realise that you're not listening. But it is easy to know when you are cheating and if the person in question has and sense of right or wrong it's damn easy for them to say no. Not being able to listen sometimes isn't a conscious decision, being with someone else is...
Thumblina: Hey missus
I totally get your point hun, but the whole thing about being in a relationship is figuring out how to communicate with each other especially when they couple is going through a hard time, it's not always easy to listen or to even realise that you're not listening. But it is easy to know when you are cheating and if the person in question has and sense of right or wrong it's damn easy for them to say no. Not being able to listen sometimes isn't a conscious decision, being with someone else is...
I totally get your point hun, but the whole thing about being in a relationship is figuring out how to communicate with each other especially when they couple is going through a hard time, it's not always easy to listen or to even realise that you're not listening. But it is easy to know when you are cheating and if the person in question has and sense of right or wrong it's damn easy for them to say no. Not being able to listen sometimes isn't a conscious decision, being with someone else is...
i get what your saying too thumbs but choosing not to leisen is as conscious as falling into the arms of another but having that said any of the two could claim to be emotionally stressed
some partners do give their cheating partners chances i wonder is many because they feel guilty that maybe they done nothing to prevent it when it was maybe pointed out to them.. just a thought.
itchywitch: i get what your saying too thumbs but choosing not to leisen is as conscious as falling into the arms of another but having that said any of the two could claim to be emotionally stressed some partners do give their cheating partners chances i wonder is many because they feel guilty that maybe they done nothing to prevent it when it was maybe pointed out to them.. just a thought.
think a lot has to do with the circumstances of the cheating too, anyone could slip up, be it drink related or otherwise as opposed to having an affair, a one night stand might be forgiven, a long term affair deffo not having said that (nd sadly i speak from experience) as far as i'm concerned once a person cheated on me in any way, shape or form its bye bye regardless of whether i still had strong feelings for her or not, once that trust has been broken imo there's no future
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for a long time your partners been trying to talk to you, but you keeping pushing it aside thinking there are more importants things to maybe deal with other then your relationship. as a result of not dealing with it something happens leaving you with no choice but to deal with after finding your partner in the arms of another...
after all the sudden reactions, like the hurt the tears the betrayal the fighting the arguing after all that has had its lash what if your partner wanted you back and deep down you wanted him/her back also but you said a definant NO because they cheated on you.... my question is, is that fair???