This is a topic that has cropped up a lot in converstions this last year. Some females have fear of being blackmailed by the X BF for photos that they shared while together. Some men do threaten to blackmail the females with the evidence Its a trust thing I am sure, and then things can go badly wrong. Just something to chat about and your imputt is naturally of interest as always. CS Rules apply keep it clean please.
brum_mumBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK2,659 posts
Sailfree: This is a topic that has cropped up a lot in converstions this last year. Some females have fear of being blackmailed by the X BF for photos that they shared while together. Some men do threaten to blackmail the females with the evidence Its a trust thing I am sure, and then things can go badly wrong. Just something to chat about and your imputt is naturally of interest as always. CS Rules apply keep it clean please.
This is a good topic V hun... We all have to be so careful these days as people can be so manipulative. Being blackmailed by someone we have/had feelings for, would, I can only imagine...be a very difficult situation. I haven't been threatened or blackmailed, yet! But that's because I don't have loads of people taking an "honest" interest in me.
Wow_FactorLondon, Greater London, England UK3,698 posts
Sailfree: This is a topic that has cropped up a lot in converstions this last year. Some females have fear of being blackmailed by the X BF for photos that they shared while together. Some men do threaten to blackmail the females with the evidence Its a trust thing I am sure, and then things can go badly wrong. Just something to chat about and your imputt is naturally of interest as always. CS Rules apply keep it clean please.
Hi Sail, what sort of blackmail can be done with innocent photos - I don't understand. And if they are rauncy photos then it serves them right for trusting the negatives of the photos or the originals with the BF or GF - stupid is as stupid does etc! Even if you trust someone and the relationship is strong there still has to be an element of doubt and caution as people hold back, have skeletons in the cupboard, can't be trusted with a joint bank account etc. Always keep half of one per cent doubt in every relationship.
Wow_Factor: Hi Sail, I am good thanks, and pleased to see you are too! I think perhaps it is the young who get themselves in positions that us older ones wouldn't. With age comes caution and wisdom, although they are exceptions of course.
Yes Wow life is super and could not ask for more thankfully.
Not so sure its the younger ones as from what I heard it was in the middle age group. As you say exceptions being the operative word here. It just shows the quality of the people nowadays.
Sailfree: This is a topic that has cropped up a lot in converstions this last year. Some females have fear of being blackmailed by the X BF for photos that they shared while together. Some men do threaten to blackmail the females with the evidence Its a trust thing I am sure, and then things can go badly wrong. Just something to chat about and your imputt is naturally of interest as always. CS Rules apply keep it clean please.
jonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK3,691 posts
Well, i wouldnt go as far as black mail an ex ,
but ,
When i was about 23 , i was living with a Barmaid ,who decided to screw someone behind me back ,, so i put all the pics of her on the Pub notice board .
jonnt: Well, i wouldnt go as far as black mail an ex ,
but ,
When i was about 23 , i was living with a Barmaid ,who decided to screw someone behind me back ,, so i put all the pics of her on the Pub notice board .
{Am i forgiven }
Oh Jonnt, well we all did silly things when young, but you were indeed naughty to do that. hehehhehehe
jonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK3,691 posts
Wow_Factor: You will need to go to Confession!
I have an ability to shock people , not that i want to ,its just something in my charactor , i think im just a normal type ,but i have a tendency to make peoples hair curl without even tryin ,
my ex before my ex wife if that makes sense and i used to take photos of eah other it was fun i devoped the photos myself as i had an intrest in photography then and my old man hada dark room. After we split we destroyed the photos and the negatives so neither of us could use them to hurt the other. we spit amicably as i have mentioned on here before so blackmail would never come into. wish i had kept one photo of her she was one hot woman who i stil carry a toch for nearly 16 yeras later.
jonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK3,691 posts
Tomcats2: my ex before my ex wife if that makes sense and i used to take photos of eah other it was fun i devoped the photos myself as i had an intrest in photography then and my old man hada dark room. After we split we destroyed the photos and the negatives so neither of us could use them to hurt the other. we spit amicably as i have mentioned on here before so blackmail would never come into. wish i had kept one photo of her she was one hot woman who i stil carry a toch for nearly 16 yeras later.
Yep such a pity you dont have any left , i could have put it in my local while you bought me a Beer
Tomcats2: my ex before my ex wife if that makes sense and i used to take photos of eah other it was fun i devoped the photos myself as i had an intrest in photography then and my old man hada dark room. After we split we destroyed the photos and the negatives so neither of us could use them to hurt the other. we spit amicably as i have mentioned on here before so blackmail would never come into. wish i had kept one photo of her she was one hot woman who i stil carry a toch for nearly 16 yeras later.
Hi TC at least you did the decent thing and destroyed any evidence that may hurt the other. Nice one. Respect.
islandgirl62somewhere in, Queensland Australia1,601 posts
Sailfree: This is a topic that has cropped up a lot in converstions this last year. Some females have fear of being blackmailed by the X BF for photos that they shared while together. Some men do threaten to blackmail the females with the evidence Its a trust thing I am sure, and then things can go badly wrong. Just something to chat about and your imputt is naturally of interest as always. CS Rules apply keep it clean please.
NO - and if you a fear of being blackmailed, then swipe the carpet from under their feet and be up front up about - then what does the blackmailer gain....a big fat zero
islandgirl62: NO - and if you a fear of being blackmailed, then swipe the carpet from under their feet and be up front up about - then what does the blackmailer gain....a big fat zero
Hi Thank you for post. WEll I suppose many would love to do just that, its not always that easy though. Some do use the females for favours with this blackmail to their own ends. Its shameful and they always deny ever doing it.
Phoenix: I'm not that narrow minder or childish so nope...
Indeed quite. Well if the lady that has children and lets them watch while she posts on the CS is the one you are proctecting, then you are sadly let down. It was she who told other females on a night out that you the Green bearded leprachaun did blackmail her over pronographic photos. You are so far fetched that there is no way to come back from it. The all mighty Phoenix indeed, you are not lilly white. If one lies then the memory must be superb as it does come back to bite one on the rear end. Touche!!!!!
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this last year.
Some females have fear of being blackmailed by the X BF for
photos that they shared while together.
Some men do threaten to blackmail the females with the evidence
Its a trust thing I am sure, and then things can go badly wrong.
Just something to chat about and your imputt is naturally of interest as always.
CS Rules apply keep it clean please.