Why do we search for a partner!!! ( Archived) (28)

Sep 18, 2011 6:58 AM CST Why do we search for a partner!!!
Sunny143
Sunny143Sunny143christchurch, Canterbury New Zealand112 Threads 20 Polls 1,093 Posts
When we all know that one loses his/her happiness and freedom after getting commited!confused
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Sep 18, 2011 7:16 AM CST Why do we search for a partner!!!
dahlianum
dahlianumdahlianumHardanger, Hordaland Norway1 Threads 17 Posts
Sunny143: When we all know that one loses his/her happiness and freedom after getting commited!

Don't search then - and stay commited to happiness and freedom! yay
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Sep 18, 2011 7:22 AM CST Why do we search for a partner!!!
reb56
reb56reb56carthage, Missouri USA55 Polls 8,629 Posts
Sunny143: When we all know that one loses his/her happiness and freedom after getting commited!
lord sent us searchin.
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Sep 18, 2011 7:24 AM CST Why do we search for a partner!!!
Kittt
KitttKitttMartinsburg, West Virginia USA1 Threads 29 Posts
to each his own....I am looking for a committment...maybe not marriage this time around. But it is the perogative of the one searching as to what they want, how they feel about it, and where it goes.

I want happiness and freedom too, but I would rather be committed in one relationship with one great man....that's how I see it. I can still be happy and still have freedom....just need that specialness, too, of being with only one man.
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Sep 18, 2011 7:28 AM CST Why do we search for a partner!!!
Wineman42
Wineman42Wineman42Bath, Ontario Canada11 Threads 563 Posts
Sunny143: When we all know that one loses his/her happiness and freedom after getting commited!


I find it quite the opposite , I was happier with my wife and now that she is gone I have been alone and miserable
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Sep 18, 2011 7:33 AM CST Why do we search for a partner!!!
manroe23
manroe23manroe23indonesia, Jakarta Indonesia7 Threads 6,801 Posts
Iam not searching for anyone doh laugh
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Sep 18, 2011 7:39 AM CST Why do we search for a partner!!!
Sunny143
Sunny143Sunny143christchurch, Canterbury New Zealand112 Threads 20 Polls 1,093 Posts
but iam searching for you since ages,where were u???
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Sep 18, 2011 7:43 AM CST Why do we search for a partner!!!
ejobes
ejobesejobesBatemans Bay, New South Wales Australia3 Threads 26 Posts
Every human being wants to be loved, something in our nature cries out to be loved by another. I am strongly convinced that marriage is designed to meet that need for deep intimacy and love.
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Sep 18, 2011 7:56 AM CST Why do we search for a partner!!!
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
Sunny143: When we all know that one loses his/her happiness and freedom after getting commited!
That's an easy one to answer... Some people just never learn and are also gluttons for punishment uh oh
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Sep 18, 2011 7:58 AM CST Why do we search for a partner!!!
Sunny143
Sunny143Sunny143christchurch, Canterbury New Zealand112 Threads 20 Polls 1,093 Posts
moping
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Sep 18, 2011 8:43 AM CST Why do we search for a partner!!!
kitten5121
kitten5121kitten5121java, Central Java Indonesia753 Posts
Sunny143: When we all know that one loses his/her happiness and freedom after getting commited!


happiness n freedom is the things on couples to work it out together but still getting equally committed. if the balance is off, the relationship is suffers. if men affraid get commited must be he is dating or involved with anyone else or he have a history of being afraid of commitments, same thing with women. Need understanding for both of how to value their freedom and how to value their independence at the same time. Considering the a "till death do us apart" its a long term of understanding. writing


cats meow
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Sep 18, 2011 9:09 AM CST Why do we search for a partner!!!
Ur_Knight
Ur_KnightUr_KnightWindsor, Ontario Canada10 Threads 2,176 Posts
Zellarrone1: That's an easy one to answer... Some people just never learn and are also gluttons for punishment


rolling on the floor laughing

I like to twist that around and make it...

Some people keep trying, determined to get it right grin

yay
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Sep 18, 2011 9:12 AM CST Why do we search for a partner!!!
leigh2154
leigh2154leigh2154Crossville, Tennessee USA5 Threads 6,408 Posts
Sunny143: When we all know that one loses his/her happiness and freedom after getting commited!


Just your opinion, which is fine, but not shared by everyone here...for that matter, anywhere....Love makes the world go round!!yay
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Sep 18, 2011 9:14 AM CST Why do we search for a partner!!!
jonnt
jonntjonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK47 Threads 3,691 Posts
Me personaly havnt got a clue why some people cant be as happy on there own as they think they could be by having a partner .?

Its nice to be able to share things with someone else ,but if it isnt happening then just get on with life with an adopted mindset .

JMHO
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Sep 18, 2011 9:18 AM CST Why do we search for a partner!!!
leigh2154
leigh2154leigh2154Crossville, Tennessee USA5 Threads 6,408 Posts
jonnt: Me personaly havnt got a clue why some people cant be as happy on there own as they think they could be by having a partner .?

Its nice to be able to share things with someone else ,but if it isnt happening then just get on with life with an adopted mindset .

JMHO


Peeps can be happy single, they can be happy married...Also the reverse....wine
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Sep 18, 2011 9:22 AM CST Why do we search for a partner!!!
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
Sunny143: When we all know that one loses his/her happiness and freedom after getting commited!


If people are afraid of losing his/her happiness and freedom, they really shouldn't be seeking commitment...simple wine
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Sep 18, 2011 9:23 AM CST Why do we search for a partner!!!
Ur_Knight
Ur_KnightUr_KnightWindsor, Ontario Canada10 Threads 2,176 Posts
leigh2154: Peeps can be happy single, they can be happy married...Also the reverse....


I'm so happy single... that I want to *share* it smitten
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Sep 18, 2011 9:26 AM CST Why do we search for a partner!!!
leigh2154
leigh2154leigh2154Crossville, Tennessee USA5 Threads 6,408 Posts
Ur_Knight: I'm so happy single... that I want to *share* it


thumbs up Excellent point!....hug
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Sep 18, 2011 9:28 AM CST Why do we search for a partner!!!
jonnt
jonntjonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK47 Threads 3,691 Posts
leigh2154: Peeps can be happy single, they can be happy married...Also the reverse....


Yep ,thats a fact , been there done that 24 yrs ,and very good ,

Now just meeting energy hitch hikers in reality and o so negative ,{see profile}

Very happy with just good friends ..

handshake
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Sep 18, 2011 9:32 AM CST Why do we search for a partner!!!
leigh2154
leigh2154leigh2154Crossville, Tennessee USA5 Threads 6,408 Posts
jonnt: Yep ,thats a fact , been there done that 24 yrs ,and very good ,

Now just meeting energy hitch hikers in reality and o so negative ,{see profile}

Very happy with just good friends ..


Can never have too many "good" friends my friend!handshake

bouquet
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