to each his own....I am looking for a committment...maybe not marriage this time around. But it is the perogative of the one searching as to what they want, how they feel about it, and where it goes.
I want happiness and freedom too, but I would rather be committed in one relationship with one great man....that's how I see it. I can still be happy and still have freedom....just need that specialness, too, of being with only one man.
ejobesBatemans Bay, New South Wales Australia26 posts
Every human being wants to be loved, something in our nature cries out to be loved by another. I am strongly convinced that marriage is designed to meet that need for deep intimacy and love.
Sunny143: When we all know that one loses his/her happiness and freedom after getting commited!
happiness n freedom is the things on couples to work it out together but still getting equally committed. if the balance is off, the relationship is suffers. if men affraid get commited must be he is dating or involved with anyone else or he have a history of being afraid of commitments, same thing with women. Need understanding for both of how to value their freedom and how to value their independence at the same time. Considering the a "till death do us apart" its a long term of understanding.
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