separtated (26)

Oct 3, 2011 2:17 AM CST separtated
divinereeef39
divinereeef39divinereeef39dublin, Dublin Ireland7 Threads 42 Posts
just curious ,, would you go out with a guy or girl who has separted posted on there profile ,,, would u trust that they are ??mumbling
Oct 3, 2011 2:51 AM CST separtated
nuala
nualanualadublin, Dublin Ireland12 Threads 6,456 Posts
divinereeef39: just curious ,, would you go out with a guy or girl who has separted posted on there profile ,,, would u trust that they are ??


Yes I would and have, but I did get stung by one man, he ticked all the right boxes and I always said the tell tale signs are there. We just have to look out for them, one being not able to spend a night out. So when this man booked us a lovely night out for new year's eve, I really thought that he was. Until two weeks later a woman rings me, calling me all sorts of names, and I was a marriage wrecker......wow I was totally shocked and when I challenged him in the middle of Grafton st, he started to cry and beat himself calling himself names....I walked away from him and deleted his number. But it took me along time to get over that event.
Oct 3, 2011 3:06 AM CST separtated
ladycinders
ladycindersladycindersWaterford, Ireland2 Threads 72 Posts
Funny enough I'm separated and was thinking that when originally joined. Would people think hmmmm is she separated really ( I am) but I guess you have to take people at their word until their is reason not to. I'm very trusting but at the same time you have to be careful.
Oct 3, 2011 3:11 AM CST separtated
divinereeef39
divinereeef39divinereeef39dublin, Dublin Ireland7 Threads 42 Posts
i was going to just post it bout guys but can ye imagine the grief i would get , xx
Oct 3, 2011 3:16 AM CST separtated
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
divinereeef39: i was going to just post it bout guys but can ye imagine the grief i would get , xx


Why, cos all women are perfect lovely little creatures?scold
Oct 3, 2011 3:19 AM CST separtated
divinereeef39
divinereeef39divinereeef39dublin, Dublin Ireland7 Threads 42 Posts
off course angel
Oct 3, 2011 3:38 AM CST separtated
divinereeef39: just curious ,, would you go out with a guy or girl who has separted posted on there profile ,,, would u trust that they are ??


Separtated, separted and separated all the same thing rightlaugh
Oct 3, 2011 3:45 AM CST separtated
divinereeef39
divinereeef39divinereeef39dublin, Dublin Ireland7 Threads 42 Posts
just curious ,, would you go out with a guy god my spelling is dreadfull ....
Oct 3, 2011 6:16 AM CST separtated
Glatlol
GlatlolGlatlolDublin, Ireland2 Threads 5,358 Posts
divinereeef39: just curious ,, would you go out with a guy or girl who has separted posted on there profile ,,, would u trust that they are ??


I was seperated for 11 years before I got divorced. Have met guys from here who were actually seperated and some who werent, same as in real life.
Oct 3, 2011 6:35 AM CST separtated
70Libra
70Libra70LibraCounty, Waterford Ireland43 Threads 6,782 Posts
divinereeef39: just curious ,, would you go out with a guy or girl who has separted posted on there profile ,,, would u trust that they are ??

Given that it can take many years to actually get divorced... yes, I would, until proven otherwise.
Oct 3, 2011 6:46 AM CST separtated
mollie90
mollie90mollie90Meath, Louth Ireland5 Threads 2,502 Posts
I have been on one date from CS and he was single never married..I have been asked out by others on here...and from my experience most have no problem with saying they are married or in a relationship.
Oct 3, 2011 7:50 AM CST separtated
fifitheminx
fifitheminxfifitheminxDublin, Ireland35 Threads 4,039 Posts
im seperated..i know im genuine..so yeah..

i tend to trust til proven otherwise..rather than the other way around..

better for the soul
Oct 3, 2011 8:22 AM CST separtated
BordorFox
BordorFoxBordorFoxDublin, Ireland87 Posts
I see no issue with it really.

However it would depend on some additional scenarios really.

Is she still hung up over him, is their kids involved, drama.

Does she ever want kids or more kids...etc

I couldn't just base a woman over her relationship status.

I want to know a lot more before i participate offline.
Oct 3, 2011 8:37 AM CST separtated
Ahwell
AhwellAhwellDublin, Ireland23 Posts
In response to: just curious ,, would you go out with a guy or girl who has separted posted on there profile ,,, would u trust that they are ??


Why-ever not!
A parent male/female would should never be concidered separated from his/her kids. Ye make it sound like a competition between the user and the used. Fact is in any relationship and I'm not saying going out with someone is a 'relationship' it's just a mutual exploration of the other.Once a parent always a parent, and family comes first for both sides of exploration.Therin lies the destructive element of new relationships not the spouses.

uh ohdoh
Oct 3, 2011 8:41 AM CST separtated
70Libra
70Libra70LibraCounty, Waterford Ireland43 Threads 6,782 Posts
Ahwell: Why-ever not!
A parent male/female would should never be concidered separated from his/her kids. Ye make it sound like a competition between the user and the used. Fact is in any relationship and I'm not saying going out with someone is a 'relationship' it's just a mutual exploration of the other.Once a parent always a parent, and family comes first for both sides of exploration.Therin lies the destructive element of new relationships not the spouses.

Ummm.... I believe the OP was referring to the 'Marital Status' part of the profile and not whether the member is/was a parent.
Oct 3, 2011 8:50 AM CST separtated
Envy51
Envy51Envy51Meath, Ireland66 Threads 4 Polls 1,631 Posts
divinereeef39: just curious ,, would you go out with a guy or girl who has separted posted on there profile ,,, would u trust that they are ??


Just wondering if someone has in a relationship on their profile and was purely looking for friendship would you meet them .............?

Question to all conversing
Oct 3, 2011 8:52 AM CST separtated
70Libra
70Libra70LibraCounty, Waterford Ireland43 Threads 6,782 Posts
Envy51: Just wondering if someone has in a relationship on their profile and was purely looking for friendship would you meet them .............?

Question to all


Not one-on-one, but perhaps at one of the events/meets.
Oct 3, 2011 8:53 AM CST separtated
Ahwell
AhwellAhwellDublin, Ireland23 Posts
In response to: just curious ,, would you go out with a guy or girl who has separted posted on there profile ,,, would u trust that they are ??

Is it not the same thing! It would make no difference whatever otherwise; I could be wrong but really,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
Oct 3, 2011 8:54 AM CST separtated
70Libra
70Libra70LibraCounty, Waterford Ireland43 Threads 6,782 Posts
Ahwell: Is it not the same thing! It would make no difference whatever otherwise; I could be wrong but really,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

Nope, not the same thing... the marital status is the only section with the 'separated' option.
Oct 3, 2011 9:01 AM CST separtated
Ahwell
AhwellAhwellDublin, Ireland23 Posts
My humblest apologies Libra. I still find the question a little absurd though.
Perhaps the option should read 'legally separated'. However my advise would be as previous 'why not'
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