How ready are you to change your life? (55)
Nephrite: Ax.....euxarsiw poli!
Tha ithela na se xairetisw m`ena tragoudi pou mou aresei poli:
Tha ithela na se xairetisw m`ena tragoudi pou mou aresei poli:
What about your volley balll skills?
I¨m quite fed up of changing my life to be honest. I´ve been doing it countless times since my divorce in one way or another.
I want to quit travelling the world, however exciting that may seem, it´s not when you´re working, and retire to a beach house here in Spain with a labrador as my companion.
I suppose that could be termed as yet another change though.
I want to quit travelling the world, however exciting that may seem, it´s not when you´re working, and retire to a beach house here in Spain with a labrador as my companion.
I suppose that could be termed as yet another change though.
JAN_is: I¨m quite fed up of changing my life to be honest. I´ve been doing it countless times since my divorce in one way or another.
I want to quit travelling the world, however exciting that may seem, it´s not when you´re working, and retire to a beach house here in Spain with a labrador as my companion.
I suppose that could be termed as yet another change though.
I want to quit travelling the world, however exciting that may seem, it´s not when you´re working, and retire to a beach house here in Spain with a labrador as my companion.
I suppose that could be termed as yet another change though.
Nahhh Jan, that sounds like a plan..
even sometimes it can be fun to have 2 flats in 2 different countries and live a bit double lives with two different life experiences ...but you are right, it is risky to do that all for one person. What if s/he ... you know what ...
Yes it seems perfect to have 2 flats in 2 different countries but it gets expensive to travel back and
forth and if you are working then getting time off to visit the other person may not be easy.
So it depends on when your at in your life age etc.
I've meet a few people who have left their homeland to live with someone they met on line.
I too would do it if I can earn money in the new place why not.
Yes it seems perfect to have 2 flats in 2 different countries but it gets expensive to travel back and
forth and if you are working then getting time off to visit the other person may not be easy.
So it depends on when your at in your life age etc.
I've meet a few people who have left their homeland to live with someone they met on line.
I too would do it if I can earn money in the new place why not.
'Sarkoland', as you call it, is a far better place to reside than the Former UK, even alone. I can't see myself going back there after all the upheaval and turmoil of escaping, broken heart or not.
it CAN be realistic, it can be a disaster. I've moved to 5 countries, because of a job, not a man. I would move to the end of the world to be with the man I love IF it was love on both sides and a true chance on everlasting love.
At the end of the day, what you have in your heart makes your life blossom, what you have in your wallet can make life easier, but not complete.
It's a case of judging based on circumstances, but better to regret something you did, than something you didn't do.
At the end of the day, what you have in your heart makes your life blossom, what you have in your wallet can make life easier, but not complete.
It's a case of judging based on circumstances, but better to regret something you did, than something you didn't do.
what_looking_4: it CAN be realistic, it can be a disaster. I've moved to 5 countries, because of a job, not a man. I would move to the end of the world to be with the man I love IF it was love on both sides and a true chance on everlasting love.
At the end of the day, what you have in your heart makes your life blossom, what you have in your wallet can make life easier, but not complete.
It's a case of judging based on circumstances, but better to regret something you did, than something you didn't do.
At the end of the day, what you have in your heart makes your life blossom, what you have in your wallet can make life easier, but not complete.
It's a case of judging based on circumstances, but better to regret something you did, than something you didn't do.
Love always remains, it just changes, that's all. It's all about perspective.
"When Everything Changes, Change Everything" makes for interesting reading ...
"When Everything Changes, Change Everything" makes for interesting reading ...
thexfactor: Love always remains, it just changes, that's all. It's all about perspective.
"When Everything Changes, Change Everything" makes for interesting reading ...
"When Everything Changes, Change Everything" makes for interesting reading ...
Interesting, but if one keeps changing everything do they then run the risk of losing who they were in the first place..
I agree with growing as a person though.. as our life experiences do shape us and what actions we take in the future..
As for love, love does not always remain.. sometimes its lost for a million and one reasons.. It takes more than love alone to make a relationship work.. and I think most of us know that only too well.. Yet, applying as you refer, a new perspective, we all know that we have the ability to love again, and be loved as well..
I have been thinking about this question a lot recently ... I think I would have a hard time moving and would want the person to move to be with me, yet that too is asking a lot.
I think I just need to fall in love, then work out the ins and outs of the relationship. I believe that with understanding and open communication about all the aspects of coming together to live together in a marriage (I would not move or ask someone to move to be with me for less) a solution that works for both can be achieved.
For the right man and situation ... I guess I would move.
I think I just need to fall in love, then work out the ins and outs of the relationship. I believe that with understanding and open communication about all the aspects of coming together to live together in a marriage (I would not move or ask someone to move to be with me for less) a solution that works for both can be achieved.
For the right man and situation ... I guess I would move.
Hello all
Yes , it is realistic if both really accept all good and bad sides of each other , it is not question of distance .It is not very matter distance to some of us . I know many who dump each other as are living "to far" - in other city of same country . All matter is in our mind , if we have global mind for us no matter much is other country or other side of the world . But for sure we should be thous who had seen other cultures and country, as if not having no idea of how different it can be nice dream can make nightmare .
Yes , it is realistic if both really accept all good and bad sides of each other , it is not question of distance .It is not very matter distance to some of us . I know many who dump each other as are living "to far" - in other city of same country . All matter is in our mind , if we have global mind for us no matter much is other country or other side of the world . But for sure we should be thous who had seen other cultures and country, as if not having no idea of how different it can be nice dream can make nightmare .
Nephrite: Hello
I was inspired by few other posts to publish this here....
Basically, we are all situated somewhere, but we all are looking for a partner.
Imagine that you find someone here.....but he/she lives in other country. You both communicate in English, you managed to meet few times, but if you want to stay together one of the two has to leave his/her life/job/friends/environment to follow the other, and probably to learn one more language. The other one, respectively, should accept him/her and to provide some relative stability until he/she adapts in the new country, etc....
What do you think about this? Is it........realistic?
I do not write about ''love'', ''true love'', ''real love'' etc on purpose - I think what most people understand as ''love'' disappears when the first difficulties start.
Why am I asking.......I can afford both situations, but just wonder...am I the only one crazy person here? Is it realistic?
depends entirely upon what you are prepared to give up ...or the vice-versa ...speaking from an economical situation ..ie highest income ...or lifestyle ...what is desired !...the middle way could be of interest too both parties ..if that is the way for you both ...regardless of what ,how and where ...consider why ..who ..and when ? life just passes us by in megabites ...or is it giggabites ...big bites regardless !!I was inspired by few other posts to publish this here....
Basically, we are all situated somewhere, but we all are looking for a partner.
Imagine that you find someone here.....but he/she lives in other country. You both communicate in English, you managed to meet few times, but if you want to stay together one of the two has to leave his/her life/job/friends/environment to follow the other, and probably to learn one more language. The other one, respectively, should accept him/her and to provide some relative stability until he/she adapts in the new country, etc....
What do you think about this? Is it........realistic?
I do not write about ''love'', ''true love'', ''real love'' etc on purpose - I think what most people understand as ''love'' disappears when the first difficulties start.
Why am I asking.......I can afford both situations, but just wonder...am I the only one crazy person here? Is it realistic?
Perhaps it is about finding middle ground,when in this situation you would like to be together but here are practical considerations, work, children,aged relatives, etc.
However, maybe a little patience would allow you to work towards an answer?. A long holiday with your proposed partner, we know that you do not know a person unless you live with them for a while, at least a long holiday will provide some guidance.
I have lived and worked in many countries, made good friends and on my travels met some potential partners who did not live where I was based at the time, despite working for an airline where I travelled at no cost, it did get weary at some point, however much you like the person. These situations never worked out.Now I am based in one place it may be easier.
However, maybe a little patience would allow you to work towards an answer?. A long holiday with your proposed partner, we know that you do not know a person unless you live with them for a while, at least a long holiday will provide some guidance.
I have lived and worked in many countries, made good friends and on my travels met some potential partners who did not live where I was based at the time, despite working for an airline where I travelled at no cost, it did get weary at some point, however much you like the person. These situations never worked out.Now I am based in one place it may be easier.
Nephrite,Life is a constant change, is always changing as our perspectives and desires. What really matters is the present moment, stop worrying about tomorrow. If you both feel the same way, go for it!. Is realistic and seems you both were lucky to have found each other at the right timing!
If you love the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain - Dolly Parton
Congrats
More Threads
Gal / sdarlagg passed away on April 10, 2024
Say Anything Again
Unions support Democrats!
biggest lie
I'm a 53 YEAR'S YUNG MAN that lives back in the 80s
The GOP Representatives owned by Vladimir Putin
Karen McDougal - Playmate Model will testify in Hush Money Trial
The weird and the random facts around the world
beauty of the heart
What happened to CS while i was away.. (Long time)
More Threads
Report threads that break rules, are offensive, or contain fighting. Staff may not be aware of the forum abuse, and cannot do anything about it unless you tell us about it. click to report forum abuse »
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
Related Forums
- Gal / sdarlagg passed away on April 10, 2024
- Say Anything Again
- Unions support Democrats!
- biggest lie
- I'm a 53 YEAR'S YUNG MAN that lives back in the 80s
- The GOP Representatives owned by Vladimir Putin
- Karen McDougal - Playmate Model will testify in Hush Money Trial
- The weird and the random facts around the world
- beauty of the heart
- What happened to CS while i was away.. (Long time)
Ax.....euxarsiw poli!
Tha ithela na se xairetisw m`ena tragoudi pou mou aresei poli: