Age only matters if you let it....between consenting adults if the age difference isnt an issue then why would it matter..dont worry and be happy in your decision if you feel it is right
curly28Perth, Western Australia Australia5,450 posts
bemineCHA: He was 37yrs older than me. .But he's really a good man. .
Why someone so much older than you Being a really nice guy maybe not enough for true love and if you ended up with someone that much older and you had kids you could end up raising them on your own he might not be around to enjoy with you Why aren't you interested in someone more your age just curious??
curly28: Why someone so much older than you Being a really nice guy maybe not enough for true love and if you ended up with someone that much older and you had kids you could end up raising them on your own he might not be around to enjoy with you Why aren't you interested in someone more your age just curious??
I agree with your opinion curly, sounds like he would be like a father figure to her. Be careful words are words, reality is another matter.
I don't know. . It's really my first time to encounter situation like this. . I don't know why God gave him to me. . It was not my intention to meet him. . It just happened. . We're still in getting to know each other deeper process. .
I don't know. . It's really my first time to encounter situation like this. . I don't know why God gave him to me. . It was not my intention to meet him. . It just happened. . We're still in getting to know each other deeper process. .
a44dreamer: I agree with your opinion curly, sounds like he would be like a father figure to her. Be careful words are words, reality is another matter.
trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK8,005 posts
jac379: How do you think other people will view the age gap?
no doubt with distaste...as useual.......live your life the way you see it....or go with a youger man.....to please other people.........your life YOU......decide.....jmo.
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
trueheart1941: hi jac. i do see your point....power status....??....tho.....if i were to marry someone youger then myself.....equal status is a must in my eyes.....for it to work.......i joke not.
Not every bloke is man enough to make jam roly poly, y'know.
bemineCHA: I don't know. . It's really my first time to encounter situation like this. . I don't know why God gave him to me. . It was not my intention to meet him. . It just happened. . We're still in getting to know each other deeper process. .
It's rather god gave you to him
Getting to know each other online or in real life?
I'm being totally shallow and full of prejudices.. Is he foreigner?
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