Flirting- OK on a Date? ( Archived) (72)

Oct 23, 2011 6:55 PM CST Flirting- OK on a Date?
Have you ever had an on line or IRL date where the man you were with (or woman) was totally flirting with one or more other people WHILE you were on the date?\

What do you think of this? Would you say something to him? (her) What did you do/ would you do?


I've had it happen to me and just want to see the opinons of others...moping
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Oct 23, 2011 7:09 PM CST Flirting- OK on a Date?
Yes, men have a way of looking at women that makes you question them.
When I'm out with a man I never look at men but that does not stop them from looking at me.
Watch the people looking not the looker.
I believe in eye contact with people so if I look it will be at the face.
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Oct 23, 2011 7:11 PM CST Flirting- OK on a Date?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
I would leave Doll hug
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Oct 23, 2011 7:17 PM CST Flirting- OK on a Date?
Nikogas
NikogasNikogasMetro, Oregon USA46 Threads 5 Polls 4,037 Posts
felixis99: Have you ever had an on line or IRL date where the man you were with (or woman) was totally flirting with one or more other people WHILE you were on the date?\

What do you think of this? Would you say something to him? (her) What did you do/ would you do?I've had it happen to me and just want to see the opinons of others...
I just have to clarify,
What exactly is a date? don't think I can remember that,, that sounds familiar....but from what you said about the flirting man, I would walk away..lol.
;-}
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Oct 23, 2011 7:19 PM CST Flirting- OK on a Date?
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: Yes, men have a way of looking at women that makes you question them.
When I'm out with a man I never look at men but that does not stop them from looking at me.
Watch the people looking not the looker.
I believe in eye contact with people so if I look it will be at the face.


really looking at it from that perspective, I have had men totally flirt with me ( a friend's HUSBAND most recently) right in front of them

I feel it is not only poor manners. but embarrassing AND put me in an uncomfortable spot with my friend.....was not appreciativeprofessor
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Oct 23, 2011 7:19 PM CST Flirting- OK on a Date?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
felixis99: Have you ever had an on line or IRL date where the man you were with (or woman) was totally flirting with one or more other people WHILE you were on the date?\

What do you think of this? Would you say something to him? (her) What did you do/ would you do?I've had it happen to me and just want to see the opinons of others...


I have not but if I that were the scenario.

NEXT!

wine
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Oct 23, 2011 7:19 PM CST Flirting- OK on a Date?
Nikogas
NikogasNikogasMetro, Oregon USA46 Threads 5 Polls 4,037 Posts
even in the mirror I get direct eye contact, (with my clients)
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Oct 23, 2011 7:24 PM CST Flirting- OK on a Date?
Nikogas: I just have to clarify,
What exactly is a date? don't think I can remember that,, that sounds familiar....but from what you said about the flirting man, I would walk away..lol.
;-}


I think we can define a date perhaps differently, and not sure that the definition matters

but just for the sake of conversation - any time that you are involved romantically/semi romantically with someone in a personal interaction or activity- particularly if the outing or on line interaction is planned...to me it is fairly obvious when it is OK to be talking to everyone & anyone and when I need to be paying attention to the man I came in with...

but that's just me I guess... I do like your solution thoughthumbs up yay
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Oct 23, 2011 7:25 PM CST Flirting- OK on a Date?
venusenvy: I would leave Doll


yes I think u have a pointwine
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Oct 23, 2011 7:26 PM CST Flirting- OK on a Date?
manroe23
manroe23manroe23indonesia, Jakarta Indonesia7 Threads 6,801 Posts
I would leave , why staying if he doesn't want me wine
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Oct 23, 2011 7:34 PM CST Flirting- OK on a Date?
lifeisadream: I have not but if I that were the scenario.

NEXT!
laugh thumbs up
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Oct 23, 2011 7:35 PM CST Flirting- OK on a Date?
manroe23: I would leave , why staying if he doesn't want me
yup

who needs an uphill battle!
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Oct 23, 2011 7:35 PM CST Flirting- OK on a Date?
solitare
solitaresolitareBariloche, Rio Negro Argentina40 Threads 4,041 Posts
venusenvy: I would leave Doll


I did; it was insulting and rude.
Even the waiter asked the Maitre'D to asked that the woman be asked to leave as she was annoying other customers...He did. laugh
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Oct 23, 2011 7:40 PM CST Flirting- OK on a Date?
Leaving shows insecurity and we need not to be insecure when we are on a date.
You found him attractive and so do others.....
If he is handing out his phone number and secretly meeting someone in the back room, thats when I would call a cab.
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Oct 23, 2011 7:44 PM CST Flirting- OK on a Date?
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: Leaving shows insecurity and we need not to be insecure when we are on a date.
You found him attractive and so do others.....
If he is handing out his phone number and secretly meeting someone in the back room, thats when I would call a cab.


I was thinking of buying him a blindfold....could come in handy laterdevil








rolling on the floor laughing





ia all seriousness - I don;t care so much if other women are trying to get his attention. It is his responsibility to treat his date with respect and ignore the stares or inquiries
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Oct 23, 2011 7:58 PM CST Flirting- OK on a Date?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: Leaving shows insecurity and we need not to be insecure when we are on a date.
You found him attractive and so do others.....
If he is handing out his phone number and secretly meeting someone in the back room, thats when I would call a cab.
thumbs up
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Oct 23, 2011 8:02 PM CST Flirting- OK on a Date?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
We all look..we are only human..

but if he said something in appropriate then i would say something and if i did he would also..

its nice when others think your husband/or yourself is attractive..but that is that...
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Oct 23, 2011 8:04 PM CST Flirting- OK on a Date?
I guess we all have our inidividual place(s) where we "draw the line"

I actually did not do anything at the time, but asked him about it later

I felt it was rude and he did not agree

and we have parted ways


I would not have done that to him - even as a friend and I expected the same respect in return

( and I actaully did have another romantic interest at the time, but obviously NOT during a date with someone else - what is so hard to understnad here?)
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Oct 23, 2011 8:19 PM CST Flirting- OK on a Date?
kissmedeeply: We all look..we are only human..

but if he said something in appropriate then i would say something and if i did he would also..

its nice when others think your husband/or yourself is attractive..but that is that...


well I appreciate a variety of responses because I honestly had not had a date behave as such before - so I did not do anything about it at first - ws kinda stunned.

I do not think we perceived the evening in the same way, unfortunately as we were quite good friends

as for me I don;t particularly care or get any gratification out of someone else finding my partner attractive....I could care less
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Oct 23, 2011 8:30 PM CST Flirting- OK on a Date?
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
felixis99: Have you ever had an on line or IRL date where the man you were with (or woman) was totally flirting with one or more other people WHILE you were on the date?\

What do you think of this? Would you say something to him? (her) What did you do/ would you do?I've had it happen to me and just want to see the opinons of others...


I dont think you can equate an online date with a real life date. Sometimes you have no control over who contacts you on an online site while you are chatting to someone else. It may be polite to say you are busy but I would never declare an online date the 'real thing'. Real life dates...now you have a point.wave
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