Flirting- OK on a Date? (72)
alexlopes: Like someone said be glad the person showed his true colours in the beggining.Move on he is not that in too you or anybody he will allways be looking for that better one or other piece of tail...
and here I thougt I was irresistable
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kissmedeeply: it was mystry i was quoting
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i think flirting can happen without conversation. but there's a difference between flirting and looking. if i'm out on a date with someone, i'm there because i want to spend time with that person so i won't be flirting with anyone else. i would expect the same from my date.
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jono7: i think flirting can happen without conversation. but there's a difference between flirting and looking. if i'm out on a date with someone, i'm there because i want to spend time with that person so i won't be flirting with anyone else. i would expect the same from my date.
I agree. There is a huge difference between glancing at a few people in the room, and flirting - either by staring or otherwise
I think you make a good point that there are times when "just looking" can be just as inappropriate as other types of flirting - if it is detracting from the date, as the person you are dating has taken time out to spend with you and that is to be respected and appreciated
even if my date is not the hottest guy in the room - he gets my full attention. I've have had that happen on first meets where it was clear right from hello that I wasn't attracted, but that did not affect my behavior on the rest of the date.
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doberman3: All I can say, is be happy he was such a jerk? He put on no act and acted himself and saved you alot of trouble.
If he was doing that to me during dinner, blatant flirting with another woman. I would not act mad at all, I'd get up and go to the woman.
Then I'd tell her I'm a friend of his and said the worst thing about you.
Then I'd say I can not repeat it, but I'd go over and ask him.
I might even stand by and watch the action. Then go to ask him if everything was ok, but accidentally knock a glass of ice water. Oh dear!
The Doberman
If he was doing that to me during dinner, blatant flirting with another woman. I would not act mad at all, I'd get up and go to the woman.
Then I'd tell her I'm a friend of his and said the worst thing about you.
Then I'd say I can not repeat it, but I'd go over and ask him.
I might even stand by and watch the action. Then go to ask him if everything was ok, but accidentally knock a glass of ice water. Oh dear!
The Doberman
What? You'd happily hurt the feelings of another (innocent) woman because you chose to go out with a jerk?
I like the accidently knocking the glass over bit though, but only if he really was a jerk!!
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I see flirting just like beauty, It's "in the eye of the beholder". We cannot know what anyone else is thinking and any action can be misconstrued or interpreted as flirting by anyone even if it's not. Walking past a person can be taken as a "strike a pose" move, so really, I could care less.
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venusenvy: If he cant focus on you during date thats a good indication he would be a lousy lover, so why waste time
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donkeyshowdiva: I see flirting just like beauty, It's "in the eye of the beholder". We cannot know what anyone else is thinking and any action can be misconstrued or interpreted as flirting by anyone even if it's not. Walking past a person can be taken as a "strike a pose" move, so really, I could care less.
If it is just an odd glance or pose, may be. But if it is a repeated behavior, you would not miss it.
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joyaepace: Another important reason not to waste time with rude guys!
Well, I would just leave. Why waste time on something that you know has no future? I wouldnt feel badly for leaving if he had been that rude to me first. It wouldnt be the first time Ive jumped out the back door of a restaurant.
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I'm not understanding your response. I don't care if my guy flirts in front of me. I rather he be himself with or without me as opposed to others who are fake with their women and you cannot turn your back without "knowing". Me, I can be very flirtatious, and he doesn't mind either.
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joyaepace: If it is just an odd glance or pose, may be. But if it is a repeated behavior, you would not miss it.
k quoted it, I don't understand. odd glance or pose is flirting and repeated is too?
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nah not talking "just looking"
I don;t wanna get too caught up in nit picking - I just wonder if people still respect each other....
and how it's defined - I think flirting with another man while on a date would be disrespectful